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We have been together for 3 years now. Before we got into a relationship I brought up porn. It disgusts me and I don't feel its necessary for a man in a relationship to watch it. He agreed with me, said it disgusted him as well and that he has watched porn but he does not watch it anymore. Mind you, this was 3 years ago. I believed him.

Tonight I decided to use his laptop because mine has been having issues. What do you know? I discover search terms looking for porn. I was like wtf? So I check out his history and I find PLENTY of porn websites! I was shocked, seriously.

I trusted him. Now I feel like I can't...and he's successfully lied about it for 3 years. I can only wonder what else. What should I do?

I've realized that humanity has become enslaved by the elite. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he seems to agree, but I get the feeling he does not take it seriously. This is our liberty at stake! I asked him if he would join US services and he says yes he would, for money, when I have told him the horrific truth about the aim of the elite: to control our minds, keep us dumb, and keep us enslaved. He said he isn't going to join, but that he would. I told him that would make him a traitor and he would put himself in the position of even deeper enslavement. He got angry and said he would need money so then he would join. We agree on not vaccinating our future children (though now I'm not so sure about his certainty) and he agrees that we are enslaved...but contradicts himself completely. We have argued about this and now I am questioning what is right for me when I have been sure for 4 years that this was the man for me. I love him. What the hell do I do?

I've realized that humanity has become enslaved by the elite. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he seems to agree, but I get the feeling he does not take it seriously. This is our liberty at stake! I asked him if he would join US services and he says yes he would, for money, when I have told him the horrific truth about the aim of the elite: to control our minds, keep us dumb, and keep us enslaved. He said he isn't going to join, but that he would. I told him that would make him a traitor and he would put himself in the position of even deeper enslavement. He got angry and said he would need money so then he would join. We agree on not vaccinating our future children (though now I'm not so sure about his certainty) and he agrees that we are enslaved...but contradicts himself completely. We have argued about this and now I am questioning what is right for me when I have been sure for 4 years that this was the man for me. I love him. What the hell do I do?

I've realized that humanity has become enslaved by the elite. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he seems to agree, but I get the feeling he does not take it seriously. This is our liberty at stake! I asked him if he would join US services and he says yes he would, for money, when I have told him the horrific truth about the aim of the elite: to control our minds, keep us dumb, and keep us enslaved. He said he isn't going to join, but that he would. I told him that would make him a traitor and he would put himself in the position of even deeper enslavement. He got angry and said he would need money so then he would join. We agree on not vaccinating our future children (though now I'm not so sure about his certainty) and he agrees that we are enslaved...but contradicts himself completely. We have argued about this and now I am questioning what is right for me when I have been sure for 4 years that this was the man for me. I love him. What the hell do I do?

I've realized that humanity has become enslaved by the elite. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he seems to agree, but I get the feeling he does not take it seriously. This is our liberty at stake!

I asked him if he would join US services and he says yes he would, for money, when I have told him the horrific truth about the aim of the elite: to control our minds, keep us dumb, and keep us enslaved. He said he isn't going to join, but that he would. I told him that would make him a traitor and he would put himself in the position of even deeper enslavement. He got angry and said he would need money so then he would join.

We agree on not vaccinating our future children (though now I'm not so sure about his certainty) and he agrees that we are enslaved...but contradicts himself completely. We have argued about this and now I am questioning what is right for me when I have been sure for 4 years that this was the man for me. I love him. What the hell do I do?

Both of my parents are dead. I have no other family but a sister, two nephews, and two brothers. I have no help. I went to college one semester but had to leave because I could not afford it. I would kill to have my mom here to help me. Now my boyfriend and I have been out of H.S. since 2009. We've pretty much been struggling to make ends meet, working low wage jobs, selling mj on the side now that we're both unemployed. His mom wasn't great to him all his life, didn't believe in him, wasn't there for him, left him hungry, etc. But now she's urging him to have a plan. She can help him pay for school but he refuses her help. He says that he has his own plans to accomplish everything on his own. That he'll pay for his own schooling when he gets a "good job". I think that is ridiculously ignorant of him. Here I am struggling to get the education I want so badly, and there he is refusing the help he needs to get started. Wtf? We've been together 3 years officially and I feel like he's going to have **** to offer. What happens when we have children? How will we get married? Why is he being so selfish? Or am I wrong?

