Jessica

im engaged and i have a daughter with my fiance and we just bought a house. things arent like they use to be but we have worked through them but we just fought about a week ago and he ended it a day later he said he didnt mean it and wanted us to work it out and i agreed but some part of me thinks i agreed bc of our daughter and our new house together. i never get that nervous little school girl feeling over a cute guy but i did and im not sure why? any ideas i would never cheat and it would never cross my mind so confused about feeling that way while talking to this guy.

we have been togehter for 3 1/2 years and we just got engaged. he has always kept his phone locked whick wasnt a big deal until he went through mine which i have never had a lock on mine if i did he would flip. when we would fight he would send me pictures of other girls saying stuff about them and when we would make up he would just tell me they were just his friends and they were nobody. i have told him so many times i dont like it and it makes me uncomfortable and i would get mad tell him about it and i have also just talked to him about it but nothing has changed he says he has a lock on it just in case it ever gets stolen or if he looses it then they cant get in it. should i leave it alone bc im pretty sure he would never cheat on me or should i try to hack it and see if he is hiding anything?! he also tries to hide it when he types the code in but does it to where its not noticable but im not dumb i can see him turnig it away a little so i cant see his code...

Im engaged with a guy that i have been together with for 3 years we havent had the best relationship not even close to a good one but i was so in love i couldnt walk away. i ended up getting pregnant and i did leave for a while but he seemed to change so i went back and through my pregnancy he was amazing!!! so we ended up buying a house togehter but it seems lately its going back to the way it used to be. i just thought maybe it is stress from the new house and our new angel. she is the first kid for both of us, its tough adjusting and spending time together all we do is bicker now. is it bc we just arent use to the new life of our baby? i just dont know what to do i dont even know how he feels about me.