MonstaGirl

I personally love her. I love most of her messages about self acceptance/bullying and what not, and think her music is just great. What do you think?

Of me and my 4 other siblings, my mom singles me out the most. I'm 16 years old, in my first year at highschool and this year has become hell for me because of my relationship with her. First of all, I am NOT a bad kid! I have the most clean/religious/peter priesthood/molly mormon friends out there. They're literally offended by someone not blessing a sneeze, that's how good my friends are. I've never once done drugs, never kissed a boy, never snuck out, never had sex. I am a 4.0 student and do my best all the time. But apparently I'm no where near as special as my two other sisters. My oldest is amazing, she aces all her classes too, is involved in almost everything, loves hanging out with people etc. my mom just swoons over her. Then there is my youngest sister who is 12 and she is a little ****! I honestly don't know what my mom loves so much about her, because her very presence in the room drives me up the wall. She is the most spoiled brat you could meet, she's one of the "popular" people in her school ( according to her ) so she thinks she's all that on a plate of rice. She always puts me down by saying things like "Well at least I am popular and boys like me" and "There is nothing about you anyone could ever be jealous of" "You're truly pathetic" just crap like that. She's not willing to help with any household chores. Ever.

I'm the maid of the family. I've loved cleaning since I was a kid, so people now just take advantage of me for that. I have no life apart from cleaning, homework, and work. So my mom gets on my case for being moody and depressed all the time, well how can I help it when no one ever thanks me for all the hard work I do around the house, yell at me for everything that goes missing, blame me for everything, and treated like crap by my younger sister and mom? I hate my life and just want it to be over now. I feel like I've always been the "Blacksheep" of the family and am the "Bad kid".

I don't know what I can do to please her, and now I'm getting into this relationship with this guy and she's just gone ballistic on me for it, every night now! She'll threaten to call him and tell him to never contact me again, she'll always ask me "Where you just talking to him?, what is he saying?" She reads all my messages with him and is so invasive of our privacy! It's not like he's a bad guy either. Both of us have great standards but she doesn't trust me with anything! Then she gets mad at me for not being "social" enough. I just like to lay back at home, and hang out with friends at school! Home time is for me to relax, get stuff done, and have privacy. But she grounds me for missing football games! She is set on me going to medical school and everything else. I have the worst self esteem from her because she just makes me feel like I'm such a slutty/bad girl even though I've never done anything to give her reason to think that way!

She throws me into beauty pageants, and all of her friends and my friends tell me I should be a model or something. But I just don't feel the confidence in myself to do it. I'm told all the time how gorgeous I am, but I don't feel it, and it's because of my relationship with her. I just feel miserable and dread being home with her now. She's unbelievable strict, but only to me. Like if I were to have a B+ in any class, and my sisters where to also, I'd get screamed at for hours, and my sisters would get off the hook. It happens all the time. What do I do? Talking does no good. She just tells me to stop being such a drama queen, and push myself harder in life. I hate life and just feel horrible. What do I do!?

I recently just received two new ball pythons from my friend. Both are around 3 ft. long and have been housed together their whole lives. Well since I've had them I've noticed neither of the two are active at all. They literally NEVER come out of their hide, and haven't since I got them 2 ish weeks ago. I even put a video camera to see if they came out at night and they haven't come out once since I've had them. I've fed them both, cleaned their tank, gently handled them every other day and I've done everything right! There is a cold and warm side to their tank so I don't get why they won't come out. Please help! Are they sick or something?

I'm 16 years old, a Sophmore in highschool, and recently my mom informed me that my dad is concerned about me turning into a bad person for listening to Lady Gaga...sounds ridiculous but that's how he is. He's the most religiously strict man you'll ever meet. I'm a great kid, never once done drugs, never had sex, never sneak out, have peter priesthood/molly mormon type friends. I am the sassiest of the kids in my family and don't take crap from anyone. But my dad apparently thinks I'm such a sinner or something for listening to Lady Gaga. I love her and understand she doesn't have the greatest standards, and it's not like I'm trying to be like her! I know sex, drugs, drinking and swearing is bad. The worst words I've ever said out loud to my folks are the H and D word. But it's not like I'm spouting off F-bombs and what not. I hate how he thinks that of me, just because of the music I listen to. What do I do?

