chloe

My girlfriend means the world to me but she's gone away for a while and isn't able to talk to me while she's away. I feel lonely. What should I do to occupy myself? Thanks for any help.

Hello

There's nothing particularly wrong with my life, it's pretty stable.

My parents divorced when I was younger, I lost some people that were close to me, I was bullied, I struggled with my sexuality. Nothing out of today's society's norm. But recently, like I have before, I've been feeling very empty and lost, which makes me very indecisive and confused. I really do not know why I feel this way; I'm doing reasonably well at school; my family life is stable; I'm in a great relationship but I feel so numb. What should I do to solve this? I'm not one for counselling or therapy and I don't like expressing my feelings to my Mum or Partner but I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I feel like I have no reason to carry on.

Thank you

I love my partner so much but we have to go to university and be away from each other for at least 3 years and it will be hard not to see them everyday.

What does anyone suggest I do to make it work?

I love my current partner. But I also have feelings for my ex. Is this normal? I'm really scared I'm going to push away the person I'm with now because of my slight underlying feelings for my ex. I love them both for different reasons.

Thanks for any advice

I told my Mum I was bisexual and had a girlfriend today.

She's so angry/upset/disappointed.

She said I was 'making the wrong decision and a bad choice'. She's highly embarrassed of me and doesn't want anyone to know; my sister who's 12, people at school, family, anyone. She would like me to end it with my girl.

What do I do? She's so set in her ways, I don't think I can ever change her mind. I'm scared. I think I'm going to run.

Advise appreciated. Thanks.

What do I do?

My girlfriend is really shy and kind of awkward and I want to make her as comfortable as possible and have a good time, obviously.

What do you suggest?

Thanks :)

I'm 16 and out as bisexual and have recently got a girlfriend. She's amazing and I'm really beginning to love her but she's recently spoken to me about being terrified of commitment. I know 16 is young and we're sort of experimenting in a sense (this is my first gay relationship) but I'm worried that she'll just get all afraid and leave me.

What should I say to her? Should I speak to her about it? I understand that she may want to leave me because she doesn't love me but I would hate for her to leave me one day because she's scared. I want to make her feel reassured.

Thanks :)

What is your preferred breast size?

Is A too small is F too big?

Interested to know, from a pupils perspective.

I've just started sixth form, I've been at the same school for 4 years now.

I'm in the first teams for hockey, netball and tennis and am a sixth form Sports Scholar. I represent the school to the best of my ability, I attend every practise and match.

Yet, lately, at a training session this week I was tired and a little irritated and I wasn't working to the best of my ability. I lost my captaincy and I have been ignored by the PE department all week. The other Sports Scholar who doesn't like hockey that much, whereas I play it a high standard, now has my captaincy and keeps gloating.

Since, I've been working really hard to please them again and get them to like me again but they still ignore me and pretend I'm not there.

This has really upset me and knocked my confidence. Because I'm a Sports Scholar I have to take A level PE and in lessons, they're the same and I feel like crying all the time.

Any advice on what to do? Thank you.

I would absolutely love to be given the role of head girl this year and am prepared to work so hard for the role.

I am a good leader, passionate and enthusiastic. I am also hard working and am generally very polite to all staff and students. My grades are good, not anywhere near the best in the year but I am a straight A student.

What would you, as teachers, look for in selecting your head girl?

What would they have to be that's different from the others?

I attend a high achieving private all girls school, where about 20 girls will certainly apply, if not more. They're all great; clever, polite and hugely respected and regarded.

Any advice on what I can do to pip the post?

Thank you!

I have taken;

PE, Biology, English literature and Geography for A level - would this be a good combination for law?

I hope to get 4 A's at AS level and 2 A*'s and 2 A's for A2. I did reasonably well at GCSE, with 8 A*'s/A's and 2 B's.

If I get that those results (hopefully)... Do you think I could study law? Or would other subjects be more suitable?

Thank you!

I'm so unhappy. I feel so alone, so isolated. I have no close friends. I have tried and tried and tried to strengthen friendships but it just doesn't work out; I'm ignored and pushed aside, forgotten.

I have no one to talk to and I feel empty inside and I'm truly beginning to think that I think it would be best to not be here anymore. This isn't an attention seeking rant, it's a genuine post and I don't want to die but there's nothing left for me.

People just don't want to be my friend, don't want to be around me. I'm not quiet, I'm not the centre of attention but I'm just not chosen by anyone for friendship purposes. I ring people, send messages and text people. They reply, are polite but they are always busy - it's been the same for 3 years. I've had enough and I just want to end it all. I sit in my room and cry myself to sleep and I'm so terrified at the though of two more years at school. A levels are important, of course but I want some friends, a social life.

Any support and advice will be appreciated; thank you so much.

What is your favourite Divergent character? Mine is Uriah. What about you?

I absolutely love Harry Potter but I am interested in people's favourite characters and why.

Mine are Harry and Hermione due to their continuous hard work, bravery and sacrifice and have been huge role models for me growing up.

What about you?

Just wondering

I got 110 on my IQ test... What does that mean?

I was told it was about average.

I think I have done fairly well but I can't be sure. I know I have gotten A's and A*'s in my better subjects so I'm not too worried about them. But...

I took iGCSE Edexcel Maths and I found the paper 3H really difficult. Maths is my weakest subject anyway... I was hoping for a high B or low A but I'm not even sure I will get a B. Paper 4H wasn't too bad, much better than 3H.

In order to get into sixth form, I have been required to get a B but I'm not sure if I got it. What if I don't get in?

The same goes for Physics, my other weak subject, but that doesn't matter too much. I will hopefully get a B.

I'm studying PE, Biology, Chemistry and Theatre Studies/Drama next year so not either of those subjects, yet they require quite a bit of Maths.

Any advice will be appreciated! Means so much to me.

I would like to be, at the moment, a PE teacher, a paramedic or physiotherapist.

I have chosen PE, Biology, Chemistry and Theatre Studies. I also enjoy English and Geography so they could be options too.

Are these good subjects to take? I am fairly clever, hoping to get 2 B's, 4 A's and 4 A*'s at GCSE.

The issue is I find Chemistry quite difficult and I'm worried that I will struggle and not be able to take the course as it will really help my future.

What advice could you give me? About choices and decisions?

Thank you.