Ron

I met this girl a few years ago in person.I doubt she remembers me. She lives in my neighborhood with her grandparents. Her grandparents know me,cause of Church. Only way's I can think of to try and get contact is ask her grandparents about her, leave a not in their mailbox-what would it say?

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I really need women's opinions here and would like more than 10 answers. I can't figure this out.

I met a girl at my Church,we emailed,May to Oct. I initiated.She is a priviate person,introvert type, says she not a phone person,I understood. I tried to get her to hang out,she never said "no" just sometime later. Only once in person she said no,then apologized later by email. At the end of June I invited her to a movie..never went.I backed off. End of July,invited her to Wed. night services we have at Church,she came to 3 of them,gave me hugs. I asked her to hang out the last time, end of August,says she has a lot going on,not able to.I didn't email till end of Sept. just said Hi,God Bless, no questions,she wrote back more than I expected saying she is a teacher. Also in Sept. she started going to another Church. Now at the end of Oct. I told her I was interested in her.She says she has a boyfriend, (I don't believe her),we could keep in touch as friends.

Now here's what gets me, a few weeks later,on Nov.7 she shows up at Church. I havn't seen her on a Wed. since I invited her in the summer. She knows I might be there right? I was sitting at the back talking to an elderly lady,see her out of the corner of my eye,she came to the entrance, looked around and left,under a minute. I don't think she would be unconfortable, said we can keep in touch. Or if she came for another reason,wanted to see I was there? The timing was just odd,after I told her I was interested in her. Any ladies tell me how she may feel about me?

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I told a girl I at my Church that I was interested in her a few weeks ago. She says she has a boyfriend yet we can still keep in touch.Now she knows that on Wednesdays at Church there is a service I go to. This past Wednesday she showed up. I was already in the service waiting for it to start and out of the corner of my eye I saw her,at the entrance,I never looked at her.I was at the back row. She just looked around and I know she saw me and then left under a minute. It was kinda odd,I didn't know if she wanted to see me, then felt uncomfortable and left? Any ideas?

And is there anything significant about her saying "keep in touch as friends"?

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I met a girl at my Church and been emailing her,since May, I do all the initiating. Tried to get her to hang out, go to a movie,she would say "sometime" later.Never went out. Asked one last time in the end of August, says she has alot going on. So I backed off a month, emailed end of Sept. I didn't say alot, or ask any questions,she wrote back saying she has started teaching at a daycare and other things. I wasn't sure she would write back,so I thought that was good.I also invited her to a Wed. night service we have at my Church,she showed up,to 3 of them,hugged me for the first time an the end of 2 of them.

Now from September to mid October she hasn't been a Church,been working I heard. She showed up last Sunday finally Oct 21. I said hi,gave a side hug. I went to sit with her in her hispanic service, a woman came up a gave hug to me an her. Then after a few minutes she went to sit with this lady. I wondered if she didn't want to sit with me or not. So this week I sent an email saying I was interested in her. That was Tuesday,havn't heard back from her. (yet)

she is an introvert,reserved,private person,I think she's around my age - 33 and she has situational

depression also. Seems aloof at times,hard to read. Thanks for any help, Jesus loves ya'll. CBN.com