Andy

I have been seeing this girl for a month. On our first date she told me that this other guy asked her out a while back and she wanted to meet him eventually. She asked me if it was ok. I told her I like her and that I rather she didn't but I told her if she needed closure on him to go ahead if she felt that she should. A month later I am having strong feelings for and she told me she is being honest and she is going to see him this weekend. Her and I are not a "couple" yet. I understand if it is meant to be, I truely have nothing to worry about. I have told her I have extra feelings for her. Should I request she not go out with this other guy or let her go out with him and hope she doesn't like him. If I feel I love somone, is there really a "too soon?" I can't pick who I love or like... I just do.. If she was extra interested in me I feel she wouldn't go on a date with someone else. I don't think about anyone else but her. Should I be cautious that I like her more than she likes me?