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I posted the other day, but have had more time to think clearly. Husband and I got married when we was 18, now we are 28 and 29 with 2 small kids. He has a good job and I am a stay at home mom and recently started back at college. We have a lot together. Of course, we have had our ups and down. With being so busy and him working nights and he works like 50 hrs a week, we don't have sex but like once a week. We was having problems 5 years ago and he left me for somebody else when I was pregnant. I filed for a divorce, but after 2 weeks took him back. 1 because I love him and 2 because he showed true remorse for what he did. 5 days ago he told me that he has had sex with a 3 other girls since. Slept with 1 of them once, the 2nd one two times, and the last one 4 times. He told me EVERYTHING! He said he never spent any time with them. He had sex and left. Said he had absolutely no emotional attachments, plans or thoughts of wanting to even be with them. He said he wasn't getting sex at home, so he went and got it. He said he came out and told me because of the guilt and because he didn't want to do it anymore and wanted to be with his family. There is no excuse for what he did. I am so angry and hurt that I don't know if I even want to be with him, but I know the pain of him leaving is horrible. Does it mean something for him to actually come out and tell me everything? He said he hasn't been happy for awhile, but because of the lack of sex. Otherwise, he loves me and wants me. He said he told the girls that he wanted nothing more than to have sex. He'd have sex, put his clothes on and leave. He was never that late home from work, so I do believe that. I do believe that he had no emotional attachment to them because he has always told me everyday he loves me and I'm beautiful. In his way, he warned me we wasn't having enough sex and he wasn't happy with our sex life. I am checking into therapy to see an expert point of view also. I'm not looking for people to say just leave! I want some actual answers with experience from men and women. He said that he loves having sex with me and only me, but when I wouldn't do it every time he wanted he felt he had to do it. He said he knows that we can be happy like we was a short time ago. I believe every circumstance is different and there is not a stereotype for each and every person that decides to cheat. I just want to understand. He said he would leave if I wanted him to, but that he doesnt want to.

3 days ago my husband confessed of having sex with 3 different women in the past 5 years. Had sex a total of 7 times between all of them. Yes, I'm stupid and asked! He said that it was only sex and he had no feelings what so ever for any of them. He said he wasn't getting enough at home, so went and got it somewhere else. Said he told me cause of the guilt. He is begging me not to leave him and told me he was sorry. Don't they all though? I mean, once a cheater always a cheater? Right? 5 years ago he left me for another woman and I took him back and things were great, besides me not really completely getting over it. He says that he will never cheat on me again and that he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. The pain is horrible. Can you give me some adivce, please?

IOS come back and see me. I have no idea what this means. Can somebody help me and tell me what I need to do, please!

My anxiety level in the past almost 3 years have spiked due to a lot of stress..but I've for some reason concentrated my anxiety on my breathing. I'm afraid that if I do too much strenuous activity that I will lose my breath and not be able to catch it. Yesterday i walked up a big hill and got my heart going really fast and started flipping out, but I got my breath back after about 2 or 3 mins. I have sports enduced asthma, but I don't wheeze or anything. Does anybody else have this problem? What can I do to STOP this frame of thinking? No smart *** answers either.

Woke up this morning with that pain in my chest when I moved. I didn't know if you could like pull a muscle in your chest when your sleeping. It doesn't hurt when I breath or anything, just when I move a certain way.

I'm not good at this computer stuff and my laptop says it has infections on it. This crap keeps poppin up sayin' Firewall warning and stuff like that. I just want simple, easy and cheap.

I asked this question awhile back, but I'm still having the same pain. Its been going on for like a year. I'm a hypochondriac and it is just bothering me. A little help please..........

I have searched and searched on the internet, but not really found anything. I have not gone to the doctor yet, but willl make appointment. About a couple of months ago, I noticed a pain on the left side of my back about 4 or 5 inches to the left of my spine and just at the bottom of my left shoulder blade. It doesn't hurt all of the time. If I sit straight up (like your suppose to) it doesn't hurt. But, I don't sit like that all of the time. Anyway, when I take a deep breath or move wrong it hurts. It's not like a 10 pain. I've been to the chiropractor two times and it hasn't helped. I expressed my concern about my lung and he said it wasn't my lung, that it was probably a muscle. It's kind of like a mild burning pain and just a pain (don't know how to explain). Can anybody please let me know if they know what it could be?

6 months ago

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6 months ago

Well, I haven't been lifting weight, but just doing regular exercises. It does get even more sore when I do more things with my arm. It doesn't crack or nothing when I move it. Do you think it could be my lung or do you think it is muscles?

