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I have read several different answers online, from 4 to 6 to 8 to 9. So searching for the answer does not work. Can somebody who tends plants and lives in Portland tell me what it really is? Thank you!

I'm boiling bones to remove the meat completely (and whiten later). How long do I let them boil to be completely clean? I have all sizes, from tiny fish spines to a big backbone from a pig. Also, is it possible to boil them too much? Specific times would be really helpful. Thank you!

I have an aloe plant that's been in the family for about 10 years now, and he's still just a puny little thing. he's an indoor plant. lately he seems to be a little droopy and squishy. I have been taking care of him like I do the rest of my plants (which are healthy), but now I'm wondering if aloe plants need something special? any tips or advice would help. I don't want him to die on me.

my father left my mother and I when I was very young, and as a result, I am extremely attached to my mother (she was the one consistent person in my life). I have the typical daughter issue of needing my mother's approval, and lately I am noticing I've taken it farther than I feel I should. I talk to her before I do anything to get her opinion. I won't even date someone she doesn't like - even if I really do like them. and if she is upset, I automatically feel depressed. I know this is a problem and I have struggled with it for quite some time. thing is, I know she doesn't WANT me to be like this. she is not a controling mother and she does not want to rule my life. she has said so, and demonstrated so, all throughout my life.

aside from this, I am a surprisingly independent woman. I am at a loss for what to do, so I'm hoping some blunt advice from strangers could knock some sense into me... or at least start me on the right path.

please tell me, how can I let go?