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Im 18. I'm sure the application is just like any other part time job. Pretty easy. But if I get the actual job, what can I expect while working there? Is it difficult to learn all the drinks? Because I worked at starbucks very briefly and the drinks are definitely a challenge to make and a lot to remember! Any tips?

For some reason tonight I've been having a lot of silent, smelly farts. I'm going over my boyfriend's house in an hour, and I don't want this to be annoying while I'm over there. So what can I do to limit the amount of farts, if it doesn't decrease by then?

this is a serious question

I love my bf and his parents are nice. But their house is disgusting. They live in a trailer (nothing wrong with that) but it's in a bad neighborhood. The house is not kept up with. There is piles of trash outside, they have a cockroach and spider problem inside, the walls and floors are falling apart, the house reeks of smoke, the house is messy, the kitchen and bathroom is nasty, etc. And there's two little children in the house. Also I'm pregnant and it makes me not want to come over his house now. I don't want myself subjected to that. We are both trying to get a place together, but until then we are stuck hanging out at his house. We can hang out at my house, but I don't have as much privacy as him and I get easily embarrassed by my family.

So I know there's nothing I can do about this bc it's not my house. But it makes me uncomfortable coming there. I always feel like something is crawling on me and I don't want to deal with the smoke smell while I'm pregnant. Opinions???

I live in SC. If I went to Mcdonalds and ONLY ordered a crispy ranch snack wrap, how much would it cost with tax? this is kind of important because I'm short on money right now

Before anyone bashes me. I REGRET THIS AND IM TRUTHFULLY SORRY. This was an unplanned pregnancy and I know I'm not ready. Since I found out I was pregnant, I've been thinking about abortion.

***THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO VOICE YOUR OPINION ON ABORTION. JUST PLEASE BE NONBIASED AND PROFESSIONAL AS IF YOU WERE A DOCTOR***

If what I have done has already had a bad effect to the baby, then I will definitely get an abortion. I don't want my child having any kind of disability because of my poor choices. If I was absolutely sure no harm has been done, I would consider keeping it. But of course I won't know until the baby is born, right?

The drug I took once while pregnant (last night) was 2 ecstasy pills.

And I was smoking cigarettes here and there. Like a half pack per day I think.

I just need advice. I haven't even been to an appointment yet to confirm the pregnancy/see if the baby is healthy and alive.

Back in January I was in a car accident. It was exactly a week after my 18th birthday. My brand new car (well it was a 2006, but I only got it a month before and it was a gorgeous car) was totaled. Thankfully no one got injured.

Right when the initial impact occurred that night, I honestly felt like it was NOT my fault. I was turning left and I was charged with "failure to yield." But like two cars turned that were right in front of me! Either it was a solid green light or a green arrow. At first I felt like it was an arrow, but I can't even remember anymore.

But if it was my fault, I still don't believe this is fair. I'm a young, responsible girl who is a GOOD DRIVER. If I really was at fault, well, I'll own up to that. But everyone makes mistakes in their life. I've been going through so much emotional distress from this accident. I feel like I've already paid for this accident with how much I've been going through. But now I'm being sued for more than what my insurance covers! What did I do to deserve this? I am just beginning my adult life, I finally found happiness with my life and myself, and now THIS happens. It just makes me so upset. I'm literally sobbing while writing this. I should have just died in that accident. I would have been better off, because now I'm just thinking of killing myself anyway. I've always been the kind of person who believes everything happens for a reason, but I have no idea what the reason for this was.

My boyfriend and I were half jokingly discussing threesomes. He said he would be down for a threesome with me and another girl. He said he wouldn't touch the other girl, she could just play with me and he would watch.

I'm more interested in a MMF threesome, but he's not. Let me just make it clear that he's not bi. The other male would be for me. I could give him head and he could have sex with me the same time as my boyfriend. Or the guy could play with me.

So how is his reasoning fair? Even if he really doesn't touch the other girl, he's still involved with the girl by seeing her naked and being around her in a sexual setting. It's just a fantasy of mine to have a mmf threesome, but that doesn't look like it's happening with my boyfriend. I have a fantasy of being with a girl too, but I don't want my boyfriend focusing on another girl.

I'm 5 weeks pregnant. I've always heard from my mother than you CANNOT drink coffee while pregnant. But I've also read online that you can have under 200mg of caffeine per day while pregnant without harming the baby. So which is true? Should I try to cut back to coffee once or twice per week to be on the safe side?

I bought the pack right before i found out I'm pregnant. I plan on just smoking this and then be completely done with it for at least the next 9 months.

Can I just smoke this? I don't know anyone who smokes so I don't want to waste this pack

Someone stole his favorite cologne, so I was thinking about buying him a new one. He doesn't have a lot of money to freely spend on things like this, so I'm sure he'll appreciate it and not expect it. also I just like doing nice things for people :) especially those I care about. The cologne itself is $65 and the set is $88. I might just get the whole set (comes with cologne bottle, deodorant, and rollerball).

