Chels

I have a 2 year old little boy who is very active! He is very hyper and very stubborn... he has his father's temper which is really bad... he hits anything he can when he's mad including me occasionally... right now I sit him in time out when he tells me no and doesn't listen or hits me... my child is very well behaved for the most part... these fits happen every once in a while but when they do I don't feel like time out works or phases him... all I do is sit him down for 2 minutes and he's doesn't rreally care... can anyone relate and have any advice or ideas on how to make him understand it's not ok... I know some people have some very creative ideas when it comes to time out... I will not spank him unless he was to do something REALLY bad so please don't mention that... thanks:)

Me and my bf broke up the day after I had our son bc In the hospital I went through his phone and found out he cheated on me six days before... My son is now four months old and my x has had one job that lasted two weeks and hasn't worked since... He hasn't bought anything for our son or helped with the bills but I have a decent Job and is doin it all on my own... But I still let him see our son once or twice a week... He won't go to court bc he doesn't wanna pay child support but him and his family is pressuring me to let him keep him every other weekend... But I have been the one supporting our child and hasn't been away from him for more than a few hours and when his dad is around he gets frustrated easily and doesn't like to feed him or change him... So my question is, are they right? I've had several ppl tell me that me not sending him for the weekend is being selfish... I know he is his father but I wouldn't be comfortable sending him until he proved himself more to me and started helping financially also and also putting him first bc he also cancels his days to see him to hang out with friends... I know I'm rambling but basically in ur opinion what would u do? I still won't send him until I'm comfortable but I want other ppls opinions... Thanks

Me and my boyfriend had a baby four months ago... Between raising our son and work we don't get much time alone but I want to surprise him with something bc he is very kinky and good at coming up with idea... Ill try just about anything but I suck at coming up with idea... Would love any ideas or tips to surprise him or keep him interested... I don't want things to get boring in the bedroom...

While in the hospital, barely 24 hours after having my son... My bf and i had just sent our baby back to the nursery for the night... Our relationship had been going pretty good, or so i thought... But anyways, my bf fell asleep pretty fast and i saw his phone laying beside me and just curious i went through his phone honestly thinking i wasnt going ti find anything... but instead i found porn videos off a porn site and then a pic of a girl in her bra... i could tell the pic wasnt from a porn site and woke him up and asked him about it... he swore to me it was off a website too... just when i started to believe him he fell back asleep and so i decided to finish looking through it.. after i snuck it out from under his arm and found a video of a girl playing with her breasts... it was the same girl who had sent the video... then i found the conversation where he asked the girl for the pics and videos... i also found a dating app where he talked to at least 20 girls calling them pretty and stuuff... then i found a long conversation between him and this one girl saying where they thought eachtoher were hot and wanted to have sex... This alll went on 6 days before i went into labor... He told all the girls he talked to that he had a gf and a baby on the way but the little skanks didnt care... He told the girl that if he wasnt with me then she would have a chance and that he really wanted to hook up with her and what i didnt know wouldnt hurt me.... I went off on him and both the girl he had the conversation with and the one he sent pics to... Bc he hadnt actually had sex with them yet he claims he didnt cheat and wants me to work stuff out with him... Would you consider this cheating?

My 19th birthday is coming up and my bf of almost two years mentioned it and said he knew what he was gonna get me... So curiously i asked what it was... He told me he was gonna find a guy to have sex with me so he could watch... He has asked if we coud have 3somes before but i always tell him no bc im not into that... I ONLY wanna be with him... If he was to have sex with another girl it would crush me... And it kinda hurts my feelings that he doesnt feel the same way... I guess he saw the look on my face and quickly said he was jk... but i dont think he was... Why would he say that? and what does it say about our relationship? Is it him just being a typical guy? Am I overthinking this or not?

