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So I was Dating Girl A, we had been dating for a while and everything was going great. One of my concerns with this girl was that she wouldn't change her Facebook relationship status nor would she put a picture of me and her up. Now I know that sounds really unimportant but it becomes a major part of how I find out what was going on. So one day out of the blue, and really for no reason, I asked if I could look at her Facebook? She looked at me like I just killed her favorite pet. The look of, "ARE YOU CRAZY!", which was quickly followed by a stern. "NO!". That really raised by suspicions.

That coming weekend she was supposed to stay at my house for a week. The plan was that she would come over Thursday night and stay till the next week Friday. I asked to see her Facebook Monday. Tuesday we hung out as normal. Wednesday comes along and usually every day when she gets out of her classes she calls me at or around 2:45pm. 2:45 comes and goes, 3:30 I text her to see what's up? No answer, so now I'm getting worried. About 4:00pm I call her, she answers and says she going to have coffee with a friend from school named "Anna". I tell her not a problem, I'll see her when she gets done. And hour and a half goes by, and I text her just to see how she is doing, no answer. Two and a half hours go by, still no answer. At three hours I decide to call her, no answer. At 7:30pm, 3 and 1/2 hours later she said they went to mall after and she left her phone in the car. I believe her and say no problem.

Thursday comes along. And this time the same thing, no call, no text, nothing at 2:45. This time I don't say anything till 8pm that night and still I receive no answer. I don't hear from her till Friday afternoon claiming she wants to hang out. We go over to a friends house, the whole time we're hanging out she is hiding her phone and texting. Which is weird because she never does that. We read each others texts all the time. We go back to my house watch a TV show and the whole time she's look at the clock every 20 minutes or so. She walks out the door and give me a kiss.

I text her about 30 minutes later asking her what she was up to. She says going to her friend Anna's house because she needed to talk to a female friend about me and her. Up to this point I didn't think we were having any problem except for her disappearing acts that happened over the past few days. I tell her okay no problem.

Make a long story short... she disappears till Sunday afternoon, and I finally break it off with her. The next Tuesday, I find on her Facebook a guy's post that says "Chillin with Girl A" on the Friday that she disappeared. I didn't know this guy from steve. Come to find out they'd been chatting on Facebook for a LONG time. That's why she didn't want me to see her Facebook or change her relationship status.

Now she didn't consider that cheating. My thing is why would you hide it if it was harmless? Even if let's say they didn't have ANY sexual contact, why would you lie and say it was "Anna's" house? Now I asked her these questions and her story changed three times. What do you think?

She will not talk on the phone. I'll go see her, she'll flirt up a storm. She'll text me all night, but she will not talk on the phone. Why?

1. Smokes in the house, and makes the whole house stink of smoke. The smoke travel through the A/C system and into my room. Three times I have asked nicely for her to stop to no avail. Her excuse is I pay rent, so I can do whatever I want.

2. Ruins the carpet. The carpet of the living room is covered in stains from drinks that have been spilled. It looks horrible. I've tried to reason with her, and asked that she just not drink in the living room unless company is over or special occasions, but I get the same response as before.

3. Eats and drinks my food and drinks. We agreed that I would have my food and drinks and she would have hers. I don't touch her stuff, yet my food and drinks keep coming up missing.

4. Doesn't admit to any wrong doing or apologize for anything she has said or done. We'll get into arguments and she will say things that I wouldn't say to my worst enemy. Her excuse is I say things I don't mean when I'm mad, and somehow that is supposed to make it okay.

5. No sense of energy or water conservation for the sake of bills. I'm a firm believer in keeping the A/C at 75 and if you're hot get a fan, if you're cold put more clothes on. The same goes with the heat, I don't use the heat because of the huge power bill that would accrue. She will turn the A/C down to 71 or 70 and leave it for days, same with the heat she'll turn it up to 80. We split the bill and the bill keeps going up and up and up.

I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried talking to her, but she gets offended and just start screaming and yelling, claiming that "everything" bothers me. Now am I wrong that these things bother me? Would it bother you? How would you handle it?

Now the obvious answer to this question is move out. Well that's not possible, both of our names is on the lease and I don't want an eviction on my credit. So moving is out of the question.

Why do women keep a guy around just to make them happy? Yet won't give the guy the time of day? Come visit me, come visit me... flirt flirt flirt... then days if not weeks go by with out so much as text or phone call, and it starts over again. WHY WHY WHY?

Now you may be thinking, well she is just waiting for the guy to make the move. Not the case at all, text after text, and all he gets is answers to the questions, nothing more nothing less. But yet go see her and it's smile smile smile flirt flirt flirt oh it was so good to see you.

add to that the almost loss to Tennessee they should stay No. 2 the rest of the season, or maybe Texas should be No. 2 behind Florida?

Roll Tide Roll, right out the door!

who is 16, and he breaks and defaces your property is there anything law enforcement can do?

Anything with I or Mac attached to it automatically gets rave reviews even though other products are much better. Are they owed or paid by Apple to be so lopsided?

Bama played Kentucky and had 20 points scored on them.

Florida played Kentucky and had just 7 points scored.

Florida just beat the No. 4 team in the nation, by ten points with a questionable QB, and on a away field, and loses five first place votes?

You're the No. 1 team playing the No. 4 team shouldn't the game be close?

Bama beats the No. 20 team, let me repeat that the No. 20 team by 19 and they get FIVE more votes? That's a 17 seat difference! Are you kidding me? THREE seats compared to 17 seats, and get 20 points scored on you by a team that Florida demolished in one quarter, and lost their QB too, and Florida loses five place votes? Explain to me how this works?

Yet sit on your butt and be a lazy a$$, and the government will take care of you? Tell me how that makes any sense? The question arises from this new health care reform package that democrats are trying to push through. Here is a quote from the news article:

"And the legislation's more than $1-trillion cost would be offset with a new tax on wealthy Americans."

So we punish the people who work hard and reward the people who are lazy?

Is this the "change" you voted for?

How long would it take for the missile shield to be ready to go? Is there a fueling time? Would it be ready in time?

do they watch SEC football? Do you think that will help them at all?

If you're talking four points you're being rediculous. Look at the numbers.

Rushing

Florida 142

Utah 13

Passing

Florida 216

Utah 336

Total Yards

Florida 358

Utah 349

Turnovers

Florida 0

Utah 1

Penalties

Florida 6-45

Utah 10-91

Yards Per Pass

Florida 9.8

Utah 8.2

Yards Per Carry

Florida 3.4

Utah 0.5

All that and people call that "worse than Florida did"? How and Where?

They're playing Utah. Both teams are 100% healthy. Who wins?

???

Did the loss to Florida deflate their passion?

I'm an SEC fan and I'm really questioning if Oklahoma or even Texas deserve to be anywhere close to the NC game.

.....?

they went from drooling over TT to praising Ole Miss.

Conference rankings:

1. SEC

2. PAC 10

3. ACC

4. BIG 10

5. BIG 12

Predictions?