Would you tell someone that you can't be there friend if they were high on coke all the time??

A girl that I work with just recently got arrested for having coke in her car. Thankfully I wasn't with her but I told her that we couldn't hang out anymore because I couldn't take the risk...Would you do that?

2006-06-24T09:38:56Z

It isn't that I haven't tried talking to her. I even told her that the people that she hangs out with are a major source of her problem. She has this guy that she calls her "husband". She goes out and buys coke for him and infact she was buying it for him that night. He told her that she was not to mention his name when she went to court. I have tried with this girl and I didn't say I wouldn't keep trying I just said I couldn't go out anywhere with her anymore because of the risk. I believe it to be true that her car is flagged as a drug car and the cops will now find reasons to pull her over.

St. Jimmy2006-06-24T00:16:18Z

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I wouldn't have done that. I just don't think that's a good enough reason to end a friendship. If you don't agree with something your friend does then you should be able to ask them not to do it around you. And if they are a real friend then they won't.

That goes for everything. Cussing, drinking, talking about politics, or whatever. Friends respect each other's boundaries.

Sounds like she needs a friend right now too with her legal troubles.

Anonymous2006-06-24T07:22:10Z

I would try to get them some help first because the last thing they need is to lose someone, chances are that they are feeling some sort of ain that they feel the best way to resolve is through drugs. get some help and be there for them. let them know that you are thinking about leaving if they dont stop. if they tell you to f*** off and do it anyways then i say you should just make some new friends good luck!

Alissa Jean

art-nerd2006-06-24T07:15:34Z

Hell yes, I would! I can't believe someone as smart as you is asking this question on Yahoo Answers in the middle of the night. Has the irony hit you yet?

You made the right decision.

ILAUGHATU2006-06-24T07:15:54Z

Yea I knew a girl selling out of her purse and I wouldn't take her anywhere in my car with it. So I think you did a good thing

Correl2006-06-24T07:13:48Z

Yes i would have done the same becuase that is a big risk. if you would have been with her you two would have been in trouble. If you dont like it and if it makes you feel uncomfertable then you were totally in the right. i wouldnt have done the same

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