Just 2 days ago I was given 2 beautiful ball pythons as a gift from my mom's friend, for free. They're both about 4 years old and almost 4 ft. long. Anyways, one is much more firm and super muscley. The other is lanky, limp and feels squishy, his skin slips around and feels like there is a gushy layer of fat beneath his skin. He doesn't look ill, he wasn't underfed. Both were taken excellent care of. Why is he like this?

Just 2 days ago I was given 2 beautiful ball pythons as a gift from my mom's friend, for free. They're both about 4 years old and almost 4 ft. long. Anyways, one is much more firm and super muscley. The other is lanky, limp and feels squishy, his skin slips around and feels like there is a gushy layer of fat beneath his skin. He doesn't look ill, he wasn't underfed. Both were taken excellent care of. Why is he like this?

I've been hearing lot's of stories about them lately ( it being around halloween time and all) and it really shocked me to hear a few of them because I believe I had an encounter with them a year or two ago. I was home alone at my cabin ( in the middle of nowhere, you can't find it on your own, you'd need to have been there before to know ) anyways, I was sitting in my rocking chair ( right by my front door) and my front door has those columns of windows going down the sides so I can see straight outside. Anyways, as I was reading I heard a continuous knock. I sat there for a minute waiting to see if it was my parents or something, but about a minute later I looked to the door and in the very bottom window I see a pale white face with pitch black eyes just staring in, smiling at me. It looked like either a young girl or boy, I couldn't tell. But anyways, it truly horrified me at the time. Was this an encounter?

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

So we all know it's halloween tomorrow and everything. So for my costume I'm using white cream face makeup and want a completely smooth, streak/blotch free surface. And I've tried several different methods of application and nothing works for me so far. Any ideas how to accomplish this look? Thansk!

I have a best friend who I've been extremely close with since the 7th grade. We're seniors now and I honestly cannot stand her anymore! She is constantly putting me down, telling me how I'll never amount to anything, what an idiot I am ( which is funny cause I'm the one with a 4.0 and she's failing a lot of classes. ) She insults everything about me, like the way I do my hair, what clothes I wear, how I do my makeup, pretty much anything she wants.

She's pretty overweight and doesn't really make much of an effort with her appearance. I'm not trying to be critical but that's how she kinda is. I'm probably one of her only friends because others can't handle her crappy attitude about everything. I am constantly complimenting her, and trying to boost her confidence and she just throws it in my face. Every thing I say she insults. Every time after I make a comment, she'll just give a long annoyed "Okaayyy then...." at the end, obviously trying to make me feel dumb. If I have an idea she'll put it down and say something like "That's stupid, or that won't work" and basically just makes me feel worse and worse about myself everyday. My mom thinks she's jealous of me. I'm told all the time, even by strangers on the street that I should be a model and I have an internship at the hospital. But even the other day, in front of the guy I like she humiliated me. So I have very fair features, including whitish eye brows. So the guy I like has dark/sexy brows. Anyways, in front of him she says "Maybe it'd be a good thing if you two did get married, then Ally's kids would have eye brows and actually be somewhat attractive" I couldn't believe she'd said that. Then for her birthday I surprised her with a homemade breakfast. And all she said was "The orange Julius is runny, and I thought we were going out to eat." I just don't get her! She's so ungrateful and a total moody brat. What do I say and what should I do?

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

I have bright blue eyes, fair skin, and white blonde hair. I was wondering what colors would look best on me, really make my eyes pop, and just make me look awake. I've noticed wearing colors like black, grey, and greyish dark blues, really make me look tired and wash my colors out. What would look best with my features I described? Thanks!

Grandpa Adams finally passed away on Oct. 1 at the age of 107 years old. In his will he left his estate to his four children.

a) Pugsley received half of the estate, less $9000.

b) Wednesday received one-third of the estate, less $3000.

