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Yesterday I went to the beach with my boyfriend but he met me there with a friend. I may sound stalker-esque for saying this but i check his social media a lot. This morning I checked his instagram followers and he followed a girl who lives in that beach town and he did it this morning, probably because he must have gotten her snapchat. I will drive myself crazy thinking about tbis all day but it also hurts my feelings that in the 10 minutes he had been away from me he found another girl to talk to. I’m unsure of what i should do, if i should even confront him, or if i should just end it.

I’ve had a bit of a rocky month with my boyfriend. I feel as if there is no remaining spark in the relationship. We never have sex and we don’t really do anything. However, I did find a half empty bag of viagra and a condom in his drawer. That was a fight which eventually turned into my fault. He said that we never talk bc I have a bad attitude so I am trying to change it. However i habitually check what he is up to online, including snapchat score and instagram followers. Yesterday he met me and my friend at the beach with another friend of his. They came and left without us. I woke up this morning and he had followed a girl on Instagram who is a couple years younger than us (her personal and music account) who lives in the town that the beach was in, and Im just exhausted thinking that the 10 minutes we were apart he was pursing another person. I am going to drive myself crazy thinking that they text or snapchat, because he seems to have followed her the next day. 

I’ve had a bit of a rocky month with my boyfriend. I feel as if there is no remaining spark in the relationship. We never have sex and we don’t really do anything. However, I did find a half empty bag of viagra and a condom in his drawer. That was a fight which eventually turned into my fault. He said that we never talk bc I have a bad attitude so I am trying to change it. However i habitually check what he is up to online, including snapchat score and instagram followers. Yesterday he met me and my friend at the beach with another friend of his. They came and left without us. I woke up this morning and he had followed a girl on Instagram who is a couple years younger than us (her personal and music account) who lives in the town that the beach was in, and Im just exhausted thinking that the 10 minutes we were apart he was pursing another person. I am going to drive myself crazy thinking that they text or snapchat, because he seems to have followed her the next day. 

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. He doesn't like some of my friends and they have gotten into fights before. I am going on Spring Break with two of them and he said if I booked the trip he would break up with me. I told him I was considering booking the trip and it never came up again. When it again came up and I confirmed that I booked it, he went crazy and broke up with me. He said the only way to get him back would be to cancel the trip because he thinks that I was being shady and I would act as such on the trip. He has gone on many vacations in the past year that I was fine with, so what do I do to get him back? This isn't fair and I don't think this conflict is deserving of a breakup.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. He doesn't like some of my friends and they have gotten into fights before. I am going on Spring Break with two of them and he said if I booked the trip he would break up with me. I told him I was considering booking the trip and it never came up again. When it again came up and I confirmed that I booked it, he went crazy and broke up with me. He said the only way to get him back would be to cancel the trip because he thinks that I was being shady and I would act as such on the trip. He has gone on many vacations in the past year that I was fine with, so what do I do to get him back? This isn't fair and I don't think this conflict is deserving of a breakup.

My boyfriend and I    were a couple weeks shy of our 2 year anniversary when he broke up with me. Reason being, I    am going on vacation to Mexico with two girls who are my friends that he has had conflict with before and he doesn't trust me to be there with them. He said I    was being shady about the vacation, but I    had brought it up before and I    said it was up in the air if I    would book it or not. When I      confirmed that I    had booked it, he broke up with me and now keeps texting me about how hurt he is, but he won't get back with me unless I    cancel the trip. I    think this is unfair due to all the trips he's been on in the past year that I     didn't care about. I    want to be with him and I     don't know how to get him back.

My boyfriend and I    have been dating for almost 2 years. He doesn't like some of my friends and they have gotten into fights before. I am going on Spring Break with two of them and he said if I booked the trip he would break up with me. I  told him I    was considering booking the trip and it never came up again. When it again came up and I confirmed that I booked it, he went crazy and broke up with me. He said the only way to get him back would be to cancel the trip because he thinks that I  was being shady and I    would act as such on the trip. He has gone on many vacations in the past year that I    was fine with, so what do I  do to get him back? This isn't fair and I     don't think this conflict is deserving of a breakup.

My boyfriend recently went on spring break without me to Aruba. there he "met new friends" who all happened to be girls who he now follows on Instagram whose pictures he all likes. not only does it make me feel extremely insecure it makes me feel like he was up to no good out there. yesterday was a parade in my town and he didn t call me until 2 hours in because he "had no service" and i wa upset about this, until he flipped it on me for posting a picture with another guy. he clearly acts like this because he doesn t want to be with me anymore so why doesnt he cut the cord?

I’ve been with my boyfriend almost a year and I am in love. We are with each other all the time and we work together and i am basically a part of his family. However my ex boyfriend has been popping in and out of the picture and i just want to keep the waters level. I dont want anything to do with him. He got drunk and texted me that he misses me which i ignored. I then texted him for his birthday and he asked me to get coffee and i said i wasn’t free and pushed it off to “sometime next week” just so i wouldnt ruin his birthday by complete rejection and so i wouldnt get into a fight, to spare my own feelings. However, knowing how my boyfriend currently feels about my ex i feel guilty for even prolonging a conversation. Should i feel guilty or am i just over thinking? I dont want my current relationship to be threatened by an ex who means nothing to me but who i feel pity for

my boyfriend and i have been together almost a year, and i haven't really been trusting of him lately. i found messages between him and some random woman and ever since everything makes me paranoid. we don't text as much and whenever I'm over his house we have sex and all but it seems like its kind of off. Today i was kissing his neck and he was like "tastes salty?" and then proceeded to say "thats what all girls say" and it was odd to me for him to bring it up then, especially while we were having sex. he leaves his phone facedown and has been acting off lately, he no longer really tries to be out with his friends, he sits at home and I'm suspicious that he's with another girl. am i overthinking this due to my found messages? or was he just being a stupid guy?

my boyfriend and i have been together almost a year, and i haven't really been trusting of him lately. i found messages between him and some random woman and ever since everything makes me paranoid. we don't text as much and whenever I'm over his house we have sex and all but it seems like its kind of off. Today i was kissing his neck and he was like "tastes salty?" and then proceeded to say "thats what all girls say" and it was odd to me for him to bring it up then, especially while we were having sex. he leaves his phone facedown and has been acting off lately, he no longer really tries to be out with his friends, he sits at home and I'm suspicious that he's with another girl. am i overthinking this due to my found messages? or was he just being a stupid guy?

