Paul

Okay. I'm in a long distance relationship... and I mean -long- distance. I live in Arkansas, she's in Oregon. We're both a bit damaged, most of her's is socially and she has issues with trust. She tells me she wants to trust me, trust that I won't leave her or hurt her. I simply told her that all I could give was my word as a man.

She, unfortunately, is like me... and doesn't trust any member of the male gender. I was wondering what I could I do to show her that everything is alright? I'm currently saving up to move over there with her so she can finish her schooling and I can start training to go into Law Enforcement. I want nothing more than for her mind to be at ease.

Second question. We were playing a little game, I'd ask a question, she'd ask a question, yadda yadda yadda. Well. She's told me that she has been wanting to become more intimate before this point... and towards the end of our game the topic of my 'size' came up. I don't have any issues telling her, I'm very open about this sort of thing.

She replies with a long pause and she tries to laugh it off with 'I see this being painful for me.' Ever since then she's been a tad jumpy when the topic comes up... and again, I want the same thing, for her to relax again... I've tried everything I can think of short of going to Oregon again (as I lack the funds to do so atm.) Any advice would be appreciated.

Alright. So, my grandfather's computer messed up and I'm not really that good with tech stuff... my ultimate fix all is an explosive... Anyway.

I enter his password at the login screen...

'The User Profile Service service failed the logon.

User profile cannot be loaded.'

Click okay, and it restarts. Anyway to fix this?