Today

Week one, I started with twenty pound dumbbells and did my bicep curls, got really sore then I was done.

Here comes next week. I'm at the gym and this time decide to workout my entire arms not just the biceps due to having access to various machines. So I'm working out pretty long and hard, this was like 1 hour and 30 minutes working out. So basically I expect to be sore like week one, but for some reason I'm not. There's different parts in my arms that are sore but my biceps aren't sore. So I'm confused now. So I go home and decide to do some bicep curls with twenty pound dumbbells to get my biceps sore, nothing happens. So the next day I wake up and I'm not sore, so I do bicep curls on this game again, and I'm doing it till fatigue. Still nothing! What the hell is going on? How can my body already be use to twenty pound dumbbells after one week.

Okay, let me make this pretty clear and simple. This girl in my math class in college obviously likes me but like most girls she won't make a move. She did try to pull a ICEBREAKER once but it looks like-like most girls she's afraid of messing up and of rejection. Basically her icebreaker was asking me a question on a math problem, she's a very loud talker but when she asked me the question her voice was low and she was intimidated. She sits right next to me and on the first day she started staring at me and it pretty much continued on from there.

So basically what's going on is we're both siting next to each other and not saying anything to each other and she continues on with her staring/looking at me routine but the amount she does it and the length of time she does it has decreased as weeks go by. So, maybe she's losing interest which I don't really care about. I'm thinking of talking to her but I don't know if I should.... She's the one that likes me so why should I talk to her when I don't like her, yet? You girls got to get it together when you like a guy, I mean really-siting there and just admiring him and trying to get him to notice you by doing things like flipping your hair and other stupid shxt is not going to do anything. If you like him make a move or you're going to lose to him.

Basically, I just stopped masturbating for five days so far, basically I would like to know if you guys think its pointless for me to stop masturbating or should I stop even though there are no benefits that come with it?

I was in a retail store shopping for clothes. As I went just looking around the store shopping and looking around. All of sudden a female comes up to me and asks me to try on a coat/jacket- I was startle by the whole thing but tried it on anyway, it was weird. Let me show you how it went down:

*Me looking around*

*Female comes towards me and approaches me*

Her:(low voice-like how a shy person would talk) Sir, you would try this on?

Me:(confused by the question and basically startle)-You want me to try it on? Okay I'll do it.

* I take the coat/jacket and try it on, it doesn't fit*

Me: It doesn't fit..*taking off the coat/jacket

Her:(low voice-like how a shy person would talk) Its too small?

Me Yea...*I then walk away*

She never gave me a background story on why she wanted me to try on the jacket. She was shopping in the men's department. The whole interaction was weird which is why I was so quick to walk away..... So answer my question.

I've been following an suggestion that a guy should make eye contact with a girl before approaching her so that he can see her reaction to determine if she is opened to the guy approaching her. So far when I've been doing this I've gotten girls who look right back at me and stare at me for a few seconds and then look away, one girl who was walking all of sudden turned around and took a quick look at me and looked away she didn't gaze back for few seconds she just took a quick look back and turned around. But most of the reactions I got was the girl looking back at me and keeping a gaze on me for a few seconds and then looking away(they didn't frown, smile, give me a mean look or nothing, they just looked back).

I've been told there's a lot of possibly things this could mean:

1. It could mean they are wondering why I'm looking at them.

2. It means they're possibly interested in me.

3. They're just looking back at me because I was looking at them first.

4. They find me attractive/good-looking.

5. Or maybe there's something flawed about me. Like my hair is messed up or I look weird or something(Although in this situation I was a good-length away from these girls, say like mid range, so I don't think they'll be able to see if my hair is messed up, so ex that one out. I don't think it can't be that I look weird because girls called me cute but I'll admit it was mostly ugly and average girls who have done so, some of them were pretty).

Tell me what you guys might think it is and tell me if I should approach anyway.

*I catch the girl looking/staring/glancing at me like usually*

This time I plan on saying something so here we go. I need you're criticism. This is how I think the conversation will go.

*Catch her staring/glancing/look at me*

*I look back at her*

Me: Hey

Her: * she gives a response which might contain the following words-hi, hello, hey, and etc.*

*I don't say nothing else and then look away*

*I then look back*

Me: Hey, can I ask you a question

Her: *Gives me a response which I expect to be a yes*

Me: Do you like one direction?

