Jessikur

Hello. I met a guy online a few months back. Since then, he and I became really close. Recently I've been busy with work and school, so I hadn't talked to him much. Today I went online and he was being really hostile with me and really rude so I asked him what his problem was. He told me he wanted to kill himself and he was being really suicidal. I am a psychology major and I know all the warning signs of suicide. He has shown me most of them already.

A while back he told me the name of the marching band he is in. I googled it and found his school's name and number. I want to call a counsler there and perhaps they can talk to him since I'm not a professional. I don't want him to hurt himself or for anything bad to happen to him. He has a lot of potential and I don't want him to just... give up. I've never met him in person, for he lives 2 states away. Should I do something about this? What would you do?

So I just started my first job at a fast food restraunt. The first day, my supervisor was really nice and she helped me out a lot and showed me around. Every day after that, she just glares at me and goes up to me in front of customers calling me out on what I do wrong. For example, I asked her if we had run out of a certain ingredient and she said yes. Then she came out and pointed at it, in front of a customer, and made me look bad. I say hi when I go into work, and she just glares at me. If I smile, she'll look right through me. All the other workers are really cool, and I get along with them well, but my supervisor is kind of rude to me. Help? Thanks.

Hello, last year my senior year was ruined by 7 selfish girls who decided to drink on a band trip. Because of them, our band scores went down at band competitions. My senior year was ruined by them. Now I'm in college, but I'm very close to the senior band members. They have a big trip coming up this weekend, the same one the 7 girls got caught at drinking. I found out on facebook a junior band member and two sophmores plan on bringing on drugs to the trip. The 7 girls last year almost cost my band teacher his job. I'm worried about them getting caught and my teacher getting fired. What do I do? I have the proof. I printed it out. Should I tell my band teacher or the principal?

So this Principal is a jerk-off. He doesn't listen to the Hispanics, he YELLS at the children, and the school has become really unkempt since I attended there 6 years ago. When I attended that school, test scores were high, students didn't have problems, and everything was good. Now that my youngest sister attends that school, everything is a mess. The school grounds are a mess, the test scores are REALLY low, and all the kids are falling behind. That school is one of the oldest in town and has had no renovations at all. Its falling apart. All the other schools in the district that are newer, are getting new gyms, restrooms, and classrooms. When the PTA tries to help, the Principal blows them off and has even tried to call the police. There have been some accusations against him where he has gone up to Hispanic children and called them "Stupid Mexicans" or "Pieces of **** Mexicans". This is an outrage. My sister is going to be there for years to come and this man is turning her and her classmates into waste. He needs to be fired. Any suggestions? This is in California. Thanks.

So I have this friend whose liked this guy since her freshman year in high school (I'm a freshman in college and my friend is now a senior in high school). My friend and I met in a science class my senior year and we became really close friends over the summer. I can call her my best friend.

I got the guy she likes to talk to her and it was all good. Everyone was happy. My boyfriend dumped me over the summer and I turned to my friend's crush for support. He and I have been talking (he flirts with me a lot but I don't do it back). He told me a few days ago that he's really starting to like me and I think I like him too. I don't want to ruin my friendship with my friend but at the same time I want to get at the guy too. He's really sweet and so respectful and all my friends like him. I'm stuck in a love triangle. What do I do?

So this girl in high school (she's ugly, buff, manly) hates me. We're in college now, I got past all the mean crap she did to men and moved on. My friend called me once and said that the girl wanted to drive by and plant illegal fireworks in my yard and call the cops on me so I can go to jail. I never did anything that bad to that ugly girl. So anyways, I shrugged it off and moved on.

But last night, she messed with my mom's car (my car was in the garage). She egged the passenger window, and the car doesn't turn on because of a random battery problem it never had before. Its one thing to mess with me, but when she starts messing with my family, I get pissed off. I called the police to try to make a report (they didn't pick up or call back). What do I do? I want to move on but this manly ***** that looks like Rosy O'Donell continues to act like a dumb high school kid. What do I do to scare her off?

(She recently got a new car, *wink wink*?)

So I have a iPod nano 3g (old i know) and I wanted to add new music to it but I'm afraid all my music will be deleted. When I first got it, I had a desktop computer (it has since died). After that, I began using my cousin's computer. Now I want to use my new computer, but I don't have access to my old iTunes account. I had to make a new one. If I plug in my iPod, will everything get deleted? Thanks.

Hello, so I'm in college in California and I couldn't receive my financial aid because of my parents taxes. My parents file their taxes separately because of family issues. I wrote down my mother's financial information on my FAFSA and that's what I turned in to my financial aid office. But now they want a paper that says my parents file their taxes separately. Where can I find it? Thanks

I will be taking my driving test next week in the Merced, CA DMV, and I'm deathly afraid of the lady I might get again. My first time taking the test, she yelled at me before I started the test and she failed me within the first 5 minutes. I really don't wanna get that dumb bit** again. Is there any way I can get someone else to give me the driving test if I get her? Thanks

I'm a STRAIGHT female and I've had two of my friends get way too clinggy. One isn't my friend anymore, and the other one won't leave me alone. She's always texting me and if I don't reply, she'll keep texting me like I kept the convo going. For example: "OMG i hate my day" Me: No reply My Friend: "My day was awful because i hate my classes" and so fourth. I don't want to be mean, but I think she's really annoying. I feel smothered and I need my space. Why does this always happen?

My now ex boyfriend and I had this amazing one year relationship. We met and ten days later we were dating. He was my entire world and I was his. We never fought, we were always happy and we spent over a year like that.