Will this seem like I'm trying too hard to please him? Bc that's not my intention...he treats me amazing so I want to get him something nice.

He's never gotten me any gifts since we started dating 2 months ago, but that's probably just because he has bills to pay now and isn't really into that

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. Ever since he got his own place and I've been staying over (we're now considering living together), we've been having sex around 3 times a day. We will usually have sex in the morning once or twice and then sex before bed. I'm honestly addicted to it. He would usually initiate it first (which he still mostly does), but lately I've been dropping hints that I want to have sex. I think we both just have high sex drives.

So is this too much? I just don't want it to get boring. And is this healthy?

I'm 18 and he's 26. We met at work. I've been staying over his place a lot (he lives with two roommates, and one of them is probably going to leave next month). We are starting to talk about me moving in with him. He said he's cool with it, but he doesn't know how it's going to go. He said he only has to pay $50 extra per month for me to stay with him. And then I could probably help out with groceries.

I love him, but this is happening fast and it's stressful. And my mom hasn't met him yet.

What are some SPECIFIC TOPICS we need to discuss TOGETHER?

I'm upset because I don't want to ruin a good thing

I am 18 and my boyfriend is 26. We started dating last month. The other night during sex, he told me to dig my nails in his back. He then said, "I want you to make me bleed." I don't think I actually made him bleed, but he got red scratch marks on his back that will probably last a week or so. He said it was painful because of the sweat going into his skin, but he liked it.

After sex we talked about things relating to sex. (Which is great, because it shows we are becoming even more comfortable with each other and building a healthy relationship.) He said, "don't get me wrong I like passionate, slow sex, but I like being rough sometimes. I'm kind of a freak." He doesn't really seem like that right now though...maybe that is just because he is trying to be gentle and respectful to me because I'm younger, we just started dating, and I was a virgin before him.

But I'm literally CRAVING sex now ever since we first did it. I kind of like the thought of being submissive during sex.

He talked about how we could try certain things. I asked, "like what?" and he said I'm just gonna have to wait and see.

So next time we have sex should i say something like, "I want you to be rough with me." What would he do in this situation?

As a guy, would he like me saying this, or is it weird to ask for this?

So we went out last night over one of his friends house. There was probably about ten people there and it was a lot of fun. We were drunk and we made out a ton and were up against each other all night.

But tonight he wants to hang out after he gets off work. I said I'll go, and he said to be there at 11:30pm. Isn't that kinda late? I know that's when he'll be out of work, but still. It's just going to be him, one of his close friends, and me. And we'll be at his friends house again. He said he just wants to chill. Wtf does that mean?

I would want to have sex with him, but my reasons for not wanting sex tonight are SO stupid: 1. I'm insecure with my body. 2. I didn't have time to shave lol. (Not just my bikini area, I mean legs too)

So yeah it sounds like dumb reasons, but I would at least want to shave lol. So how can I tell him I don't want sex? ALSO how can I also make him know that I really like him, but I just don't want sex for TONIGHT. Should I just say maybe another time?

I'm a 17 year old girl. A guy I work with (who is 26) asked to hang out tonight. So I gave him my phone number. We're technically not "dating" at the moment, but I can tell that if things go well, we will eventually reach that point. This guy asked me if I wanted to go through with our plans literally right in front of our boss.. He probably didn't know exactly what we were talking about though.

Btw I turn 18 in 10 days so it's not that bad

I worked here for half a year now, and I obviously know it's way too soon for me to get promoted. But I'm a good worker and I plan on working here for as long as I can, so I want to do what I need to ensure I would be a good choice for a promotion in the near future. Two of my other coworkers recently got promoted to "team leader." They get manager discounts, they wear a different shirt, they have more responsibilities, and I'm assuming they may have gotten a pay increase (not sure though).

One of the guys has worked here two years, the other guy worked here for five years.

If I stay with the company as long as I can, it would be a great thing to get promoted, so I'm just asking for advice. Btw I'm 17 (turning 18 soon).

I'm 17 and I just recently got contacts. The right one was ALWAYS very comfortable, I can't even feel it. But the left one always felt weird. It wasn't too bad at first, but now the left contact almost hurts! I was at work yesterday and I had no choice but to remove the left contact and just wear one for the night. I didn't have my case with me, so the contact completely dried up. My mom said we can go to the eye doctors and they can give me another trial pair.

But why would only one contact be uncomfortable? Could it be because my left eye is *slightly* smaller than the other? Idk.

I'm a 17 year old girl, 145 lbs, 5'0. Over the past few months, I gained around 20 lbs. I have a slight double chin now, but only when I start tilting my head down. It's making me insecure, so I wanted to ask if I will easily lose the double chin after I lose weight?