Stuthi

So I’m crushing on this shy guy for last 2 years. I've confessed to him after befriending him for a couple of months. He said he isn't into love and stuff. For a few days we continued being good friends but then he started ignoring me yet wouldn't miss the opportunity to look at me. He even had a blush on his face when he saw me. His friends would smirk and shout out his name when I’m around. And in his absence they tend to observe me. This semester I've caught him looking at me on numerous occasions when I’m far off and he turns away instantly or strokes his beard, touches his face when I or a friend of mine sees him. When he’s near me he has a tough time making eye contact, pupils dilate, and he runs his fingers through his hair. More friends of his seem to be aware of us this semester than last semester. I've even tried hiding somewhere when he comes just to see if he’ll look around for me and he did. He seemed restless and pissed when he did not see me over 6 days and on the 7th day when he saw me, he was hyper, spoke with his friends more loudly than usual and also had his eyes fixed on me. I even caught him looking around the parking lot for my vehicle.

But on the con side, he doesn't respond to any of my texts. He ignores them.

So can someone please help me in deciphering him. What’s on his mind? Does he like me?

So i'm in love with this guy for over a year. I befriended him last semester and consequently told him straight up that i loved him. He rejected telling that relationships aren't his priority. After the rejection we remained friends.

However, there are some remarkable changes this semester. His friends have befriended me and whenever they see us talking, they grin. Only in his absence they acknowledge me and they also seem to observe me which will then be reported to him. When that guy sees me talking to other guys he gets jealous and gives those other guys disgusted looks. After seeing me or talking to me, he gets over excited to an extent that his friends too are stunned.

But just when I thought he's interested in me, he started to ignore me. Now on alternate days he acknowledges me and other days he ignores. But his friends behavior hasn't changed. They still grin in his presence and acknowledge me in his absence.

Can someone please help me in figuring out what's going on? What's on his mind? Does he like me? Why do the friends act like that? Is he possessive of me? Is he not sure whether he wants to be in a relationship?

NOTE: After rejection, whenever I spoke to him, I haven't brought up the topic of love . Our conversations were focused on random topics like movies, sports, books, college, weather, career plans etc.

So guys, imagine you're at a bus stop. Alone. Waiting for a bus. A junior from your college, whom you weren't even aware of, walks up to you & strikes conversation.

What would you do?

Would you prolong the conversation or would you cut short & run for cover?

Also, do tell whether you'd wave at her in the college & look forward to talk to her.

So, i love this guy in my college, deeply, madly & passionately and he doesn't know I exist. Though we're friends over Facebook, we've never chatted with each other. Though I've texted him, he hasn't replied. I see him occasionally in college & follow him around. I rarely get noticed by him. I'd managed to befriend his friends, but the friendship too deteriorated over time. I confessed my feelings for him to a mutual friend of ours, but it turns out they aren't as close as they seemed to be.

Now, it feels like all paths are closing in, but I really don't want to give up so soon. Not without trying all the ways to get him.

What more can i do to get him? How do i tell him that i love him? I really don't want to lose him.

Please help.

So he's a shy guy & I'd sent him a FB friend request in Febraury, he din't know me, so he'd just kept it pending, untill last week when I sent him a 'Hi' to which he din't reply.

Later, i sent him a 'thumbs up' emotion albeit unintentionally, to which he din't reply, but he accepted my friend request the same day after a gap of 8 hours. ALso, he has started to act weird around me in college.

While I was awaiting my turn to take my books, I casually glanced back & he was coming parallel to the queue and ended up joining the line back of me. I managed to turn back twice & each time I caught him seeing me.

After the books were distributed, when he was passing by my building, he straightaway lifted his head towards my classroom & saw me twice... just me.. only me.

Later in the day, i was hiding from his sight when he saw my friend coming at a distance & instantly looked around her & in her vicinity since i'm always with her.

The next day when we were waiting fro our classrooms to be open, he stood in my vicinity. Though he never saw me straight up, he saw in such a way that he could see me from his peripheral vision. Also, after the classrooms opened, he moved only after i moved.

Also, i noticed he has befriended a guy from my class who has started sitting in my vicinity and eavesdrops my conversations with others.

So, what do all these imply? Why is he acting like this? Does he like me?

So, i have this HUGE crush on one shy nerd guy in my college who's one year senior to me. He has no idea about my existence. We have a couple of mutual friends, but they aren't the ones to whom I can open up about the crush, as they are more loyal to him than me. Nor has he accepted my request on Facebook. He hasn't enrolled in any clubs. And since we have chosen different subjects, there isn't any common topic for us to talk either.

Given that he's shy, its difficult for me to smile at him or have small talk with him. He might think I'm flirting with him.

I'm planning to send him a message over Facebook, but I don't know what to send or worse it could end up in his spam folder or he might block me seeing my desperation.

What do i do? How do i get his attention?

Please help.