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c) Morticia received exactly one-fourth of the estate.

d) Fester received one sixth of the estate, plus $3000.

How much was the estate worth, and how much did each child receive?

Grandpa Adams finally passed away on Oct. 1 at the age of 107 years old. In his will he left his estate to his four children.

a) Pugsley received half of the estate, less $9000.

b) Wednesday received one-third of the estate, less $3000.

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c) Morticia received exactly one-fourth of the estate.

d) Fester received one sixth of the estate, plus $3000.

How much was the estate worth, and how much did each child receive?

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.

Sorry this may be kinda long, but I'm really in a tight situation and need some help. So I'm 17 and I have a second cousin I met about 3 years ago who is 23. Well we had an instant connection when we met, and were super close from the start. About a year ago we became super tight in our relationship. We would chat every day online for hours on end ( considering we live in opposite states) and just laugh, and laugh together. He says I'm probably the weirdest but funniest girl he's ever met, and he loves that about me. Well these past few months I feel like our relationship has moved farther from best friends, more towards a romantic relationship, and here is why.

It began in our messaging, one day he started calling me these cutsey little nicknames like princess, dove, doll, sweetie pie, etc... well a few weeks later he was still calling me those, but more than that. He'd call me things like darling, dear, dove, sweet heart, honey, babe ( a lot! ) and other things. He's also ALWAYS the one to start our conversations. If it be over phone call, or messaging over facebook. We talk every single night and I do feel like he flirts a lot. He always says he loves me at the end of our conversations, adding something like, "I miss you already" or "Wish you were down here with me" or "XOXO" just stuff like that. Then one odd thing happened in our messaging the other night, he randomly asked me "Have you ever had a secret you wanted to tell, but just couldn't?" I said yes and asked why and he said, "Well I have one I want to tell you, but just can't. I don't know what the repercussions may be, and I don't want to screw everything up." What was the secret?

Well this past weekend he and his brother came down to visit, and whenever he visits he does single off with me a lot, me among my other two sisters, and he'll take me on drives, or out for milkshakes, he came down to take me to a midnight premiere for a movie, and my sister did tag along, but he made me sit by him in the theatre and on the drive to and fro, from the movie. Well this past weekend when he came down to visit, a lot went on between us. The first day he came he seemed far more excited to see me, than he did my sisters. He gave me the biggest hug and spent most of the evening talking to me. Well later that night we decided to watch a scary movie on our trampoline on his laptop. It was freezing outside so we brought out bunches of huge blankets and pillows to stay warm. Well after we'd laid out all the blankets I was first to lie down, and he chose his spot right next to me. So we were lying side by side while watching the movie. That night nothing happened other than that. The next night we did the same thing, bringing out the blankets to watch a scary movie. Well this night as we were watching it, we had the same spots/positions as the night before. Well in the middle of the movie, he edges his hand on top of mine, and slowly intertwines our fingers together, so we were holding hands. Now keep in mind it wasn't just us out there, my younger sister and his brother were with us, but they didn't know, because our arms were under the blankets. Well after the movie ended it was about 3:30 in the morning and the rest had fallen asleep but me and him. So we just lay there listening to christmas music and talking the rest of the night ( we didn't sleep out there! We came in at about 4 ). Well the next day we were watching conference inside on the t.v and I was lying on a couch and he came in and joined me. My mom was uncomfortable with this, as she told me later. Well the rest of the time he visited he did spend a lot of time with me, but wasn't inappropriate or anything. As soon as he left he gave everyone in my family one hug goodbye, and me two. After he left me messaged only me, saying "I wish I were still there with you darling." I

I have to admit I have a "Crush" on him too. We're best friends but now I feel like we're in more of a romantic relationship. What do you think about this? What did he mean when he said he had a "Secret" and why did he hold my hand? Please don't think he's some creepy pervert cause I know him, much better than you, and I know he's not. And keep in mind we're not exactly related by blood, even though we share family ties.