*rachel*

My husband and i are currently going thru a divorce. It will be final in October. This was his choice, by all means i tried to make it work. We have 2 kids and one on the way (due in Oct). Well I moved out in Jan of this year, everything was goin fine we had went our own ways, he had a little gf on the side, and i was always buys with school and the kids. Now that he broke up with his hooch, he won't leave me alone. Lately we have been going places together as a normal couple would do, and im like we have to stop doing this cause i dont want to be hurt when the divorce is final. He litterally wont leave me alone. He found a key to my apartment, now he wont give it back. Yet he still doesnt want to be with me either. I dont know what it is, i have no time for a bf, and i tried extremely hard to save my marriage. i just dont know what to do. It could be that he was the onyl person i ever been with, sexually that is, and maybe just be jealous?? Dont know...Please help. He is psycho!

I'm so upset, and seems like I can't get over this problem I'm having. Well i've been married for 4 years this December, but the past years we've separated for 8 months of it. When we got married we were 19 years old. We had a baby and everything. I gained alot of weight and that seemed what most of out problems came from. He would just argue with me just because, and I felt uncomfortable already knowing how huge I was. Plus we were both full time students and full time employees. So that caused alot of stress on us too. So when the baby was about 1 year old, i was still a little big, but he wanted to separate. SO we did, he moved out got his own apartment and everything. I was so hurt by it because he was all into other women and just partying. Being a dad when he wanted to be. I had the baby all the time. I always was close to his mother, and was over her house everyday, thank God I was, because she led me to God, and I Truly changed for the better. I was a whole new person, I not trying to say that it was all his fault cause of the arguments it always takes two, but ever since I started going to church and reading my Bible, alot of people noticed how different and happy i was. So I started losing all my pregnancy weight, and the praying for our marriage to work out for the best. SO 8 months later we ended up back together, we all started going to church together and we were really happy. He noticed how much of a better person I became (and that I got my small frame back).

Well things were goin great until I got pregnant again with number 2! This was a surprise because we only wanted one kids. But we accepted it, and dealt with it. We werent angry, but sure did want to focus on school and work still. Well, we ended up moving back in together and things were going great. Eventually we stopped going to church, and started goin to bars, hanging around the bad people, and basically not caring. Arguments started and stress came back. I got laid off, he had no job, we were both in school still, but money became tight. We didn't turn to God, so we dealt with each other, and the baby was born too.

Well things started picking back up financially, and he had got a new job, i got my job back, and we was doin good again, just the arguing alot.

So now the 2nd baby is 10 months now, and my husband is threatening me to a divorce. He said things like, "i got married too young, or for the wrong reasons", Stuff like that, well I shrugged it off, cause that word scares me. He knows he hurt me in the past by sleeping with all these other women, knowing that HE was the only guy ive been with sexually. I eventually moved out because I cant stand fighting with him, and we started getting along alot better (i had the kids with me). We were still a couple, but I seen him text alot of girls, talk to some. He said that hes single so he can do that. I shrugged it off. Well, this to me seems like a repeat of the first separation, because I gained some weight again with the second baby, and still had some to lose. I thought he was acting up cause of that reason. I Truly dont do nothing, all i do is take care of the kids, house, work and school. I hace a hand full of friends that I hardly ever see. I have no family here that's close by. That's why IM close to his mom.

Well now I'm 4 months pregnant again! I am all stressed out, because i dont know what to do. We cant even get along now because he hates that im pregnant. He was telling me when I first told him I was pregnant to get an abortion. I don't believe in those and thought he wouldn't neither, because he was raised in church. GOod thing i didint;' Its just hard for me because he is going to file for divorce, he tells me how many girls he messed with, things i shouldn't hear. I dont ask him nothing neither. I started going back to church, and I want to go to Christian marriage counseling, but he wont go. I will do it by my self. I just dont want to see my family fall apart, when i know this isn't the guy i married. He is up his friends butts all the time, hardly ever sees his kids. Rather be with his girlfriends and doesn't want to give me child support because he wants to pay for a divorce. I am so hurt that everything I tell him is in ear out the other. He said its too late to work things out, and that if i would've aborted the baby this would never happened. I cry all the time, my oldest is now 3, and it hurts when he asks for his dad. I have such strong faith in God, and I know he will do whats best for me and my family. So in all, does it seem bad that I want my marriage to work out? I know this is not the man I married.

I've been on it for 6 months now, i had a period, but it was extremely light (spotting), and lately I have been feeling movement in my belly, I took a pregnancy test, but came back negative. I'm just scared!

Im trying to find out my final grade:

Heres an outline

10% of quiz, I scored 90

10% research, I scored 100

TWO exams that are 24% each, I scored 86% & 68%

Particip. 32%, I got 100%

It was warm and didnt smell like urine would