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Cancer here. It's my first time dating a Sagittarius, actually. We were looking it up, and she had a laugh about my Cancer traits. ("I had no idea!" She'd say, since I try so hard to hide them.) But she's constantly worried about saying something too blunt, even though it's never, ever seemed too blunt for me, I guess? She keeps asking about my Gemini ex though for some reason, and when we're having a good time, laughing and stuff, she'll stop and randomly say, 'I'm kind of scared of you.' 'cause she's heard bad things. Scared of flirting, and cheating, even though I'm constantly reassuring her everything's alright?

I figured, I'm willing to do anything she wants, if I KNEW what it was she wanted, you know? My sis' is a Sagittarius, and there's no one I'm closer with, so it's not like I've ever seen one before, haha. I'm just wondering if I should be so worried about HER being so worried? Her panicking makes me panic, so I hold back, and not be clingy, but then she's actually pulling for more? Lol, but then turns around and initiates it, after already making me nervous, too. 'You're such a hounddog, I would have never guessed, I love it!' She'd say, but I'm thinking, 'Who isn't?' Because I believe, that it's supposed to be fun, and she agrees, at least. The problem, is it's looking like sex is all that's keeping us together? It's the only time we're not worried about hurting each other.

Main question.. is about, if there's anything Sagittarius would LOVE to have from a Cancer, BESIDES sex? What kind of advice am I missing out on? Any of you dating one.. or are you one, or what? Thanks too, in advance. (Sorry for talking so much.) I'm starting to think they're more sensitive than they claim, or something like that?

| Sun: Cancer | 7th House, Sagittarius (Empty) | Moon: Scorpio | Mars: Leo |

Alright, so I was at the casino the other day.. and the thought just occurred to me. Would each sign play differently behind the cards? Have different tactics, I mean?

Like some have better 'poker faces (Scorpio?),' and some go for logic (Gemini?).. while others have luck (Sagittarius?) on their side, so I was just wondering if you can see those different traits when the signs have a go at poker? Or any other card game? Would they be different if money was involved.. or if it was just a friendly round?

...you know what I'm talking about? xD

I'm just wondering.. to understand. As in, unconditionally -- in general? Aren't Pisces and Cancer somewhat similar?

And conditionally -- What if the Cancer doesn't act like a Cancer, but instead, gets in trouble a lot, fights for the Aries, has great humour, says calm words to stop an argument, and gives better sex, dominating them when they want it? While the Pisces is bad at the relationship in general, always making the Aries cry, putting them last, and constantly arguing about everything?

I'm just wondering, what would make an Aries prefer a Pisces over a Cancer..? Do they usually go for Pisces? Even if their mars is in Cancer, and both the Cancer and Pisces moon is Scorpio?

Thanks, too -- I just want to understand.

For instance.. if they claimed interested in two people. But instead of sticking to one, they tell the two people different things to put them against each other, and even admit to like seeing them fight.

Or, if they keep both of them close, yet say, write a dirty story about the second one and then show that first person, and say that they were doing things together, not even surprised when her boyfriend gets upset. Is that all just .. something to make that first person jealous for them? Or, is it some sort of test? Or, do they just want that person mad and gone so they can take the second person instead?

Do they like to be fought over like that? My Sagittarius sister brought it up first. "..She just wants you to fight over her, I know, because I'm the same way." Does that mean, it's all for the person they're trying to make jealous, and the second person is just being used? Or is there really some sort of good intention in there?

It's been bothering me. I see, maybe 50/50 of the time, some saying 'Cusps don't exist..it's where your sun's at,' and then tons and tons of things on Cusps. Even if you're born CLOSE to the before date.. shouldn't at least some of those traits carry over? It can't really just 'Cut off,' at the line, can it?

I was curious, because I can't tell where exactly my 'Sun Is.'

http://i44.tinypic.com/2a930vk.png

Even though just a little bit's on Cancer.. are we supposed to say, 'I'm Full out Cancer?' It'd get tiring saying, 'I'm Cancer, but well.. I'm also this too.. because..' and so, you know?

Ah.. thank you, for the answers in advance; I appreciate it. Honestly, I do.

My malti-poo had three puppies. They all went to different owners as well.

But, it's been about half-a-year or so, since then, and the friend who took one of them, the female, has asked us to 'dogsit,' while he's away on a trip. They act just a like, look a like.. it's cute. But we couldn't figure out if the mother remembers her, or she remembers the mother as well.

Question is, do they recognize each other?

(Thank you in advance too~!)

I've never dyed my hair before now. But, spontaneously, someone offered to do it, so I did. It went from dark, dark brown, almost Black, to a reddish-burgandy hue. But for some reason, when I take a shower, and get out. The color shows up on the towel, and there's a slight smell, like there was when dying it.

But, my sister used the same dye, and her hair's fine. Having no trouble or anything. I asked if there was a certain shampoo you're supposed to use, but everyone said 'No, that doesn't matter.'

I have a feeling, that it does matter.

Why is the colour coming out so easily? Because of the shampoo? Or is it my hair texture?

I don't really understand my chart too well.. even though I'm highly interested. I keep reading for information, but it's not working. Let's try another way, eh?

I appreciate any insight from you guys.. since I'm really into astrology. It's addictive.

The situation is.. I'm in this half-relationship. With a taken person. But they were strongly attracted to me, and I to them.. before we distanced. I came back, and they were taken, but we realized our feelings, and they let me stay with them. I give them comfort, and sex when they want.. but I still have a problem with running around, getting with other people, and flirting like crazy.

I know, it's bad. But I don't mind the cheating. I just want to understand from my charts, signs and planets.. why I'm addicted to cheating, and sex, and run away from things..

If it helps, the person mainly involved are is an Aries sun, Libra asc, and Capricorn Moon.

I truly appreciate anything.

(Also, I was wondering if homosexuality could be seen in there somewhere too..)

But please, spare the lectures.

Sun; Cancer - Moon; Scorpio - Mars/Venus; Leo - Asc; Gemini

Chart: http://i53.tinypic.com/5xtqvk.gif

Tables: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cb8hfilexcZ3TW-u13088780...