Ray E

Not to go into too much detail, I was in a relationship that was about to hit the 10yr mark on sept. 12. actually, that was supposed to be the wedding day. Unfortunately for me, my ex fiance found too many imperfections in who I was and decided that I was not the man for her. My question now is how have any of you dealt with something similar? I refuse to beat myself up about it, even though its only been 6 days. I am taking the spiritual, optimistic route that maybe, just maybe this is the direction my life's path intended to take me anyway. I'm over going through the pain of having a broken heart. I'm over wishing I could have done things differently. Because it doesn't help me know, except that I won't be making the same mistakes again.

The next hardest step is getting back into the flow of life as a single person. I'm a little rusty on the single scene, so if anyone has advice I'd appreciate it. Is it bad to give out my number so early, even though someone asked for it?

anyway, thanks for reading....

and what are they? this is just a random survey...please keep our answers specific to the questions...

any colors will do ... but I'd really like to know which college has the best colors in your opinion

I need some creative ideas... i already know about the cufflinks, flasks, cigars, lighters.... how bout something new?

give me all the ideas you can think of, as long as it doesn't involve me or any of them getting arrested, or losing our women.

thanks

They get their six figure salaries and their bonuses, and have not to worry about the things the rest of the state is suffering. and dying.

Do you think they use alcohol or sleeping pills to sleep at night?

what are you top two favorite colors? and have they always been those two colors or are they your favorite colors of yet?

any ideas besides strippers welcome, we all know strippers are the norm... but all of my buds are married and have girlfriends, i'd say out of the 30 invited only 10 are single.... so i'd like a lot of ideas that do not involve strippers.... all ideas welcome, no matter how silly it might sound, i need to generate ideas... thanks....

seems like they are the only ones not affected by this "budget" crisis... they're still getting their six figures paychecks, not to mention their travel expense allowance and security detail allowance... ie. new "mayor" kevin johnson, honestly, why would he need a security detail.....

how can we be happy with our government, where we are losing our homes, our jobs, and have no idea what our future holds, how can our politicians continue to receive their 6 figure paychecks, when they are not doing the jobs they are being payed for? also, why were private businesses bailed out when our state governments are in need of funding also?

its easy to pick on Jesus and Christans\Catholics whom believe in turning the other cheek... what say you about the islamic leader?

I took Kansas last night vs. my friend and memphis. boy was I happy! He now wants double or nothing on Golden State this april 10th. so I took Denver without a spread. am I crazy? the losses vs. GS were without K-mart and the win was with K-mart playing out of his mind. So i am confident, except for the fact that denver is on a road trip. what do you guys think? oh, and thanks to all the cute little girls who felt they'd like to comment. so cute, having an opinion on basketball.....lmao. just kidding .

Budokai 3, Tenkaichi 2 or 3? I'm not interested in the amount of characters, I'm more concerned with gameplay, controls, and game modes. Between these 3, which one is worth the buy?

Do you think she helps people or do you think she is full of b.s.?