Kalli's MaMa

I am 32 weeks pregnant with twins (feels like im stretched to my limits!!!!) I have been having alot of pain in one spot on my belly it is constantly aching and very tender to touch. It hurts especially bad if i cough or bend. What could this be?

I don't want to feed my daughter any sweets, i don't feel it is necessary for her to have cookies or jello or candy or chocolate muffins, fruit juices pop or any other things like that, at least not until she is actually old enough to realize what it is she is eating, in my opinion i want her to have only the HEALTHIEST foods possible for as long as possible, my husband and i both have weight problems and have been struggling with it our whole lives. My MIL is not the skinniest or healthiest weight either but she just keeps giving my daughter things that she doesn't know the difference about, she wouldn't know the difference if you were feeding her a cookie or something healthy she just likes whatever she is given. I have told her i don't want her eating sweets or anything but she doesn't listen It has now come to a point where i won't leave her alone with my daughter because im afraid of what she will feed her. At a baby shower last week she gave my daughter a cookie and she was holding it and eating it herself (which wasn't as bad) but once she was not interested in it anymore my MIL broke off pieces and put it in her mouth, and was giving her punch to drink, i don't even know what was in the punch!!!!!!! once i realized she was doing this i went and took my daughter away from her.

So basically my question is how do i get her to stop feeding my daughter... Ohhhh did i mention that she is only 10 MONTHS OLD!! I am expecting twins very soon and i am terrified of her keeping DD while im in the hospital, need some help ASAP! Also people keep saying im depriving her but is it really depriving her when she doesn't even know the difference? i just want her to grow up eating good healthy foods first and hopefully preferring it to sweets and snacks

sooo my husband just shaved off his beard, he has had it since she was born and now she is absolutely terrified of him, she will not even be in a room alone with him or look at him without crying hysterically

sooo... i need to fit 3 rf carseats in a 2 door cobalt. i have a safety 1st scenera (RF) and i need to also fit 2 infant seats. is it possible?!?!?!?

i get reaally hot feel like im going to faint, but never do and i loose balance need to lay on cold floor, very shaky and start to sweat badly. i have went tto the dr hey always check for diabetes but its always negative, they say theres nothing wrong, but i do not feel right

I have read and know that grandparents have rights during divorce or death situations, but my husband and i are together and do not want his mother seeing our daughter. can she take legal acion and force us to let her see the baby? we live in new brunswick canada.

The reasons we do not want her to see the baby include :

undermining our parenting decisions such as what and when to feed our baby, giving our baby water, co sleeping, breastfeeding, play and sleep times, weather or not to keep baby too warm or use blankets. Seems to think everything we do with our child is wrong. When the baby has stayed with her in the past for babysitting and once overnight the baby was completely removed from schedual, and not exercised properly including tummy time ec. just held in a blanket all day and night.

money issues, as far as she is concerned thats the only thing in life that matters and is always making every situation about it, i dont want my child being expsed to that way of thinking, causing fights and famliy problems because of "buisness".

Does not take proper care when puting baby in carseeat sroller car ect.

constantly comparing our baby with everyother baby (well so and so's baby does this

and eats that and shes the same age, so should your baby ect. )

My daughter was born 6 weeks early at 5lbs 5oz, i had a first degree tear up towards my clitoris rather than back towards the perineum, i am now pregnant again and need advice of ways to prevent tearing . i figure that i would tear worse with a bigger full term baby.

i have started sleep walking i think at first my boyfriend woudl come to bed and i would think that i was holding the baby and i would be so confused when i realzed that i wasnt, one night i took her sleeper off and tried to change her diaper in her bassinet (no diapers anywhere around) then i went and changed her in her room and last night the unthinkable happened when my bf came to bed i had brought the baby in bed with me i had her nesteled in my arm but the blanket was up over her, she is alright but i am so worried about this. so far it has only happened if i was exhausted or very stresed out, could this be causing it? what shoudl i do?

so this question is for canadians only please. i hear that there is some kind of supplement you can get from the government or something that helps with the cost of formula, i am unable to breastfeed and could really use the help if anyone knows about this please help me out.

im having alot of anxiety about taking a day off from visiting my baby in the nicu, im worried that everyone will think im being a bad mom. she was born 4 days ago, 6 weeks early. i havent had more that 2 hours of sleep at a time since she was born and i am absolutely exhausted, i like 1 hour away from the hospital she is at, the driving and the stress is really starting to get to me and i just feel like i need a break, is this being a bad mom.

My baby was born very suddenly at 34 weeks with no sign of preterm labor at all and a short labor of only 2.75 hours i did not have steroid shots, she in nicu not on oxygen but so far not eating, how long should i expect her to stay in hospital?

i have been having a pulsing pain in my spine mid way down my back, i am 30 weeks pregnant. it is very painful and uncomfortable. It only happens when im sitting down and standing up does not make it better. It lasts about 30 seconds to a minute.

So last weekend i went on a shopping trip and after standing for a while i got this tight feeling in my belly i felt like i was going to burst right down the middle. Also i was dizzy and lightheaded. Is this cause for concern. Also earlier today after i woke up i was very very warm, shaky and dizzy, could hardly walk. Is this cause for concern?

I have been having pain in my right side, my back my front my leg my arm my hand every ache is almost always on my right side, and the last day of so i have been having pain and tenderness at the top of my belly right in the middle. Also i had a tiny spot of blood the otherday barley bigger then a pen dot that was BRIGHT red, i just ignored it cuz it didnt happen again. When im standing up i feel like i have to pee but then when i sit to pee i just cant at all. The other day i felt like i really had to pee all day and i went 8 hrs before i could pee. And sharp pain in vulva, frequent headaches, all this really started in the last week or two. Should i be concerned? What could it be.

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I am 21 weeks, baby's heart beat is always found a little to the left. I am over weight, had low iron then all of a sudden it was high. Have had lower back pain since 8 weeks, placenta is in the front.

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