While in the hospital after having our son I looked through my boyfriends phone while he was asleep bc I've had a feeling something was up and found pics and videos of other girls and a conversation about having sex with another girl... He told the girl he had a girlfriend and a baby on the way but told her what I don't know won't hurt... I'm pissed still and my son is three days old... He says its not cheating but I think it is... I just wanna know everybody's opinion on if u consider this to be cheating

I am currently in the hospital after having my baby boy... It's been a tiring past couple of days and while my bf was sleeping I decided to go through his phone... I found a sexual video of a girl on his phone and the album it was under said videos for kik... Does this mean he got this video from a girl on the app?? Please tell me anything u know about kik... Thanks

What exactly do contractions feel like? I am 34 weeks pregnant and today and had a tightening feeling in my stomach and then a couple of sharp pains that didnt hurt really bad and only lasted a few seconds... Could that have been contractions? Sorry but this is my first pregnancy and not sure what to expect

My bf won't sign the birth certificate when our child is born bc he says the father never knows for sure until a DNA test... I'm fine with him getting a DNA test bc I know he is the father but I don't think if a guy signs then turns out not to be the biological father a judge would make him pay child support bc signing the birth certificate doesn't mean he adopted the child and is responsible... But idk...

I am eight months pregnant and my bf wants a paternity test after the baby is born proving that it is his child... I am completely ok with that bc I have nothing to hide... But what bothers me is he won't sign the birth certificate until he gets the results... That's frustrating for me bc I know 100% this is his child too... The reason he won't sign though is bc he thinks if he signs and its not his he would still have to pay child support... But I told him, that if we get the DNA test through the court and it turns out it's not his then he would be off the hook and he wouldn't have to pay... Who is right??!?

I had my mind set on the name Preston Cole Taylor for my sons name bc I rarely hear those names... What is your opinion on the name I have picked out and can u give me some other suggestions...

I have decided on the name Preston cole Taylor for my little boy... I like it a lot but want other people's opinions on the name... Just wondering what you think about that name or if you have any other suggestions... :)

I am five months pregnant with a little boy:) Me and my bf have spent hours thinking of a name and finally came up with Preston Cole Taylor as his full name... what do you think about this name? Anything you would change? We are open for suggestions... Thanks:)

My right breast has always been slightly bigger but now that I'm 19 weeks pregnant I have noticed my right breast is noticably larger than the other... It's probably a cup size bigger... Is it bc of the pregnancy or should I mention it to my doctor? And if it is bc of the pregnancy will it ever go back down?

When my bf and I found out I was pregnant we were both scared but eventually got over the shock and was getting excited... He was looking for us to get our own apartment and promised he would be here for me through the entire pregnancy and how he was so happy we were going to have a kid together...

We were together for 14 months... And last Wednesday he broke up with me out of no where and I heard from one of his family members that he has been talking to another girl since the day we broke up:(

I've tried talking to him but he ignores me or is rude... He will no longer go to doctors appointment with me like he promised and doesn't even really ask about the pregnancy or baby(I'm three months pregnant)

It hurts more than anything bc I never thought he would do this... We were a happy couple and he was my best friend and my everything... It hurts bc I feel like I'm nothing to him now and idk how he could pick her over me and his baby... He says he wants to be in the baby's life but wants nothing to do with me:(

Should I tell him about my doctors appointment or not tell him anything... He said he doesn't wanna go to the appointment but wants me to tell him about the baby... But said it all very hatefully... Should I tell him or wait until he can ask nicely? Idk what to do about any of it... So in ur opinion what should I do when it comes to telling him about the baby? And how to deal with him leaving:(

I'm pregnant but not sure if it's a boy or girl... And is looking for some really cute names for both genders... I don't want anything plain, something u don't hear a lot but is still a normal name... I've looked at websites but haven't found anything I liked... I'm being picky but I really just wanna find something that I really love:) I appreciate any ideas:) thanks

I'm pregnant but I don't know if I'm having a boy or girl yet... I don't want any plain names that u hear all the time... I am just looking for something unique but still cute...

Thanks:)

I have pains in my lower left abdominal occasionally but doesn't last long... I'm only a little over five weeks pregnant... I have had crampy gasy pains too like I need to go to the bathroom... I have had diarhea the past week and has been kinda gasy... Sorry about the tmi but I'm just worried... Should I be having any kinds of discomforts this early in pregnancy?

Me and my bf have been togher for a year next month... There is a possibilty that i am pregnant... I was going to tell him but the past couple days he has been acting really different, he is always in a bad mood and is getting smart and just hasnt been acting hisslef... he hangs out with his friends a lot more and doesnt even try to talk to me when we are apart or is as sweet as he used to be... Idk if i should wait to see how things go before i say anything or not. The only reason i wanna tell him is bc maybe it will get his head out of his a$$ and think about things and bc he hates when i hide ANYTHING from him... What should i do?