Both of my parents are dead. I have no other family but a sister, two nephews, and two brothers. I have no help. I went to college one semester but had to leave because I could not afford it. I would kill to have my mom here to help me.

Now my boyfriend and I have been out of H.S. since 2009. We've pretty much been struggling to make ends meet, working low wage jobs, selling mj on the side now that we're both unemployed. His mom wasn't great to him all his life, didn't believe in him, wasn't there for him, left him hungry, etc. But now she's urging him to have a plan. She can help him pay for school but he refuses her help. He says that he has his own plans to accomplish everything on his own. That he'll pay for his own schooling when he gets a "good job".

I think that is ridiculously ignorant of him. Here I am struggling to get the education I want so badly, and there he is refusing the help he needs to get started. Wtf? We've been together 3 years officially and I feel like he's going to have **** to offer. What happens when we have children? How will we get married? Why is he being so selfish?

Or am I wrong?

So ever since I found out about this girl that he claimed to be "just friends" with, I've gotten nasty feelings about their true intentions. So I disrespect the girl because I simply couldn't take it anymore - she ALWAYS writes to him and they seem to talk a bit too much. So she writes to me on FB and tells me I should be coming at my bf and not her because he's the one calling for her at the job and visiting her and telling her that I don't satisfy him and a whole bunch of personal issues that he should be discussing with me not her! So I confront him and he says he never said he was unsatisfied, simply that he doesn't have sex a lot and that he told her and another girl because they asked him about his sex life (and I've told him before I find the discussion of our personal sex life with others to be DISRESPECTFUL) so he told them I barely have sex with him but he never said he was unsatisfied. He says they were really just friends and I had asked him a while back what they talk about, if they're getting close, etc. and he said "random things" and "no we don't talk that much" but they do! So I told him I don't know how to feel about him anymore and that I just don't know how we could make it after this because I feel so betrayed, disgusted, and embarassed! He's been apologizing and I love him and we've been together 5 yrs but this is straight up violation and disrespect! I don't know who I should believe or what I should do. Help!

I'm 19, my boyfriend is 20 and we want to move to Buffalo, NY. We live in NYC and are currently surviving off of minimum wage. I've lived in Buffalo for 3 months in college, and the houses/apartments are cheaper up there than they are here in NYC. How do I go about this? Where do I start?

He said he doesn't feel in love with me anymore, that he doesn't feel as strongly as I do about him. He said that he's been feeling like this for a week because of all of the arguments we've had and of how I speak to him when we do argue. We had an argument last week where we broke up but he decided he didn't want to break up with me. He told me he loved me and missed me and everything. Then last night I asked why he didn't invite me to go hang out with his buddies and that's when he said, "Honestly I don't even feel the same in our relationship as I used to". I don't understand how someone could just not love someone after 5 years of dreaming and planning together and not less than a month ago he said he wanted to have children already. I feel so lost. He was my best friend, my lover, my everything...how could he just leave? How could it be so easy? I'm so heartbroken. :'(

He is a thirteen year old Jack Russell Terrier. He was the first dog I've ever had, and I love him so much. Right now he's laying beside me, breathing heavily, unable to walk, move, even lick (which is his favorite thing to do). He stopped eating 3 days ago, and barely drinks water. I have to cup it in my hands for him and put it in his face for him to lick it up. He's had 2 seizures. Everywhere I call they tell me a ridiculous amount of money. I can't bare to watch him anymore. What do I do? I live in NYC if that helps. I've called the ASPCA, they also charge.

Before you all say, Why do you even have a dog?

I have had this dog for TEN years. Since I was a CHILD and I'm still only 19 years old. After my mom died, I took care of him, I fed him, and did what I could for him. He was happy. I lost my job, and have recently been more broke than I've ever been in my life. So please...just help me. Thank you.

The catch is that he works there, and he danced with me a little bit the first night I went there even though he wasn't supposed to. He was so gorgeous! I went back the next night with a friend and saw him working again, only this time he didn't dance with me because he was really busy. I kept stopping him though to chit chat or dance on him, and I ended up getting him in a little trouble (I think). After that I didn't bother him again, and I feel like I made a fool of myself. Should I contact him? And what do I say?

