CLynn

Alright, so a friend of mine, who is the lead singer of his band, told me he wanted a noticeable haircut and color, well...I have been tossing around a few ideas. Oh, btw, I am cutting and coloring his hair, I do it for most of my friends. But he has darker brown hair, and he wanted blonde highlights, which to me does not look like lead singer for a "rock" band. Also his "bandmates" have blonde in their hair so I wanted something more bold but he is afraid of bold, such as blue or bright red and such. So I was thinking maybe lighter blonde low lights and like red blotches on random layers?

any suggestions for KIND OF bold hair?

Ok before all you Pro-Life, Jesus loving people get all on my case about murdering a human life...think about how I feel....Ok? So if you're not going to give a legit answer then don't bother even continuing reading.

It's been seven months since I had it done, I am fifteen and my mother felt like it was best to get it done (she went against every moral fiber she had)

my question is, I am still affected by it greatly, I get very emotional, and cry all night.... How can I get over it and find peace with myself?

My mother wants me to start taking supplements....like Omega something something, and iron, and calcium and etc. Like twelve different vitamins a day....she wants to do this in place of an anti-anxiety...can this actually work?

Me and this guy have been off and on for nine months now. We dated for a month and then I broke it off because he was pushing sex like crazy (by the way he was my first, but I wasn't ready for it a lot). but then I found out I was pregnant and we started talking again and getting closer again and now we're off and on because my parents don't like it so we have to keep it a secret until he comes and fixes it...ANYWAY...he's had sex with five other girls just these past three months and yesterday he had a threesome after he told me he was going to go play football with the guys. BUT his sister found out and told him she was ashamed of him and disappointed and refuses to talk to him until he figures his stuff out. The question is...should I give him the benefit of the doubt and see if this push from his family will actually change him or should I try to move on (which by the way I have tried many times, and even my therapist can't figure out why I can't)...opinions?

Ok, so it's pretty much 99 percent effective...right? but what happens if that one percent fails?

and also...since I got it (two months ago) I have not stopped bleeding heavily and also maybe signs of blood clot maybe..i am not sure...but I don't know...any ideas about any of this?

It's a school project and I have to create a plot line for The Lovely Bones. I remember a lot about the book, but what do you think are some key points to hit along the way?

I want something creative and something unique.

Here's a picture of it (Welsh Corgi puppy)

http://i186.photobucket.com/albums/x60/brightlight...

My mom blocked facebook and I need a way to get around it

Concern presses on for happiness through change,

As if adjustment to appearance will fix what is damaged.

She'll manage having her heart broken, over and over again,

Like making a little girl bleed is this year's biggest trend.

Starved to love and be loved, much too eager to grow and to die.

Suffering oh so silently behind eyes made of sky.

A pleasant demeanor and a nature of trust,

Which I hope is not replaced for heart jaded and disgust.

Complexion of fairness, future of uncertainty,

Though content with herself is what I'd like to see her grow up to be.

I wrote this one and the next one

What exactly is emotion and mental abuse....

So I was barely fifteen when my boyfriend and me had sex....and about three months later we finally realized that I was pregnant (actually my mom was the one who found out first..long story) and I wanted to keep it and give it up for adoption. I felt so horrible about what was happening. My mother didn't want to soil the family name and didn't want the rest of the family and the neighbors to find out..especially my sister (who is only 10) and I understood that but what I didn't want was to know that something was living and I'm the one responsible. I was the one who messed up, didn't use a condom and I should have taken the responsibility. Well my boyfriend found out and was crushed that I was going to lose it. We talked about ways to keep it, and this is stupid I know, but what to name is (which is bad cause then I got attached) well anyone. I went and had an abortion and it didn't really affect me fully for a few months.

My "boyfriend" of six months are having a rough times and we are fighting a lot. We've both been put under a lot of stress and I want to surprise him with something amazing. Stop the fighting, relieve some stress...you know....any idea...I mean anything at all..

So I started on Implanon about a month ago and at the end of "my month" I started to bleed light, but it's been like two weeks and it hasn't stopped or lightened up at all. Normal?

I've been "seeing" this guy for awhile, and my parents don't like him much now and we fight a lot. And then there is the other guy that I dated awhile ago but no we're just friends but he wanted more and I started to fall again and then I had a dilemma between which one. Well I finally realized I was tired of taking my guys crap and mental abuse and was like I am ready for the other guy. Then I find out he is dating my ex best friend (who by the way is a back stabbing liar) and I am so lost. Cause I finally was ready for someone that could actually work and now he's all like I have her I have her you can't do anything....and I don't want to go back to the first guy, and I really want the second guy but I don't know how to get him back. This girl plays and cheats on guys, but he doesn't believe me when I tell him that...I just don't want him hurt. I don't know what to do.

I just got Implanon (birth control inserted into your arm) and I have been having really bad pain in that arm...normal...should I ask about it?!

Are you ready for a very long story!?

So this guy I've been off and on with for about six months. He was dating this girl cheated on her with me and ended up dating me for about two months. Got me pregnant, parents found out, lost the baby, and now my parents hate him. We still like each other a lot but lately we've been fighting everyday and I found out when I went to Texas he slept with his ex the day I left and just now told me about it. Oh, and he get jealous like crazy about all my guy friends (those guy friends hate him so they talk **** on him a lot), also he is kind of a sex addict and I am new to that whole "scene" and don't like being pushed into it, and he complains a lot. He has told me a thousand times that he loves me and that i am the only girl for him but when I ask him to stop texting Megan( or Charli he's like they're my friends (blah blah blah). He made me stop talking to my best friend Jay because we had a histor I decided to give him one more chance...?

So my "boyfriend" has a lot of family problems. His parents are deaf and don't have a real good understanding of reality and his dad yells at him for the stupidest things. Ex- he left his basketball over at a friends house so his dad took away his Ipod until he got the basketball back. Anyway...he gets really angry and sad and all i ever say is I'm sorry and then he gets angrier that I never say anything that helps him calm down. I just don't know what to say.

One of his best friends died last week and I couldn't help him then either, I didn't know this guy well and I just couldn't connect and I feel terrible...

How can I fix this...what can I say?

I have to explain the different ironic points in Animal Farm and I want to be kind of abstract and read between the lines (yes im trying to suck up to my teacher) :)