Constance C

My boyfriend is moving out. We've been living together for a little over a year. He thinks we started fighting a lot lately and I will agree to this. He has a lot of extra baggage, it's kinda hard to explain. He's in a bad mood constantly ,not at me but just in general. So in turn it brings me down. I don't think him moving in or out is going to solve our problems. I broke up with him yesterday, but he talked me into trying to slowly work things out by seeing each other 4 days a week maximum 1 1/2 days minimum. I think we are on the outs, please help me out, I don't know what to do. Keep in mind I am an older mature person, I'm not a younger person who could probably just bounce back from all this easily.

ok, I haven't been on in awhile so I have a huge problem! Here goes........ I am dating a guy, I've beenh seeing him for around three months now, I really like him,but there are certian things about him I DON'T like as well.

First off he doesn't want to get his driver's license, (he is 27 yrs old) I told him before we got together that if we were to get serious that he would have to get them, but now that we are serious he is still acting like he doesn't want to get them!

Next, he is on disability and that doesn't matter to me, but he doesn't get much money. The money he does get goes into childsupport for 2 girls. Now on top of that he also gives the babies momma money for day care!!!! I think she is definitely using him, when I found this out I was outraged!

The last and probably worst problem is that his % yr old is kinda mean, she has done mean things to myself and my daughter, and he DOES correct her, but sometimes I feel that I bit off more than I could chew!

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1) Brotherhood of the wolf

2) Hannibal Rising

3) The Last Samurai

4) Bruce Campbell vs. Army of Darkness

5)Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil

I'm a soon to be 26 year old woman. I'm a divorced mother of one. I really don't have time to meet new people, except on the net, I looked into a dating site and they wanted to charge me like $30 a month to meet my "true" love. I'm beautiful but thick, not really fat. I hang w/ the guys and we joke around and hang out on the weekends, but I think most men are intimidated by my personality, ( I'm outgoing, opinionated,liberated,etc). I often am refered to as kinda manly, I try not to be but I was raised by a farmer, I've always been sort of a tomboy, but hell I can't find a man to be man enough to make me happy! I do have a creative side as well, I love to read and paint I was accepted to several fine art's colleges when I was younger. I've been told I'm emotionally detached, but the main reason for that is because I'm tired of being hurt! Every time I meet a guy all he's interested in is getting in my pants, nothing more. Where are all the decent men at?

I love him!

Yesterday, I tried calling my friend Kenny's cell phone. Every time i try and call him his girlfriend picks up. She has already yelled at kenny for me calling him, but what's the big deal?

Anyway when I called and she answered I just hung up w/o saying anything because I know she doesn't like me. So I tried Kenny at work to see if he or the other guys wanted anything to eat for supper. (i was already out n about)

To sum it up she started calling me and fighting w/ me on his cell, he knows about it because I already told him.

It ended like this, she said "I'm not such a $%&#, you can talk to me when you call!" and i said "you're acting like one now!"

Then the conversation ended w/ "He's my boyfriend!"

I don't want to date Kenny we are just good friends, but she is making our friendship difficult what should I do?

One of my good friends and I have had relation's...not once but 3 times. I really like him he is smart funny and an all around nice guy.But he has a "habit". I know we could never date realistically because I have a little girl and I don't want him around her because of his"habit".

anyway the last time we were together I was almost "there" and he said he had to take a break! I was the angriest I think I have ever been in my whole life! I was going to kick him out and he knew it so he made up a lame story about getting home to feed his cat. I was realloy mean to him and told him to go feed his@#$5! cat.

I feel that in the end I was a little too hard on him..but now I know our friendship is fractured. I would just like to know if there's anything I can do to patch things up?

A guy has a bit of a crush on me. He is a really nice guy and he works hard and he loves to cook and he likes my daughter etc.... But I don't know if I want to date him because I am a bit of an intelectual and he isn't as smart as me...he's kind of slow. What should I do?