Her:*Give me a response but I'm going to go on a scenario where she says no*

Me: Are you serious? You don't like one direction!?

Her: *Gives a response*

Me: The reason I'm shock is because one direction's fan-base consists of a billions of girls. You're one in a billion of girls who don't like them. Do you think they're cute?

Her: *Gives a response*

Me(if she says yes): You do, I'm not shock because a lot of girls do. I'm cuter than them though.

Me(if she says no): You don't, I'm not shock because they're nowhere-near as cute as me.

Her: *Give a response to me declaring myself as better looking than they guys in one direction*

Me; You're really going to lie to me straight in my face like that.*I then get off topic and say*-You're beautiful.

Her: *Response*

Me: What's your name?*She tells me her name and then I tell her mines then I call her by her name and tell her to meet me out in the hallway after class. I plan to tell her to give me her phone number after this.*

Well this is how I picture the whole social interaction to go, so tell me what you think.

Just wondering how come some girls have trouble with concluding if a guy likes them or not. We're so direct and obvious. Our signs are clear and not indirect in anyway. It's you girls who give indirect and unclear signs. Here's some direct and obvious signs we give. Staring is number one, guys always stare at the girls they like, when a guy is staring at you- 99.9 percent of the time it means he likes you. you just have that 0.1 percent. Anyway here's some obvious signs we give.

1. Staring

2. Flirting

3. Teasing

4. Trying to make you laugh

5. Being playful with you both physically and verbally

6. Asking for a hug

7. Complimenting your appearance and personality

8. Trying to show off in front of you and trying to impress you

First time in math class because college started for me this week and this girl sat right next to me on my left and she took glances/looks at me. Some of the looks were full face-turns- glances/looks and some were small turns-glances/looks. She was being to obvious with it but I was looking forward so she probably thought I couldn't see her but I did.

I'm going to have to wait when I have math class again to either start a conversation with or to see if she will initiate conversation with me.

You girls seem to think the signs you give a guy that you like them is obvious or clear. Why? I mean the things you do are so confusing, awkward, and mysterious.

I remember one girl who randomly just touched my arm out of nowhere and said nothing after she did it, I was confused didn't no what to say or do, it was awkward and mysterious and hard to interpret. She wasn't my friend, just an acquaintance because she was my classmate and we talked a little.

Okay there's this girl I've had a crush on since high school, she had a boyfriend at the time and I've check on facebook now and they're broken up now like I expected. So I'm thinking of sending her a friend request, but there's one problem. We never really had a relationship with each other, we were just acquaintances. I would help her cheat on tests and when we worked together in class I would help her with the work and talk with her, it was very minimum.

Would it be strange If I came out of nowhere on facebook and send her this random friend request, she most likely doesn't remember me but she might if I mentioned I was the guy who helped her cheat on tests in the Spanish class in the high school we went to.

There's this married woman in my college class and I catch her staring and taking looks at me a lot. Its weird and I don't seem to understand why she does it a lot. I find her somewhat attractive but most likely she would be a hit and run(have sex with and then ignore her). She's been in my group sometimes and I've talked to her sometimes but try to avoid her. When in groups she looks at me a lot and it makes me uncomfortable, I don't know what she wants from me. She never really tries to talk to me.

It all started on the first day of class, I looked at her when she walked in and then looked away, she then took a seat that was close to me. She started staring and taking looks at me at the first day of class and it went on from there, I don't get what's going on here. She's married and has kids, so its very confusing what's going on here.

I've heard that when a girl tries to talk to you or start a conversation first when you both are strangers to each other, this means they are interested in you or like you. Is this true?

I've notice that in one of my college classes there was this average-almost above average girl who sat next to me and tried to start a conversation with me, but I never put any effort into it. Another thing which really got me is when I went to the student lounging area to play the arcade games she was there and notice me and I didn't even notice her.

Well anyway, she had her friend who is a boy ask me, "Do I talk?" I was like why the hell is she so curious about me that she has to have her friend ask me that and she's right there. I answered her friend and let him know that I wasn't interested in talking to people on campus because we were in a community college and there's no real campus life in community colleges, basically letting him know that I thought community college was wack.

