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We've been married for less than 8 months, he doesn't own a car, has not worked in 6 months, does not contribute to the household in any way (all of his EXTRA money usually fund his drug habit), he destroys my property, and he walks around MY home calling me "*****" when he is angry. Now lets add salt to the wound, we have a 4 month old son and I am 13 years older than my spouse. On the flip side I am educated, own a home and vehicle, work FT, pay all bills, provide groceries, wash, cook, and clean! As I type this I actually feel dumb and already know the answer to my question. For 3 months I have told my husband that I am unhappy, asked him to leave, and repeatedly asked for a divorce. To my surprise he won't leave or agree to a divorce...actually I'm not surprised that he won't leave. What dummy would leave a situation where he/she is being provided for, right? I am at wits end and he disgusts me! Thoughts?

I have known this guy for a year, we used to work with one another. Recently he has been pursuing me and now we are dating, now we are talking about being in a relationship. Its only been a month. i have been in relationships, and have been married. This man has the qualities that u admire and have the same principles and values about life as i do. I really like him for who he is and always have. I miss him when i am not around him, i like being around him. I am not desperate for a man at all, i am a attractive, nice women, I have my own house and study job. I don't get why am i falling for this man SO soon?

I have this female roommate who recently moved in with me, she work with me and got evicted from her apartment. She doesn't get many hours at work, neither do I. She goes out a lot with men i.e out to eat drinking, etc. I am divorced and in school; I don't go out much; so I don't understand why she doesn't ask these men she is involved with to help her out. She went out to eat last night with a man, but shouldn't she ask him to help her cause she will be homeless

I'm confused on what to do I know she is struggling but so am I???

I have this female roommate who recently moved in with me, she work with me and got evicted from her apartment. She doesn't get many hours at work, neither do I. She goes out a lot with men i.e out to eat drinking, etc. I am divorced and in school; I don't go out much; so I don't understand why she doesn't ask these men she is involved with to help her out. She went out to eat last night with a man, but shouldn't she ask him to help her cause she will be homeless. I'm confused on what to do I know she is struggling but so am I???

I found out this man who i used to work with for a year is interested in, he would visit my job and tell people that he was looking for me. We exchange numbers, went out and talk here and there( both busy) I am scared cause the more I talk to him the more i am liking him he is a really great respectable man has moral, standards, and treats me with respect. He doesn't push up on me sexually at all. I have been with messed up men in my life who took advantage of my kindness. This man seems like a great person, i adore is kind heart. I feel like i am falling to quick and its scaring me. I'm older i been in married so i am not new to this dating thing.

Asking this question earlier, obviously i did not get a mature audience to answer. My husband went out of today this morning, and i woke up feeling down. I am starting to notice lately when i cant see or talk with him like often, as we do; it feels like apart of me is missing. I know he will be back! It feels good to relax amd enjoy the house to myself lol.....also there is this feeling my best friend is gone and i have no one to annoy. The longer i am married the more i see emotions get deeper. Its crazy cause i know he will come back lol

I have been married for two months to a 39 year old man that does not have a high school education,has not had a vehicle, drivers license or a stable place to live in 10 years. I on the other hand am college educated, buying a home and have stability in my life. Three days after the marriage I realized i made a mistake and immediately filed for divorce two weeks later. He accuses me of thinking I am better than him and says I want to change him. Well yeah that's my goal to help him reach his full potential. In the short time we have been married he has called me names and stated to others that he wants a divorce. Well after two months of weight loss and antidepressants I have finally had enough. I was skeptical about people being able to "snap" but I lost it on him over the weekend. All I want is a divorce he has said he would sign without any problems yet this was 6 days ago. He has also told me to move on and get over it. WHAT?! I am the one that is begging for his signature. Am I being abused?

For the past two years he has been in and out of jail for nonpayment of child support. He has been employed once during this time. When I left I never looked back or tried to contact him. Why would a person rather go to jail than pay chid support?

I've been dating a married man for 2 years now. He still lives with his wife. He says he love me and want to have kids with me in the future since he has no kids and i think he really means it. He tells me of how he wants a divorce but he needs for me to finish school, get more stable and continue my career.He helps me w/ school work bills

His dad past away 4 days ago. I could not attend the funeral, i could not console him the way i wanted to, instead i was mad at him and myself because i felt i could not be by his side. I feel that my inadequacy to support him through his time of need make me feel useless. I feel that i should call this relationship acquits. If i can not be by my lover side at one of the worst times in my life, what am i to him? what should i do? whats the truth? How would you feel in this situation? Please do judge me on what i am doing with a married man but on how to handle the situation!

I've been dating a married man for 2 years now. He still lives with his wife. He says he love me and want to have kids with me in the future since he has no kids but i think he really means it. He tells me of how he wants a divorce but he needs for me to finish school and continue my career. He dad past away 4 days ago. I could not attend the funeral, i could not console him the way i wanted to, instead i was mad at him and myself because i felt i could not be by his side. I feel that my inadequacy to support him through his time of need make me feel useless. I feel that i should call this relationship acquits. If i can not be by my lover side at one of the worst times in my life, what am i to him? what should i do? whats the truth? How would you feel in this situation? Thanks

Hey i am a well establish women, but i fall so easy too hard too fast for men. There are times i try not to get to know certain men that i like cause i know that i will like them really quick and very soon. I don't feel desperate cause i am a very attractive girl inside and out, but why do i seem to fall really hard for the few men that i like?

I am a very attractive, early 20s , single, independent, and smart women. My problem is that i love men too much. i am flirtatious, nice, and suave when it comes to men. I like them all! Also they love me. I break their hearts sometimes. I see something i like i am going to get it! The biggest issue is that i feel its getting old but i can help myself? What wrong with me if there is anything wrong?

I am a very attractive, early 20s , single, independent, and smart women. My problem is that i love men too much. i am flirtatious, nice, and suave when it comes to men. I like them all! Also they love me. I break their hearts sometimes. I see something i like i am going to get it! The biggest issue is that i feel its getting old but i can help myself? What wrong with me if there is anything wrong?