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after 9 months. I've always been irregular but not like this. By irregular, I mean I would have my period every 2 weeks for 7-9 days. Now, I'm just not having my period. It's been about 5-6 weeks now. Is it normal?

What's the possibility of me getting preg with and IUD and if so, what are the side effects for my child?

Well, I've been wanting to play tennis for a while with my husband since we have a tennis court in our apartment complex. The only thing is, the rackets costs too much!! Anyways, he and two of his co-workers (male and female) went out last week to play paintball (I wanted to go but still breastfeeding so was too afraid they might hit me on my boobs and damage/plug my milk ducts). Well, female co-worker now wants to play sports all the time and go out all the time, so this morning (7:00 a.m.) she text him saying she wants to play some sports. He suggested tennis!!!

I've been wanting to play tennis for about two years now and because rackets were too expensive we never did and now she wants to play sports, he's going for it. What the hell is that? They don't have anything romantic (at least to my knowledge) going on. And why (if we were playing), would he bring in a third wheel?

Men, do you still want to have sex with your wife even when she's on her menstrual cycle? Why? Isn't it disgusting??

Women, does your husband still want to have sex when you're on your mentrual cycle?? Why? Do you do it with him because he wants it soo bad or because you want to do it too?

All the other forums has young people in it and probably doesn't know what I'm going through right now. I really need help on coping with this, It's eating me up inside!!!

My younger sister (18 yr) recently came to live with me and my husband and just found out she's preg and getting an abortion. I've always been oppose to this solution because I believe everyone should own up to their responsibiltiy and who has the right to take a life!!!

Well, I am having a really really hard time coping with this because I've already fell in love with this baby in her tummy. She is scheduled to get the abortion this saturday and I am doing everything I can to prevent it. My parents doesn't know anything and I am not planning on being the one to tell them either. How the heck do I deal with this? It's tearing me up inside and out and all I ever think about is how this child never even had a chance to live.

I understand that it's her choice and she's going to have to live with it, but I don't want her to live regreting her decision either. Everyone that I know of that have done this has regreted it and I don't want her to live like this. She wouldn't give her baby up for adoption and she she says she's too young to have the baby. I just can't shake the thought of knowing that my niece or nephew's life is ending this weekend =(

My younger sister (18 yr) recently came to live with me and my husband and just found out she's preg and getting an abortion. I've always been oppose to this solution because I believe everyone should own up to their responsibiltiy and who has the right to take a life!!!

Well, I am having a really really hard time coping with this because I've already fell in love with this baby in her tummy. She is scheduled to get the abortion this saturday and I am doing everything I can to prevent it. My parents doesn't know anything and I am not planning on being the one to tell them either. How the heck do I deal with this? It's tearing me up inside and out and all I ever think about is how this child never even had a chance to live.

I understand that it's her choice and she's going to have to live with it, but I don't want her to live regreting her decision either. Everyone that I know of that have done this has regreted it and I don't want her to live like this. She wouldn't give her baby up for adoption and she she says she's too young to have the baby. I just can't shake the thought of knowing that my niece or nephew's life is ending this weekend =(

anyone in my home is looking at porn with my computer if they always delete the history address??

of giving oral sex to my husband as one of the most disgusting thing I've ever put in my mouth. I love him, but I can't even think about performing oral sex on him without wanting to gag. The thing is he loves it, but because of the way I feel, he doesn't mind not getting any, but I want to please him, but I can't get over it. I can't perform it for more that a minute or two and I'm done. It turns me off and I don't want to have sex anymore. Is there anything I can do besides continuing oral sex to feel more comfortable with it? Just honest answers PLEASE!!!

My husband recently told me that he wasn't sure if he loved our children or not. I was shock to hear him say such a thing and didn't know how to respond to that. Is it a phase that some dads actually go through or is it just him?

He also said becuase he didn't have a father to love him, he doesn't know how the "children love" feeling suppose to feel like. Is he trying to pull some crap on me, or is this really real?

He says he can't stand their crying or the fact that they can't understand (23 months old and 6 months old) and he just wants to hurt them to shut them up everytime they open their mouth. To me, it sounds like he really don't want to try to be a good dad and he really doesn't love our children. He's not willing to change and adapt into being a parent, because he says that that would mean our children won and he lost.

My husband was active duty but is in the national guard right now and isn't working any other job. He doesn't feel like he's doing anything purposeful so he wants to go active duty next year. I know if he does go, he will get deployed and I was deployed once already and I know all about what goes on during deployment that non military spouses don't know about.

I've expressed all these feelings to him about how I'm not going to move our children all over the place just so he can be happy. I understand he feels like he needs to support us, but he can do any other thing besides going active duty. A job is a job, you're not suppose to like it as long as it pays for your bills. That's what hobbies are for. He still just keeps complaining about how much he hates his life and how much he wants to go active duty again. What the heck am I suppose to do if he does decide to go and gets deployed. ( I've seen with my own eyes of all the cheating spouses' and I will not have it be done to me)

I've been married for only two years and have two children. A 22 month old and a 6month old. My husband and I work full time so we're always tired. I wake up every 3 hours to breastfeed my 6 month old so I hardly have time to sleep and when the weekends come around, I just want to relax and catch up on my sleep. It seems like we're both getting tired of eachother and our lives. I just want a few suggestions to help us out a little. Something to do that doesn't require too much time or effort or money.

My husband is currently applying for the CHP. Recently, his ex-girlfriend contacted him saying she's applying or LAPD and put him down as refrence. Who in their right mind puts down their ex-boyfriend as a refrence for a job!!!

Anyways, I felt uncomfortable with this and asked what he felt about it. He of course didn't think anything of it, but I get the feeling she's trying to squeeze her way back into his life. He says she's been thinking about it when they were dating (dated for 4 years, broke up for 1 year, been married for 2 years). oh.. and before we got married, she called him everyday until I told him I didn't like it (which was right before we got married, and no I didn't mind cause I always came first). But about a year later, she bumped into one of his friend and decided to email my husband to see how "we" were doing. And now all of a sudden, she has him as a refrence. Why do I get the feeling he did something to make her feel comfortable enough to pull a stunt like that