Sir_Osis_of_Liver

We're supposed to 'see past' the physical(overweight, unattractive), ignore the annoying(talkative, schizophrenic) and support the unreasonable(unnecessary spending, inconsiderate of time, etc). Yet, when we want to do other things without them, or become jaded with the constant nagging and attitude, we're 'players' or 'unfeeling'. Can men just never win???

The dates were nice, the sex is fun, but I don't like the direction it's going, or the fact that the attempts at questioning me and directing my time has begun. I don't want her to leave me alone completely, but I'm my own man; not somebody's puppy. Rather than use my usual, charming responses that I'm sure will chase her away, I figured I'd ask for suggestions!

It never fails; you talk to a girl who's cute, seems a little shy but friendly...then suddenly, she turns into a raving lunatic and starts telling you about her horror stories, as if we have to make up for her troubled emotions!!!

But fail to do anything about their fitness and health in general? Half the people who come on here and ask "Am I pretty/ugly?" are overweight and wear funny-looking clothes...you'd be more attractive to yourself and everybody else if you got out and rode a bike or ran a couple of miles!

It's fun while it lasts, but when it's no longer fun, somebody has to draw the line and walk away. Why can't everybody just take their toys and go home, instead of placing blame and creating drama? There's always one person that feels worse, sometimes men, sometimes women...but that's life!

If we act or live in a way that offends or irritates them, we're expected to change; if they behave in a way we're not happy with, it's expected that we smile, give them a shoulder to cry on and rub their feet...what the hell?!

You ask a question thinking you'll get a few responses and start a dialogue and next thing you know, somebody's got a wild bug up their azzes because you asked a question about something you had no idea was so controversial to them! Get a life people...that's what this forum is about!!!

Yes, we are ALL judged by our exteriors. Some by skin color, some by facial features and others by weight. It's not fair, it's not cool, but apparently, it's normal. So, why try and represent yourself as something you aren't while online? If you've got nothing to be ashamed of, be honest!

Older guys have more money, sexual experience and worldly travel, so we definitely know all the tricks and mysteries of life. Is it a bad thing to use that to our advantage?

I mean full-on fondling the little man! Now I'm wondering whether I should pursue it or just forget it ever happened...

Haven't you noticed that women are constantly causing themselves pain, enduring the most difficult situations and then placing themselves back in exactly the same place once they're free again? How come they won't drag their fat azzes into a gym and get tight???

There's nothing nastier than a girl with a flabby gut; but rarely do you hear of a woman that wants a man with a belly...

Should I meet her for drinks or stay away for fear of pissing off my buddy? She's an adult, so there's no crime in it...

She's 25. I told her I was younger than I am and we got along great and finally did the deed. We were lying there laughing and she told me she was infatuated with me, but her father wouldn't like her dating a guy 10 years older than she is. When I told her I was the same age as her dad, she flipped!

And you accuse US of being tempermental?! It's like putting socks on an octopus!

I can't seem to leave her alone...she comes over about 3 times a week and obviously knows what's going to happen. One thing leads to another and then she's on her knees or starts rubbing on me to get me hard; I told her to stop coming over, but she just ignores me and comes anyway!

This girl contacted me on Facebook and we started talking...then decide to meet in person. She must have been 50lbs heavier than her photos. I asked her "When were those pictures you sent me taken?" She says smiling "Last summer; why, don't you like what you see?" I said "Yes...there's just more of it than I was led to believe!", at which point she stopped smiling and got up and stormed out of the restaurant!

Then, why is it unreasonable for women to conform to mens' desires of physical beauty and sensuality? After all, you have to give a little to get a lot!

If we both agreed that a serious relationship wasn't happening and everything is going fine, why would you want to throw a bucket of cold spit on a good thing? Do women just like misery and drama???

You get the space you need to live your life, the time to build trust and the happy surprise at seeing them after a long period of missing them!