6 months ago

I'am new to this. Could you tell me how I answer your questions?

If you are happy with your significant other and have a family, do you still wander about being single and being able to do what you want when you want and not have to answer to anyone?

Long story short........Been married 8 years with two boys. We have a good marriage and a great sex life. Well, I looked in his phone the other day and saw a text and a weird number. So, I asked him about it. Its a woman that he use to work with that is like almost 10 years older than us. I knew she was sending him those gay joke text messages, but I didn't know that they was friends. I'am a very sensetive person and he said he didn't tell me that they still talk about once a month or so. They don't see each other, but just send those stupid texts. We've had a 3 day ordeal over this. He told me that he loves me and our family and wouldn't do anything to hurt me and that their just friends. He told me that he wouldn't respond to anymore of her texts if thats what I want. He said that there is nothing wrong with him being friends with her, because thats all it is. So, is this normal? Do some married men have female friends that they just talk to about once a month?

Not everytime, but most of the time after my husband and I have sex the bottom of my stomach hurts. I really don't know any other way to explain it, but does anybody else have this? I'm kind of a freak, so I like it rough and all that, so do you think that could be causing it? But, not everytime we do it rough and it still hurts.

So, my husband and I was watching a movie last night and somehow I came up with the question of would you sleep with another woman if I gave you permission? He said if your giving me permission, then yes and he asked if I would sleep with another man if he gave me permission. Well, my answer was no, because I have no desire to sleep with anybody else. He said that it was just sex and didn't mean anything. I was like, what does that mean about our sex? He said that our sex is husband and wife sex and it does mean something. He said if I would ask any other married man then they would say the same thing. So, my question is........If your wife or girlfriend gave you permission to sleep with another woman, would you? And is sex just sex? This is just a curiosity question, so lets not dig into it.

I have had this sinus thing going on for like 4 to 6 weeks now. I have went through one round of antibiotics and taking over the counter medicine. Now, My head feels weird. I have a headache behind my eyes and at the top to the back side of my head. Sometimes, it feels like my head is going to pop. I'm still clogged up in my nose and can feel the pressure between my eyes. I just feel kind of floatey and its like I can feel the pressure built up in my head. I don't know, its kind of hard to explain. I can breathe when I use my nasal spray. I guess, I was just wandering if anybody else has had symptoms like mine and just wandering if there is some relief somewhere that I haven't found. It kind of seems like I've been using that nasal spray so much that it is pushing it up further into my head. Do you know what I mean? I feel fine though. I don't feel ill and I haven't had a fever.

I usually only get sick like once a year, but this year I've been sick like 3 or 4 times. My stupid sinuses. Has anybody else had this problem or is it just me?

Do you ever feel kind of weird? Not like a dizzy or headache feeling, but kind of like a floaty feeling? It doesn't last all day or anything, but sometimes it comes and goes. I'm not worried about it, but I was just wandering if anybody else has felt this way.

I was just wandering, do you have to be attracted to another woman to have sex with them or even be with them? My husband and I have been together for a long time and he has left me ONE time for someone younger and slept with her. I filed for divorce, but ended up taking him back. He told me he didn't even have feelings for her. Can you please explain how this works?

I passed out in the shower and woke-up on the floor. I hit the right side of my head and banged up a couple more places, but what I was wandering if anyone else has had something similar happen? I still have a headache and feel kinda loopey, but other than that I feel fine. I looked at my pupils and everything and they look fine. I usually don't smoke as soon as I wake up and I did, then I got in the shower and felt really sick to my stomach and the next thing I know I woke up on the floor. I didn't cut my head open or anything it's just a sore spot. ONLY SERIOUS ANSWERS....PLEASE

I have searched and searched on the internet, but not really found anything. I have not gone to the doctor yet, but willl make appointment. About a couple of months ago, I noticed a pain on the left side of my back about 4 or 5 inches to the left of my spine and just at the bottom of my left shoulder blade. It doesn't hurt all of the time. If I sit straight up (like your suppose to) it doesn't hurt. But, I don't sit like that all of the time. Anyway, when I take a deep breath or move wrong it hurts. It's not like a 10 pain. I've been to the chiropractor two times and it hasn't helped. I expressed my concern about my lung and he said it wasn't my lung, that it was probably a muscle. It's kind of like a mild burning pain and just a pain (don't know how to explain). Can anybody please let me know if they know what it could be?