I overheard her talking to her friends about me and saying "that is the guy I was telling you about", I was like why is she telling her friends about me? We don't even know each other, why is she so curious about me, am I that mysterious to her? She always seem to be so curious about me. She always asked me If I took Spanish before, she asked me this because of my constant high grades in Spanish class.

I've notice also that me and her were very much alike each other, she was shy too and did those things that I do. Basically she didn't have strong eye contact and did those nervous movements. I remember one day she came to class looking absolutely amazing and I looked at her and she looked at me, she quickly looked away and did that shy look away. She then ask me If I was here to take the test and I thought she knows I'm here to take the test why else would I be here, she's aware this is the Spanish final exam today and I'm like why would she ask such a stupid question?

I think me and her would of been the perfect match because we had similar characteristics, we both were shy and did those shy movements and nervous movements, the only thing that she was better at then me was that she is able to start a conversation unlike me. I should of try to talk to her more and get to know her, but I wasn't sure if she was ever interested in me, I just found it curious and weird that she was so curious about me and always try to have a conversation with me, be it around the college campus or when i'm sitting next to her in class.

I've notice something common among girls. Most of them tend to date guys who are older than them and have boyfriends who are older than them. I think sometimes this happens unconsciously, they tend to just be attracted to older guys for some reason. I'm wondering why? Or this not true?

Okay this girl in my English class in college obviously likes me, but I don't like her. She comes on to me sooo strong! I mean she's out of control. She blushes tooo much around me, turns every regular conversation we have into a playful flirty one. She puts her hand on my arm muscle without my permission and then looks at me with that look that says I want you. She can't control herself when she's around me, she basically goes crazy and laughs at everything I say, the dumbest most stupidest things I say, and i'm not a funny guy.

I don't like her and I want her to stop doing these things like touching me without my permission, it bothers me. How do you deal with something like this? I hate when girls I don't find attractive feel for some reason that they have a chance with me, do I seem easy to them? Its like they really believe that I like them back or they really think they have a chance. I just want to talk to her as friends but she goes overboard, our conversations can't just be regular because she responds to everything I say with playful flirting. Its annoying. I don't hate her I just want her to stop with this flirting, touching me on my arms and stuff.

She has a great personality and dresses real good but I'm just don't find her attractive, I'm sorry to say but some days she looks ugly and some days she's average, I like average girls but her average is so low because of the fact that she can be ugly at times.

I've notice that I've only been approach by ugly girls and average girls. They are the ones that actually come up to me and try to get my number. They are the ones that confess that they like me. They are the ones who compliment me with compliments that can make your ego swell up. They either compliment me by saying I'm handsome or cute. They are the ones who flirt with me and try to talk to me and get to know me. How come no hot/pretty/beautiful girl has done this? Is it because there not as confident as ugly and average girls. I hope its not because of what I'm thinking.

I'm thinking that pretty/hot/beautiful girls don't do this because of their ego and they know how they look and they feel they deserve to be approach and complimented because of their attractive-ness. I hope I'm wrong.

Okay there's this very attractive girl in my college class. I stare at her almost everyday in class. It all started with the first stare, she pretty much caught me. I was like what the hell! How the hell did she see me staring at her from all the way across the room and she was looking straight forward or at the professor!? This happens every time I stare at her, she catches me and she's looking straight forward or at the professor. When I stare at a girl I like or find attractive I do it so I don't get caught staring and she catches me all the time and it always shocks me because she's looking forward or at the professor. Well anyway, when she catches me she just looks back at me, there's no smiling no nothing. She's just looks at me with her usually regular look, I don't know if she wants to have a staring contest but usually when she catches me I just look at her for a few seconds then look away. For some reason she won't look away so I have to do it, she will literally look at me forever when she catches me staring and I don't feel like doing a staring contest. I'm 100 percent sure she doesn't like me, I am a stranger who's staring at her so why would she anyway? I've noticed since my daily staring she's been noticing me more and stares at me and looks at me when I come to class or wait in the hallway for the professor to arrive. I'm wondering if she knows I like her since she catches me staring. What I've been doing lately is not staring at her anymore. But the whole thing is I like this girl and want to talk to her and don't know what to say to her, and I'm telling you its not easy. This girl is a 10! I mean if I could take a picture and show you guys, you'd be like "dammmmmmmmmmmmmmm!" So what should I do? She's never once tried to talk to me and I never did her.