We broke up because he moved away, but we decided to stay friends. Today, we talked on Skype and we had a long talk, like friends do. My mom found out I was talking to him and wants to take away all my electronics. and is grounding me from ever talking to him again. She doesn't want him to mess with me or anything. I know he and I are NEVER going to get back together. I know that he doesn't love me anymore and that my feelings for him are going away as well. I don't understand why my mom feels like this is necessary. I'm 17, I turn 18 pretty soon. She treats me like I'm a little kid. I know she wants what's best for me, but is this really necessary? What do I do? Thanks

Hello,

I'm purchasing a car tomorrow, but I don't have my license yet. I have my permit and my test in in 3 weeks. I live in California by the way. My parents really can't afford to have it under their name (we're on food stamps and they'll take them away if my mom or dad has the car under their name). I'm also under 18 (for another 4 months). Is there anyway I can get my car under my name without my license? Thanks! :)

So my ex from 2 years ago and I had a great relationship the first 2 months. We lasted 5. The year and a half after our break up, it was hell for me. He dated two other girls who both harassed me. My ex went through my things and stole my things and used them against me. I told couslers and nothing helped. It wasn't until I found a better man that things finally settled down.

My new man (now my old one because he moved away and dumped me), changed my world. He's my happily ever after but he dumped me horribly.

My ex from two years ago is on and off with his girlfriend and keeps asking me on dates. I don't know what his intentions are but he seems nice to me. I'm scared of him. I don't know what he wants from me. He compliments me everyday and is always thinking about the good times we had in high school (we're about to start college at the same community college). What do I do? Do people really change for the better over time? Should I trust him? Thanks.

Okay so I made a video on a scam company and I recorded the phone call when the called me back and I put it in my newest youtube video. I haven't put the video up, so I need to know if its illegal? It doesn't really say anything bad, it was just of me rejecting the job at their company.

My boyfriend is my best friend, my partner in crime, the only person I trust, my one and only, and who I think is the love of my life. He's 15 and I'm 17 and about to start college soon. We were planning on staying together and when he graduates, going to the same college.

There is a huge change of plans now.

He's moving. Next month.

He doesn't think we can handle staying together so he wants to break up after he moves. He says it's what's best. He wants to end it on good terms instead of fighting over why we can't see each other.

I honestly don't want to end it. I love everything about him. From his head to his toes. His family, his life, his personality, his pets. I don't want to let that all go. I really don't.

I asked if I could move with him and go to college there. He said no.

I really really want to save our relationship. It means the world to me. I don't want to lose him.

Thanks.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. In that year we've gone through so many amazing things together. I knew the moment I saw him that something was going to happen between us, I just never knew it was going to be this big. He's my best friend, the one person I trust, and who I think is the love of my life.

We got two big problems...

He's moving next month two hours away. And I start college. (he's going to be a junior next fall.)

I don't want to let him go. I don't want to be just friends. I want him to myself. I don't want him to go...

I've been sobbing since I found out. I don't want this to end....

Is there anything we can do to stay together through all of this?

So my neighbor is in his late 40s, has 3 kids, and is married. I feel very uncomfortable around him when ever he comes over to visit my dad. I always feel like hes staring at me trying to look down my shirt. I've known him since I was 2 and now I'm 17, and I feel gross around him. His wife and my mom are best friends and his children like my siblings. He's always calling out my name and watches me when I wash my car. He sits facing me the entire time.

Last thanksgiving, his family came over and I was playing with his 3 year old daughter on the ground. He came outside to where we were and I stood up. I was throwing something away when he came up to me and said "Can you kneel on the ground right here like you were over there?" I looked at him weird and walked away. On my dad's birthday, he kept trying to talk to me about my boyfriend's best friend (his dad had died the day before), but I kept saying I hadn't talked to my boyfriend about it yet.

This guy is really creeping me out. I don't know how to tell my parents since our families are close. Help?

Oh and his marriage isn't so great either. His wife always wants to leave him.

Hello, so I have 3 MP3 files that need unwanted sounds to be cut out from them. Does anyone know of a free, VIRUS-Free, program that can help me?Thanks!

So I have this friend ( dated 2+ years ago), and he has a girlfriend who he has been dating for almost a year. I can tell he loves her because he always talks about her on facebook and they're always taking cute pictures. They're a really adorable couple.

I dated him for a month and we broke up after we realized we were better off as friends. We grew to care about each other very much as friends, but we drifted away when we met other people. I'm still very close to his cousin though.

Well today, I went out to eat with my family and when I turned to looked for a table, I saw his girlfriend there with her ex. They were alone and they were holding hands. She has cheated on him a lot in the past, but always seems to take her back even though she cheats on him with his own friends. Should I tell his cousin what I saw just to make sure that I'm not wrong?

Okay so I have this friend that I met through my boyfriend a while back. We have tons in common like how we're both in band and play the same instrument. We got along really well. We even went as far as hanging out at a band competition.

So yesterday we're talking on facebook and she starts asking about my relationship. It was a little weird to me since we don't usually talk about it. But I answered her questions anyways, but it never left my mind that something was a little off about what she was saying like "Oh does your sister like your bf, cuz my sister LOVED him." and stuff like that.

So today I finally ask my bf about it cuz it was itching me. He said that they liked each other and he kissed her at one of his soccer games. He said they stopped talking because her parents got mad. Then everything became clear. A while back she invited him to HER house (she lives about an hour away) to go watch her cheer at a football game. She wanted him to spend the night. I said "Nuh uh, as much as i like her, heck no." and he said he wasn't going anyways. Recently she invited BOTH of us to her house to "hang out" for her birthday, and I declined because prom is that same weekend...

I know, I'm insanely jealous. Haha. But should I be worried? I trust him with everything, and we've been dating almost a year, but I just can't get past the fact that I was so blind this whole time? What do I do?