My boyfriend and i weren t together on Tuesday and i was on his Spotify looking for music, and i saw on Tuesday he made a playlist titled "sex" when we do not listen to music while having sex. I asked him about it and he said "it wasn t that deep he didn t know it was public" and he "made it for us" but we do not listen to music in the bedroom, we barely talked on Tuesday night, should i be suspicious of cheating

My boyfriend and i weren t together on Tuesday and i was on his Spotify looking for music, and i saw on Tuesday he made a playlist titled "sex" when we do not listen to music while having sex. I asked him about it and he said "it wasn t that deep he didn t know it was public" and he "made it for us" but we do not listen to music in the bedroom, we barely talked on Tuesday night, should i be suspicious of cheating

so my boyfriend has my Instagram account and goes on it sometimes and i don't care. he doesn't know i still have his Instagram on my phone and he changed his password once back in September and i guessed it again but he changed it out of the blue today and i can't help but just dread that the worst is absolutely happening if he's just randomly changing passwords like that. am i overthinking or do you think he has something to hide? i can't stop thinking about it

my boyfriend was cleaning out his room and i wasn't paying attention. he pulled old condoms out of his drawer and called my attention to them, asking me if i wanted these "old artifacts." i said no, and jokingly he said; "ok, ill save them if you change your mind." I overlooked it but now I'm skeptical, because we don't use condoms, and we never have. is he just putting them back in his drawer for no reason or do you think he's saving them for another person or another hypothetical scenario? we don't use condoms, but i think its odd he's saving "old condoms" for "me

my boyfriend was cleaning out his room and i wasn't paying attention. he pulled old condoms out of his drawer and called my attention to them, asking me if i wanted these "old artifacts." i said no, and jokingly he said; "ok, ill save them if you change your mind." I overlooked it but now I'm skeptical, because we don't use condoms, and we never have. is he just putting them back in his drawer for no reason or do you think he's saving them for another person or another hypothetical scenario?

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. we spend a lot of time together but i have crazy trust issues and it makes me extremely nervous. We have had a few slip ups in our relationship-mostly on his side. My friend told me he saw him hooking up with another girl at a college party, but my boyfriend said he didn't so i believed him. over the summer he acted weird towards me and followed a bunch of girls on Instagram he met at a concert. i know he snapchats other girls that are "friends" but theres not much i can say without causing an argument. he always jokes about cheating or having other girls over, and recently we were talking and he just randomly brought up that he couldn't hang out with me this weekend because he is "busy," then not admitting what he was busy with finally changed the subject. i know I'm overreacting but I'm anxious and always assume the worst. what do i do

my boyfriend went to a different state in September and he hung out with a lotof beautiful women there. one in particular caught his interest and it makes me incredibly insecure. she is always his most recent searched on instagram and he went back and liked her old pictures. he also direct messaged her and said that he never got her snapchat and wanted it. is there something going on? should I be concerned? or am I just being batshit crazy

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. we spend a lot of time together, and we work together. however, i don't really trust him when we're not together. over the summer when he was mad at me he went to a concert where he bought an underage girl a drink and proceeded to like all her pictures. this happened twice, the second time he followed a random high school girl and spammed her page with likes. when i asked him about it he freaked out messaged her and sent me screenshots to confirm nothing was happening. however, she told him he could do better and he said he knows and he was going to end it between us. we resolved that fight. he also went to another state, followed girls on social media there, and dmed one that he never got her snapchat. he also dmed a random Instagram model for her snap. he always gets mad at me for going out but he was out at the bar until 3 am on Saturday and didn't text me the whole night. recently, he followed another girl in high school on Instagram he was at a party with and liked her recent post. he has also been snapchatting a random girl who is a grade below me, and he freaked out and yelled at me when i asked him about it. he doesn't know i have his Instagram. whenever he drinks he never texts me back until he's back. i am 20 and a sophomore in college. am i overthinking social media or is my boyfriend a ticking cheating time bomb?

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. we spend a lot of time together, and we work together. however, i don't really trust him when we're not together. over the summer when he was mad at me he went to a concert where he bought an underage girl a drink and proceeded to like all her pictures. this happened twice, the second time he followed a random high school girl and spammed her page with likes. when i asked him about it he freaked out messaged her and sent me screenshots to confirm nothing was happening. however, she told him he could do better and he said he knows and he was going to end it between us. we resolved that fight. he also went to another state, followed girls on social media there, and dmed one that he never got her snapchat. he also dmed a random Instagram model for her snap. he always gets mad at me for going out but he was out at the bar until 3 am on Saturday and didn't text me the whole night. recently, he followed another girl in high school on Instagram he was at a party with and liked her recent post. he has also been snapchatting a random girl who is a grade below me, and he freaked out and yelled at me when i asked him about it. he doesn't know i have his Instagram. whenever he drinks he never texts me back until he's back. i am 20 and a sophomore in college. am i overthinking social media or is my boyfriend a ticking cheating time bomb?