soulja_musician

My girlfriend has a best friend. This best friend just happens to be a guy..and she vents to him. All of her problems. She claims he knows her the best, 100%. He goes over her house constantly. (Gr.) I hope I don't have to worry about anything between them, because he's not that attractive. Plus, her other best friend went out with him,(the only reason they broke up was because they had sex and were caught..) and it probably would ruin that friendship if they did.

Anyways. To get back to the question. My girlfriend calls this guy her therapist, because she talks to him about all of her problems. And he gives her advice about these problems. Now, the thing that truly pisses me off is that once she told me that Zach talked to her about me. And she claimed that he knows a lot about me. Which is basically impossible considering how my closest friend throughout life only sees the front I put forward. My parents as well. That truly pissed me off.

So. Recently, she has been talking to him a lot more. I avoid talking to her whenever he is awake, so I talk to her late at night and during the day when we are away from him. But. They have been talking to me a lot more. He has been telling her false things about me and resparking past angers between us that we had paved over. She has been acting out on me because of his suggestions. He is like, controlling her. Somewhat.

It's gotten unbearable. Today is my cracking point, almost. I just love her too much. Anyways. Today she ditched me during lunch to go sit with him outside. I'm just listening to my iPod, sitting with my friends at a table inside, as she walks back in. She sits down next to me, and slaps me. I see her get up, turn around and walk towards the guy. He had a smug grin on his face. I was pissed off. So pissed off.

I honestly don't know what to do anymore. I originally had planned to not ask anyone about this - to just allow it to happen one more time, then I would breakup with her, and tell that idiot off. Just rip him to shreds. But. I don't know. I asked my friend, and she said that she would just breakup with her once she found out that he was going over her house. But I don't know. I love her, and I don't really want it to end that way. But I think I have no choice.

What should I do? What would you do? Help...? ;_;

Some extra information: Talking it over with her won't work. She loves me like CRAZY. But she is can't work out problems like this without breaking up. Plus, I don't want to come in between a friendship older than us. (5 month relationship..)

I get about.... 41 hours of sleep on average every week. That's:

At Sunday night - Friday morning: 25 hours of sleep..

Friday nights - I get 9 hours of sleep if I'm lucky.

Saturday nights - I get 7 hours of sleep if I'm lucky.

School and I'm forced to go to church, so Fridays going into Saturdays are the only days in which I get around how much sleep I'm supposed to get. For my age I'm supposed to receive 10 hours of sleep each night, which averages for about 70 hours of sleep each week.

40 = 70??

Where did those 30 hours go? o.o Heh. That isn't a question to answer.

I can only add about 1 hour of sleep each night if I need to, I tend to go to sleep at either 10:30, 11:00, but mainly midnight or later. I've gone weeks where I've gotten 31 hours of sleep.

Anyways, are there any side effects? Do I have anything to worry about?

If it helps, I'm a freshman in high school.

My Girlfriend of only 2 weeks now wants a present for christmas. My friends and countless other people who are friends with her aren't really agreeing with it, and don't really see a point in buying her something so early in the relationship. But I don't know what to do. If I should buy her something, what should I buy? Not something really expensive..right? (By the way, we are both in High School.)

I currently use Sean John's, but the stuff is like $60+, so i really hate it. Casually, i use Axe/Tag/ Mostly Old Spice. I dont know which kind is good. Anyone know? Any suggestions?