African Americans: What's the best answer you give to those who call you sell-out because you're educated?
When I was a kid, my mother insisted that I learn to speak well, and not rely upon the "street" language that was quite common in my neighborhood. I resisted it then, but now believe that it was a key aspect contributing to my success as an educated adult professional. Still, when dealing with those who are less educated or accomplished, I sometimes detect a resentment that makes me sad. I am tremendously proud of my culture and consider myself one example of the many accomplished people to emerge triumphant from a similar background of disadvantage. I also remain very involved with "the community" by mentoring, volunteering, speaking, and financially contributing. Can anyone identify with my feelings? How do you cope? What advice can you offer? Thank you in advance.
I should add that I am 38 and am, of course, convinced that not only am I NOT a sell-out, but that I am a living embodiment of our greatest hopes and aspirations as a community. I just don't like that some of us sell ourselves so short that they actually see betrayal in what I have done. I have answers that I give, but it occurs to me that some of you might have good suggestions that I can share with my children (who are now experiencing some of the same silliness). Thanks for some really terrific responses so far. I'm looking forward to more!