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Would you tell someone that you can't be there friend if they were high on coke all the time??
A girl that I work with just recently got arrested for having coke in her car. Thankfully I wasn't with her but I told her that we couldn't hang out anymore because I couldn't take the risk...Would you do that?
It isn't that I haven't tried talking to her. I even told her that the people that she hangs out with are a major source of her problem. She has this guy that she calls her "husband". She goes out and buys coke for him and infact she was buying it for him that night. He told her that she was not to mention his name when she went to court. I have tried with this girl and I didn't say I wouldn't keep trying I just said I couldn't go out anywhere with her anymore because of the risk. I believe it to be true that her car is flagged as a drug car and the cops will now find reasons to pull her over.
12 Answers
- 2 decades agoFavorite Answer
I wouldn't have done that. I just don't think that's a good enough reason to end a friendship. If you don't agree with something your friend does then you should be able to ask them not to do it around you. And if they are a real friend then they won't.
That goes for everything. Cussing, drinking, talking about politics, or whatever. Friends respect each other's boundaries.
Sounds like she needs a friend right now too with her legal troubles.
- Anonymous2 decades ago
I would try to get them some help first because the last thing they need is to lose someone, chances are that they are feeling some sort of ain that they feel the best way to resolve is through drugs. get some help and be there for them. let them know that you are thinking about leaving if they dont stop. if they tell you to f*** off and do it anyways then i say you should just make some new friends good luck!
Alissa Jean
- 2 decades ago
Hell yes, I would! I can't believe someone as smart as you is asking this question on Yahoo Answers in the middle of the night. Has the irony hit you yet?
You made the right decision.
- 2 decades ago
Yea I knew a girl selling out of her purse and I wouldn't take her anywhere in my car with it. So I think you did a good thing
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- 2 decades ago
Yes i would have done the same becuase that is a big risk. if you would have been with her you two would have been in trouble. If you dont like it and if it makes you feel uncomfertable then you were totally in the right. i wouldnt have done the same
- 2 decades ago
No, as long as you're not doing it it shouldn't be a problem. Let the person use what substance they want, you're friends with their personality. Would you stop being friends with her if she was eating unhealthy? GUZZLING PURE FAT FROM A....TUBE OF SOME SORT? Ah I think you're making a mistake. But it's your decision.
- 2 decades ago
it's not that i would stop being her Friend, but it's just that you have to avoid situations that may place you at risk of being around her. ie... her apartment, car and vise verses. Because when and if she does stop she may need a friend.
- 2 decades ago
I would advise my friend that they needed to get help with their addiction. I wouldn't abandon them. I'd let them know they could come to me and talk. I'd set limits. Put yourself in her shoes and think about it that way.
- 2 decades ago
I would try to get her help first. If she still doesn't listen, it is better to walk away. I know that it is hard, but there isn't much you can do. Unless she wants to help herself. You don't want to get into trouble...gotta love yourself first.
- 2 decades ago
Yes I would and I have. In my opinion you have done the right thing for yourself. Dont get caught up in all that poo.