Andrew

Long story short, went to the gym and hit on the front desk girl. I offered my number to her and she declined saying she had a boyfriend. 

No problems. I walk out she says bye sweetie to me and then proceeds to look me up on instagram and follow me ( I didn't give her my info) which means she looked me up from my membership in the computer. 

I message her and ask her out for a coffee making some jokes along the way. She comes at me with I'm sorry to make it awkward but I followed you as a friendly gesture because I was flattered that you came up to me the way that you did. My friends and I couldn't understand this at all. Friendly Gesture? Very rude tbh I ask you out, you show interest by looking me up and following me then pull it away? You already declined me politely, you already showed you were flattered.  Best guess was she just got out of a relationship would like to hear other opinions.Thanks. 

I recently placed a $500 deposit down to purchase a hard to find car from the factory( the car is made in Japan and the company then ships it custom made over here .) The paperwork says that it is still pending credit approval as well as my trade-in. The dealership said it could take as little as 12 weeks and as much as until December for it due to COVID. 

What if my trade-in value or credit allocated ( APR percent) is not to my liking? Can I back out of the deal and only be on the hook for just the $500? How would that process go if I were to back out. 

Finally free from credit card debt after foolish college spending habits maxed out my only 2 cards ( 2 years since any credit card spending) The card company cancelled my cards along time ago as I was unable to pay the minimum fir months due to sustained unemployment. Now that i have been able to clear the debt clean but have no credit cards how to I improve the score/ get a new card to increase my utilization potential/ usage for a potential car purchase down the line. that is surely needed. Thanks

My ex girlfriend keeps asking for us to meet up and talk about our situation and talk as friends. I have zero interest in being just friends and have told her multiple times. Every time I have tried talking to her, she has ignored me, and said "I need time and space before talking about getting back together with you." She has mentioned talking and also being friends but only on her terms. I have said I want to try again and date her in the future but I want my space, I do not ever want to be just friends. I unfriended her on facebook and she got mad. What games is she playing here?. She messaged me tonight after we passed each other at college. She waved at me, i ignored her. What do i do, i have yet to respond to her email

My ex broke up with me because I lied to her and became really needy and insecure. I could not stand seeing all her posts on facebook with her friends so i just unfriended her. and told her after literally apologizing and begging her for another chance that i would leave her alone and not contact her unless she contacted me first and that i want to her back her trust. I just want her back really bad and do not know how to proceed. She said she is open to getting back with me in the future but i royally screwed up

I have been dating this girl for over two and a half years currently and she has frequently talked about moving in together, getting married ECT.

However, We have had the same fights over and over again due to my insecurity.

Eventually, She told me it was the last time we could have that fight basics she would go out with her friends, something would happen ( get drunk, she would dress inappropriate and shove it in my face) and if I called her out she would call me jealous and get mad at me. So I decided to make a change and tell her I was insecure with certain things and that i want to work on them. She broke up with me, and then afterwards said that she was open to get back together with me given some time. For her to process everything being alone versus in a relationship and for me to grow past my insecurities ( basically fearing that she would leave me and that no one liked me.)

She also agreed for us to talk in three weeks to see where each other and talk.

What should I do from here besides leave her alone and get better? I want to know what she is feeling

Everyone including herself said I'm a great guy and boyfriend her friends and her mom love her and she said she wants to move in with me and marry me I'm really just in limbo.

I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years now, and the same guy keeps coming up over and over again. My girlfriend claims that he is not interested in her "not his type" . They are apart of the same program/majir at school and work together as well. I have read their text messages *yeah i know i dont care) Nothing too over the top but she does give off the signs to me that she likes him based off the texts. She assures me nothing is happening to my face, but things are glaring in my face. She follows his facebook friends to a tee. I have seen a pattern that when he accepts a friend so does as well and copies him the numbers dont lie. To me she has a thing for him, he has a girlfriend, she has a boyfriend(me) . Me and her just went on vacation as well. Shes also open as a book with me. My point is hoe can i combat this and him? I have been ignoring it for almost a year now, but i feel i have to do something to either get her more interested in me again somehow or to make her interest in him decrease. Her claims to me are lies in my eyes to basic psychology.

So my girlfriend and I are doing long distance till August ( she got an internship 1500 miles from me). And at the job, this guy just randomly walked up because her job is on a college campus and forced her to take his phone number and listen to him hit on her repeatedly and she called me afraid. She told me she talked to her co-worker and her co-worker said she should not have done her laundry across the street and done it on the campus even though it is cheaper across the street. She is talking to her boss today, but I don't know what to say to her . she called me last night scared and afraid.

So in 1 year I will graduate college debt free with a Bachelors degree in business. I was looking to quite possibly then continue and get a masters in business Administration . But I would have to take out student loans, as my parents will no longer pay for my schooling. Is it worth it to take out 30k in student loans to get a master's degree in 2 years?>

I have a Macbook Pro 2013 model with the CD drive ( last model with one i5 processor). But It has been battered( was in a car accident) it still works for basic computing but cannot use many applications or do light video editing anymore because of it. I am in the market for the new laptop to pair with it ( considered a new desktop but not home enough to enjoy it ). I have not used a windows product since 2011 and hated it ( Dell Inspiron laptop But i love the 2 in 1 design of the HP Spectre and the ability to game on it however virus protection and all that jazz stinks. I enjoy Mac OS better than then i used windows 7, but i enjoy the features of HP Spectre. What is the better option?

