Skyler

After a nasty break-up, my ex-boyfriend's parents believed I destroyed their mailbox and called the police to report me. I know I didn't do it, and I also have several witnesses to my whereabouts that night, as I was at a birthday party in the next town over at the time of the incident. I'm not sure if they could take me to court, but if they do, and I'm proven innocent, could I sue them for the damages (financial and reputation) done?

Hello. For the record, I don't want money or revenge or anything.

I dated a boy for 13 months when I was 15, he was 16. He pressured me into a lot of sexual things and then cheated on me when I wouldn't give him sex. He forced me into a lot of sexual activities, like hand-jobs and him touching me. He told me that if I loved him, I would let him show how much he loves me. Typical guy lie, I know, but that's not my point. He tricked me and emotionally abused me. Now I can't stop thinking about his hands on me and what he did. I looked up some definitions and legal things, and molestation or sodomy appear. These events occurred between March and July of 2013, when I was 15-16, and he was 16-17.

Basically, my question is do I have enough to ask for a molestation/sodomy/etc charge against him, and would it be see as those legal terms based on his age as a minor at the time?

I don't want any money, and this isn't out of pure spite. I just feel dirty and sick because of what he did and I want him to know what he did to me was wrong, so hopefully he'll think before he does it to another girl.

So this guy (for my and his sake, let's call him Gavin) and I have been friends since about September. We both go to different schools, but thanks to budget cuts, our schools combined our choir classes. He's a sweet guy. There was another kid in the class I liked that he actually helped get us together. But once I was together with the other guy (let's call this other guy Adam), I suddenly felt closer to Gavin than Adam.

Adam and I eventually broke up and my feelings started to grow for Gavin. He knew I was starting to have feelings for him, but he never really brought it up. He did these sweet little things that made me like him more. When my hands were cold, he would hold them to warm me up. He even got into a fight with my best friend about who could kiss the top of my head more (which was kind of awkward, considering my best friend's a girl), but halfway through the competition, he started to kiss my cheek. I found myself falling harder and harder every day, in just an hour and fifteen minutes.

One day, Gavin asked me out. Knowing him, he wasn't serious (which he wasn't), so I laughed it off and punched his arm. Then a few days later, one of my other friends saw that we were holding hands, which my hands were cold, and she asked if we were together. Before I could deny it, he stood up and said "let's see." Being his cheesy self, he got down on one knee and asked me to go out with him. I didn't believe him, but after five minutes of asking, I finally said yes to get him to shut up. Outside, I looked kind-of annoyed, but on the inside, I was bursting from excitement. I hadn't felt that way about anyone, not even Adam. Before I could ask if he was serious, I had to leave to go back to my school.

The next day, I walked into class and found him with three of our other friends. We all started talking and the conversation turned to relationships. Gavin told them he had a girlfriend and we started asking who she was. I didn't think it was me, because I couldn't take him seriously. He gave them hints, like she was in the room and she was musically talented, and other things to describe me. When they guessed me, he just smiled and nodded. I was shocked. I literally said, "And when did this happen?" Everyone laughed at me while I was confused on wether he meant it or not.

Later that class, we got into sections. Gavin being a tenor and me being a sorpano, our secton were next to each other. We were close enough for me to hear him tell the entire soprano section and the both boy's sections we were dating. Even with that, I still couldn't believe him.

Over the weekend, he avoided every question I asked concerning our "relationship." On Monday, I wouldn't answer. It was the week of Thanksgiving break, so I had to know. But I got sick right before second period, when I leave to go to choir. When I got home, he texted me, making sure I was okay.

That night, I went up to my grandparent's house. I tried texting him after school and he wouldn't answer. When I finally got ahold of him, I told him to answer me seriously. I asked if we were really dating. He said no. I told him I figured so, but I really wanted to cry, to yell at him for taking my heart than shattering it.

Would personalities help explain the situation?

Gavin's into Broadway music and showtunes. He wants to be a Broadway star when he grows up. He mostly has friends that are girls, maybe one or two guy friends, but I definetly wouldn't call him a player. He doesn't like rock music or videogames. He loves to sing and plays the saxophone.

I like basicaly a mix of everything in the rock genre, sticking mostly to Pierce The Veil, Black Veil Brides, and Three Days Grace. I don't like any other music. I'm a video game addict, especially Super Smash Bros Brawl. You could call me a Mario fangirl. I love anime, watching and drawing. I like to sing and I play the violin, but what I love to do most is write (as you can tell by my descriptive detail section).

So my question is what do I do? Should I try to talk to him about it? Should I ignore it? He's all I can think about and frankly, that's scaring me. Also, why would someone do that? Why would you ask someone out, tell everyone you guys were going out, and not mean it?

I don't want him to get his heart broken. This girl is a slut, She breaks up with a guy on a week to two week basis and she became friends with another girl just to have sex with her brother. I like him so much and I want him to be happy, but I know this isn't going to end well. How do I tell him without ruining the friendship?