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ok im stuck between a friend, also and ex-boyfriend, and my boyfriend. my friend wants me to dump my boyfriend and chose him and says that if i don't he doesn't want anything to do with me. but i am happy with my boyfriend and i don't want to brake up with him, i love him. but also on the other side i thoroughly enjoy my guy friends company and i do not want to lose him as a friend i care for him dearly. we've been friends for nearly two years and i have only been dating this guy for about 8 months but i don't want to ruin a relationship that has pottential for a friendship where the other party wants way more than friends. also though i don't want to lose a friend that i have been through so much. im sorry im rambling but i im trying to put all my thoughts in this as i go. i really do not know what to do. not to mention braking up with my boyfriend now would still not garrantee that my friend and i would still be ok. any help would be great thank you

do you ever really get over your first love or is that something that sticks with you forever?

ok so my boyfriend and i started having sex right, well about a week or so ago we had a pregnancy scare, turns out im not pregnant but i decided that after that i didnt want to have sex anymore until we are older because i cant go on birth control. he said that he was ok with it but he is already acting as though he is getting bored. do you think that he is going to leave me if i don't start haing sex with him again? and is there anything else we can do so that things stay interesting other than sex? thanks for all your help.

Ok so my friend from my home town wanted me to hook her up with my friend from where I live now. So I did, but now i just found out that she is using him as a cover story for her mom so that she can go out with this older guy. I totally feel like this is my fault because i hooked them up, but I am not sure if I should tell him. What would you do?

my friends want me to tell my mom im going to a friends house so i can go to this concert and then some after party out of town. but i know if i get caught my mom will totally kill me, and what if something happens to me my mom isnt even gonna know where to look for me. i really want to go to this concert though and my mom said no. so what do i do, go or stay home? and if i stay home what do i tell my friends? and if i go how do i make sure my mom doesn't find out? thanks for your help.

my friend is 15 years old and she has been with her boyfriend for about 5 months they think they are ready to have sex and want to be each others first but they are worried it will change their relationship. what should i tell my friend?

i broke up with my ex (tyler) for my current boyfriend (nate) and i am regretting it. not that there is anything wrong with my current relationship but there really wasn't anything wrong with the other one either and i am missing him terribly. my parents don't like tyler at all but i still love him and i don't want to hurt anyone while doing this. i thought i loved nate but i was wrong and i was just trying to please my parents by braking it off with tyler. i know i should follow my heart but nate doesn't deserve to get tossed aside either... what should i do? any help or advice would be much appriciated. thank you

i really wish to find my real father but i am unsure of how to talk to my mother about it, she has never been very open about the subject and she is not very easily approached on the topic either. i am almost 16 years old and am being faced with the option of being adopted by my mother's new fiance. i don't want to do so without knowing my real father though. i have his first, middle, and last name but i don't know where he lives or even where he was born or how old he is. i have tried searches online but they always leave me at a dead end. how do i go about this?

ok my boyfriend and i have been fighting an awful lot because my parents don't agree with the way that he is treating me. i love him i really do but my parents don't like him, they say that he is too controlling and that he is abusive. this is all because he has been expressing his concern about certain people i hang around that he does not agree with so i i stopped being friends with those people. and we got into an argument one time and he pushed me into a tree and grabbed me by the throat, but this was one time and it hasn't happened since. he says he would never hurt me and i truly don't think that he purposely would. also they are worried that he is pressuring me to have sex but we haven't done anything yet. we have been together for almost 6 months and he loves me and i love him but i'm only 15 and dating someone that my parents disapprove is very difficult what should i do??

what are some of the long term effects of abused children.

ok i have a debate this weekend on social networking. so i need yal' to tell me your thoughts on it. what is bad about it, what is good about it?

im a high school student at a school where the only thing that matters is status and i am definitely not top on that list so. does ur status really define ur personality or what? my parent tell me that my friends define my personality and i think that they are wrong so what do you think?

plz plz answer soon i have to debate on this this weekend!!!! thank you