The catch is that he works there, and he danced with me a little bit the first night I went there even though he wasn't supposed to. He was so gorgeous! I went back the next night with a friend and saw him working again, only this time he didn't dance with me because he was really busy. I kept stopping him though to chit chat or dance on him, and I ended up getting him in a little trouble (I think). After that I didn't bother him again, and I feel like I made a fool of myself. Should I contact him? And what do I say?

My dog is about 13 or 14 years old. He has recently gone blind and I haven't taken him to the Vet (because right now I'm not in a good financial position). Sometimes he bumps into things, but a lot of the time he knows where to go if I'm calling him. His eye is red (the pupil & iris area) and he constantly pees on himself or in all the wrong places. When I pick him up he seems so fragile. I love him very much, I've had him since he was 3 years old. I'm not sure what to do right now. I don't even have money to pay if I were to choose to put him down. What do I do?

We were having a talk and he told me he loves me and wants to marry me but he's not sure if that will happen or not. He also said anything could happen to cause that and that he doesn't know if he would ever cheat on me or not. Before he used to be 100% sure, what the hell happened? We've been together 5 yrs btw.

My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, but since then has been coming to see me and contacting me. On Valentine's Day he still brought me flowers and my favorite perfume, and we even had sex, which I'm not sure was right or wrong in this situation.

The reason I am confused is because he told me he loves me but doesn't feel "in love" with me anymore. He said he needs his space to be alone so that he can find himself again because he is unhappy with himself and his feelings have changed. He said he doesn't know if I'm the one anymore but he still sees a possibility of us being together again. He told me he wants to have children with me and that he misses the way we used to be. I don't understand how he could be having doubts and not feel "in love" with me but say all these things. I am so confused.

He used to say I was the one for him and that he doesn't ever want anyone else. He waited to be with me for three years and told me he wanted to marry me someday. I'm posting this here because I want advice from experienced people or people who have gone through something similar...

We have been together since we were both 16, and we are now 19. We've lived together for most of our relationship but have know each other for 5 years. We spend all of our free time together and maybe that is the problem. I'm not sure if I should stop talking to him and move on or hope that he changes his mind soon. Has anyone been through this? What does it all mean?

My boyfriend thinks it's a good idea for him to move out. We are both very young (19) and have been together since we were both 16. We've lived together for I'd say a year and a half, maybe even more. We've had issues like this in the past where he needed his space, but then he came back. I thought we were finally good and going to live together for good but now he wants to move out and be on his own. He said he doesn't feel good about himself and he needs time alone to get himself together. I feel that this is a huge step backwards and I don't want to lose him, but I also understand he needs to be no his own so he can grow and be a man and perhaps our relationship can get better.

We are not as intimate and I miss it all. We really do spend about 99% of our time together so I see why he feels the way he does. I just want to know what this means...is it over? Or is taking this step backward mean we're taking a step forward in our relationship? We both love each other dearly. Any advice would be great, thank you.

He told me that he's not in love with me anymore (even though he does love me) because I haven't been giving him what he needs. He says that I've been selfish and just want want want but he feels like he gets nothing in return. I think he's right, but I'm prepared to change and be the girl that he used to love.

What can I do so that he can give me a second chance? We both need space from each other but I still want to be with him and I know that he wants to be with me, but these feelings of resentment and spending too much time with me has screwed up the relationship.

Please help...

I asked him what I did to deserve to be treated so rudely and he said it's more about what I don't do and that he thinks he needs to be on his own. We have been officially together for 2 years but we were friends/lovers for 3 years before we made things official. He used to be so sweet and loving and lately he hasn't been treating me as important. I began feeling like he is taking me for granted and when I speak to him he is rude and today I get the response that I mentioned above.

He says he loves me. He says he doesn't miss me. (We live together). I know I have to let him go if that is what he really wants, but is it possible that he might come back? We're both 19...

I got called for a job interview today and the man I spoke to told me to come in next Tuesday. Is that the Tuesday coming up, the 18th? Thanks.