I have been seeing this girl for a month.?

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I have been seeing this girl for a month.  On our first date she told me that this other guy asked her out a while back and she wanted to meet him eventually.  She asked me if it was ok.  I told her I like her and that I rather she didn't but I told her if she needed closure on him to go ahead if she felt that she should.  A month later I am having strong feelings for and she told me she is being honest and she is going to see him this weekend.  Her and I are not a "couple" yet.  I understand if it is meant to be, I truely have nothing to worry about.  I have told her I have extra feelings for her.  Should I request she not go out with this other guy or let her go out with him and hope she doesn't like him.  If I feel I love somone, is there really a "too soon?"  I can't pick who I love or like...  I just do..  If she was extra interested in me I feel she wouldn't go on a date with someone else.  I don't think about anyone else but her.  Should I be cautious that I like her more than she likes me?

Just me · Answer

Don't show too strong of emotions. Let her go, but do it with confidence. You've explained your dont like it, but if you let her go with confidence you will be more appealing to her. 

It shows you feel you are best for her, don't say it show it. 

You don't want to seem controlling this far in the relationship. She has made up her mind and is telling you honestly, so let her do it. Don't ask too many questions, and don't show too much jealousy. Some is okay tho. Do not contact her that night.

Every girl has at least a couple guys perusing her, it's no secret. Just show your the best one and u want what's good for her. Don't say that show it. Telling is too strong and puts pressure on her, she should feel it on her own. 

All the best man,

? · Answer

She told you up front she had interest in this other guy and was going to go out with him. Now that she is going out with this guy you will have to wait and let her decide who she wants to be wit. the more you try to tie her down the more you will force her away.  You may like her more then she likes you. As you stated you are not a couple or engaged or living together so she has the freedom to date other people and so do you. Try asking someone else out that may interest you.

? · Answer

I don't think you should be that cautious.. It's natural sometimes for a guy to like the girl more or vice versa 
The fact that she's planning to see him shows that she is keeping her options open 
I think you should do the same since you guys  aren't officially together but it seems like you really like her 
Just don't start to like her too much yet 
You could try telling her how you feel about this but it seems like the weekend is almost here & I don't think she'll change her mind if she does... Then I think she likes you just as much as you like her :)

? · Answer

If she wants to see him she isn't that into you. Give up on her, she isn't being honest with you. Sounds like she is keeping her options open. And you may end up the last resort (which will always end in disaster)

new and loved · Answer

I would let her go and then have an awesome date with her in the next few days. Also talk to her,, ask her how it went

Anonymous · Answer

yes she already told you she is interested in someone else and your still there? what are you thinking. If she liked you period she wouldn't be doing that. move on.

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