Jennifer M

I remember a music video that I saw on MTV2 after hours (I think) back around the beginning of the 2000's. I can't remember the band, or the song, but I know it was rock and that the band was probably a one hit wonder. All I can remember about the video is that there are zombies and a wedding couple. I think it is the Bride that is a zombie and I think that she and the zombie people chase the Groom around until the end of the video. At the end it looks like the bride is going to kiss the groom but she bites his cheek thus turning him into a zombie. I remember he did like a shudder thing and was a zombie, then the bride and groom zombie-walked away holding hands. I cannot remember what band and song this is and it is driving me CRAZY! I could also have the characters mixed up, it might be the zombie groom chasing the human bride around. Please help if you remember this obscure video! Thanks. Oh and links to youtube or something similar would be helpful. Oh and no, it is not Avenged Sevenfold, a little piece of heaven. I have tried looking for this on youtube but haven't had any luck.

Thanks!

In a nutshell:

Been engaged for about 3 years. We've had our ups and our downs, but decided to stay together even though right now at this moment it has to be long distance (Navy.) This was all fine however until two weeks ago when he started acting really funny and saying some scary things via text and the phone. And now we (me+his family) suspect he is either schizophrenic or bipolar, will need treatment, and be discharged.

My issue is that I don't think that I want this over my head. I have my own life and dreams and I don't want to be the quicker picker upper for this guy. I feel so heartless saying this, but also I feel so tired of all of this crap. This is highly abridged as I doubt anyone would read the tale from start to finish, but suffice it say that this last time feels like it was the last straw for me. In one respect I want him to get help and get healthy, but I also kinda don't care as much as I think I should. I'm torn. Oh and did I mention that I don't want to come right out and break up with him because I don't want him to go totally bonkers and have me be the one who set him over the edge?

What in the world do you do in this situation?

My fiancee loves espresso and he and I had discussed getting an espresso machine before. He has since moved to VA (Navy) and no longer has the luxury of stopping at the Dunkin Donuts drive thru for his morning caffeine fix. So for Christmas this year I wanted to buy him:

- An espresso maker (with possibly a coffee maker built in)

- A coffee/espresso bean grinder

- two espresso cups, saucers

- a simple recipe book on how to make different coffee/espresso drinks

- some good espresso beans or maybe a sampler of beans

However, I am so unbelievable confused by all the variables involved with espresso. Pump versus steam? Ground beans versus pods? I have no idea what "tamping" is! Is there someone out there who is an espresso/coffee connoisseur that can help guide me?? I really need help as I want to give him quality items that also won't totally break my budget. I don't want to get the cheapy espresso makers from Walmart that will break in the first week. Let me know and perhaps we can talk via email in depth about all things espresso.

Thank you!

I have been toying with the idea of getting a monroe piercing as well as a nose piercing for quite a long time now. I am 23 and have had other piercings so I'm not a newbie, I am just divided. If I were to get these piercings I would have tiny studs with gems in them, most likely rhinestone or diamond with gold metal, to give you a better idea. I would get my right nostril pierced and my left lip pierced so that they weren't on the same side. Here is a picture of me, do you think that these piercings would look good or would they look out of place and make me look like a freak?

Thanks.

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And yeah I know my nose is kinda big, but I think that ring could actually make it a little prettier...

Okay I keep getting an email everytime one of my approved contacts posts a question. This is only happening with one of my contacts. I can't figure out how to turn this contact update thing off or if there is a way to or not. All I know is that it is amazingly annoying. Thanks.

Hello, I notice that there are a lot of posts relating to Bearded Dragons here and I had a general question.

How likely are you to recommend a Bearded Dragon as a pet, and do you have any stories about their character, etc.?

I ask this because I used to own anoles and I once had a beautiful male Iguana. I really miss having reptiles and would really like to have a pet in my lonely apartment, but not a cat or dog. I always love watching the baby Bearded Dragons in the pet store and so I was contemplating buying one.

As I have had reptiles before, I'm not really a newbie but am out of practice and would also appreciate any advice along with your answer. I don't want to accidentally kill or super-stress any animal.

Thanks!

I am 23, almost 24 and engaged. My fiancee and I met in college, then he went to the Navy and we have been coping with that since. Currently we both live in NY while he is doing some more training. My fiancee and I were both in co-ed fraternities in college, but his partied much much more. So he knows how to drink to be tipsy and to be obliterated. He is under a lot of stress from his job in the Navy, but he went to counseling for a time to help him with problems he had. Sorry that I am giving so much backstory but I am just trying to formulate a better picture for people who view this.

The problem is this: When we make plans to go out with friends or go back home to a fraternity formal, he drinks. I don't have a problem with him drinking, but he goes into overdrive. He is very competitive and he could probably out-drink most people, so he reaches what I call, "belligerent drunkiness." In the past this wasn't a problem, but since he joined the Navy (which I loathe) it seems that this has changed.

When he reaches this level of intoxication, he becomes uncharacteristically mean towards me. He does not lay a hand on me, so no worries there. However he is verbally abusive to me, and ONLY me. For example, when trying to help him to a cab to a friend's house he yelled at me to "Leave me the f*** alone," "Don't touch me," "I don't care," "I'm going to go lay down in the street," etc. and RAN away from me, but as soon as he saw one of his Navy friends he ran to them and was all smiles and dopey.

This has happened a couple times and I tell him that I don't want to go with him if he is planning to get that drunk. Also, he does not do this all the time, he doesn't even drink all the time, so I don't really think he is an alcoholic. He may have a couple beers here an there or at a restaurant, but when he goes out to a bar (with friends) usually he almost binge drinks.

He is going to Niagara Falls with two friends to get wasted all weekend and I am not joining them. We've had several serious talks lately and he says that this weekend will be one of his last big wasted weekends. He said he needed to grow up.

So...should I believe that he is going to stop drinking himself to idiocy when we or he goes out?

And...what does it mean that he hates me (when I haven't done anything...seriously...not lying) and is verbally abusive towards me and no one else, when he reaches that level of drunkiness?

Thanks for any answers, and please no smart-*** remarks. I am about a millimeter away from breaking it off with him and it hurts because I had wanted to marry him. Not looking for concrete answers to solve my life's problems, just ideas; he and I plan to start counseling together, too.

I recently moved to the Albany, NY area and I do not know very many people here at all; trying though. Furthermore I know from the phone book that there are a lot of places to get tattoos done around here, but I was hoping that someone from my area gets on Yahoo! answers and could give me some tips. I am hoping for some personal experiences here, be they with that person or a close friend of theirs. I really need a good knowledgeable artist because I designed my tattoo custom, and my last custom tattoo got a little bit messed up by the artist. So any help by my fellow upstate-ers would be appreciated. If not then maybe I will just go back to Pittsburgh to get the tattoo in the off chance that I am able to travel there.

Thanks.