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I went out on a date a few weeks ago with a nice guy. He was really full on with text messages and emails, but not in a crazy way, he was just very enthusiastic! He even sent me flowers the next day, which was sweet. Anyway, he knew he was being a bit full on, and backed off a little after I asked him to slow down. I agreed to see him for a second date, cause I do like him and it went really well, except for we both had a little too much to drink and one thing lead to another... whoops...

Since the second date he's not really been in touch. I was really disappointed, so I wrote him an email, (as I didn't just want to leave things hanging) and said that I'd not heard from him, and took that as a message and was happy to be friends, goodbye and good luck. I was very nice about it.

He sent me a message back saying that he does still really like me, but had just backed off because I asked him too.... He wants to see me again.

I'm not sure if it is because he really likes me, and is trying to take it slow, or if because we have slept together the mystery is gone, but he still wants to keep me around?

He's not contacted me since Thursday (today is Sunday), in fact today is Easter Sunday! I'd like to text him "Happy Easter" but my male friends have advised me to ignore him and not text...

What do you guys think I should do?

Not sure if this is anything to be worried about, but I am recovering from the flu, and am on the pill. My last period was 2 weeks ago. Over the past 3 or 4 days I've had cramps, and started bleeding again. I am still taking the pill as normal, but I am wondering if this is anything to be concerned about?

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My BF and I have been together for 8 months. He is in the RAF and has been away from home for 4 months. Last night he phoned me and said his feelings have changed and he wants to break up. I asked him if there was someone else and he said no, (and I think he is telling the truth).

I know the best thing to do is "move on", but I think the reason his feelings have changed is due to the distance and time apart.

Should I move on, or should I ask him to consider things after we have been able to spend time together when he returns next month?

So, I've been dating this guy for 2 months, and even though we get along and the sex is great, the "love" spark is just not there. I think he is wonderful and don't want to hurt his feelings, but I know deep down he's not "the one".

Has anyone got any ideas on how to let him down gently? I'd love to stay friends with him (if he wants to) So I have no idea what to say, or how to say it... Heeeelp....

So, I need honest answers from the guys on this one...

I'm a very nice girl, and I recently went out on a date with a guy. We hit it off.. it was great. I had a little too much to drink, and he came back to my place. We didn't have sex, but it did go quite a lot further than I would normaly. He was a gentleman and went home, he says he wants to make our first time "special". ie, he wants to plan it, which is great... But, I can't help but feel crappy about letting it go so far on the first date. The only reason we didn't sleep together was because he insisted on going home. He really likes me and wants to see me again.... but I feel like perhaps he might not have as much respect for me as he would have done, had we kept things "PG" on our first date...

Does this kind of thing really change the way a guy feels about a girl?