I have been dating my girlfriend for 1 year and 7 months at the time of this writing. We are both in college ( Sophomore and Junior), and she is about to go away for most of the summer to another state( 1500 miles away). We did long distance last summer, and during some breaks but we always saw each other atleast once a month during that time. Im kinda afraid of this LDR because itll be for almost 90 days. Middle of may until August before i see her again. Any advice for me/us? we both are confident in us and think this will make us stronger as a couple especially how long we ve been together in school. And that this is just another big hurdle until we move in together. Thoughts? i m kinda scared but i know she is even more scared she just doenst say it

So my girlfriend of a year and a half and I have sex less than once a month now and she sends me articles about different sex positions to try that she wants. Problem? She teases me sexually a little then I try to persue / i persue before anything she says she is " too tired" from work or stress or whatever i give 2 craps at this point and then i drive her home as a good boyfriend. She is starting to piss me off with this crap where i dont even want to hang out with her anymore because if she doesnt want it dont be a cock tease and send me articles and sexually flirt its BS. She asked me tonight when im avaiblle to get together this weekend after she turned me down again tonight ( too tired ) for the 4th time in a row for the last 2 weeks. I told her idk not looking good for us to see each other this week really busy. plus if she tries anything im tempted to decline out of spite and say sorry im too tired. what the heck is her problem??? she is a tease, and does not have anything to do tmrw makes no sense

So my girlfriend went to the City ( NYC) alone for class. and is texting me that she doesnt know where to go, and is scarred and that i shouldnt let her go alone anymore even for college class. I dont know how to respond to that. I was thinking of saying If you need help give me a call and ill walk you through it and save the fair maden as a joke good or should i say something else ? confused with the whole making sure she feels safe and still flirting

So I am looking into buying a new laptop to go with my Macbook Pro from 2013. I really dig the HP Spectre with its 2 in 1 feature plus the thing looks just dope. Im deciding on whether i should get the HP - Spectre x360 2-in-1 15.6" 4K UHD TouchScreen Laptop - Intel® Core™ i7 - 16GB Memory - 512GB Solid State Drive for 1,500$ or ge the spectre for 750$ open box still core i7 8gb memory, 256 gb. The 1500$ has Geoforce 940 MX as well. I would need it for paper writing, using Indesign, protools, and possibly light gaming

So I was always a fantastic student in History getting a 99 on the US history (top in my class ) , and 94 on the World history ( 3rd in my class) in High School . I am a junior in college and switched through many job choices ( nutrition, economics, and now Public Relations/Communications). I wanted to do nutrition but was young at 17 and slacked off now im in PR a field that is ok to me not really exciting unless i get the perfect fit which seems very difficult now a days. I am a junior and about to be a senior that works in CVS as a pharmacy tech and considered going to pharmacy school after i get my PR degree which i think would help in retail pharmacy. my dad and my brother in law are both lawyers and i considered going to law school as well. What is a good career option for me. I dreamed of working for the Museum of Natural History/ something similar it was always me dream to do history but the pay swayed me away and the lack of jobs. thanks

As of this moment, I am a Junior (spring ) about to be a senior ( fall 2017) in college studying Public Relations to recieve my BA in spring 2018. I was looking at law schools to potentially go to and ran across some glaring issues #1 would I be going for a master's of us law ? Since there is no bachelors of law and why would anyone want it to be honest , my question is what degrees should I look at? And the time needed to complete the courses ?. I know a typical master's time is 2 years but I see conflicting reports due to paying per credit . From the NY Area, looking at Hofstra, Touro and anything in the area

So quick question, I have had a crush on Kate Beckinsale since I was a young boy ( 9 years old) Im now almost 21, and She is now single . How would i go about trying to get a date with her ? even as a fan that would make my basically childhood and damn that would be awesome. Saw her in the Underworld movies , saw everyone those leather jacket leggings combo with her black hair dammmnnn... even my girlfriend wants me to meet her which is kind of creepy lol. Thanks kinda fan boying

so my girlfriend and i have been dating almost 18 months now ( 1 and a half years) and one problem we run into is space vs not enough space. As it is now, she is mostly the 1 to text me first when she misses me or wants help with someone or wants to send me a funny picture. Then we talk and i ask her for a date on the weekend. However since she has become busy with her job ( it ends on friday) we have talked very minimal via text maybe 20 texts if we talk and sometimes we go days without texting at all. i also send pictures and we occassionally use puppy names, but very little flirting nothing sexual anymore , goes on more teasing . My thing is that i have gotten into a rut where if i text her first is that needy/ giving her the "power" and how to balance texting with dates and space. I saw her twice last week for maybe a grand total of 8 hours

So i have been talking to this girl more like flirting with her because that s how is seem to get girls to be my friend. but this girl is different, she s difficult and responds and plays with me and is quick to yell out my name, and texted me first today. However, while texting I made it clear that I want to be friends with her and it immediately stalled the conversation, how do i get it back on track to being friends she knows I have a girlfriend .

So my girlfriend and I made plans, the, she cancelled 10 minutes later because her friend/college roommate got rejected. Here's the kicker they dated breifly a year ago and she broke up with him apparently because she's afraid of commitment dumb reason never had a boyfriend before him. Apparently she's always liked him but after she rejected him he got a girlfriend and had sex in a 7 month relationship . she roommate girl goes around saying she likes all these other guys like a whore and then goes back to this guy and he says sure let's go out then says no when she won't have sex with him. Now my girlfriend is telling me this and I know the guy and we use to be friends and lost touch, and girlfriends roommate and I have butted heads before . I actually hate her she is a lying backstabbing user and abuser . I feel for the guy girl hurt him . Don't know what to do with my girlfriend . Head tells me stay out, heart tells me to tell my girlfriend this is a load of high school bull