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Yea..I've actually been asking for months on Yahoo if you look in my past post about a particular situation with my BF that I finally got fed up with...like racist family..not moving together...finding new jobs...hey so you know what...If he doesn't want to sacrafice and struggle with me I can struggle alone...I've done it for many years.

It is true love but not unconditional it becomes unconditional when all conditions are met.

So wish me luck my fellow heartbreaks...wish me luck.

My roommates have these people from minnesota come and stay on our couch...at least one house guest a month...I don't mind except the last one had no job and was a couch hopper and stunk like a homeless man. I don't want to be rude but I don't trust most people they invite to visit. What should I do?

My boyfriend always really nervous and if you prey or meditate or give good luck to people please respond....he needs all the help he can get....thanks

I am 23 have been with my BF for 2 years. In that time we have come to love each other very deeply. But for the past year he's lied to his mother about being in a relationship with me because she disapproves of interracial relationships. He spends that holidays with her and ignores it if it's brought up. We want to live together but honestly I can't live with his mother being in his life.

At her birthday she called me a "******" to his face and he didn't speak to her for a week...I was happy he finally stood up for me. But now he talk with her as if nothing has happened.

Honestly if my parents felt that way about him I wouldn't have a relationship with them. But he feels he's obligated because they put him through college, and help him get a car.

His mother is a daily alcoholic, angry and competely controlling. It's like he becomes a child everytime he talks to his mother, when I'm around. I have to leave ther oom because I can't stand how he caves under her possession.

Help????

I have bipolar disorder and for those that have it....alot of other things come along with it such as personality disorders and other sometimes phobias. On the weekend I find myself trapped inside my bedroom till night fall and unable to leave because I'm scared of people. I don't like being in public areas and is always concerned with what other people think. I want to find a new job but afraid I will fail because I'm not good at what I do. I know its all in my head but any techniques or personal techniques I can do to lower the anxiety I have.

Do you wear a bigger size than normal when you shop at target

I'm not anything but a human and I don't understand why people love to perpetuate their own stereotypes? But I don't understand why some older middle eastern people are so damn pushy, arrogant and inconsiderate of other people around them?

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are so serious we want to move in together. On Saturday he takes his grandmother to church and on Sunday has lunch with his family but I don't exsist at those times. When I call him his phone is off and only afterwards can I be with him. I've never met his family and he only tells them we were dating or not dating at all. He's avoiding the situation completely and I believe the reason we don't live together already because of his racist family. He's met my family and I come from an interracial family...so racism is not very big. Why do some families not understand that love is blind?

What can I do? Today I cried and slept all day because I'm so depressed about it and I refuse to see him until he talks to him mother most of all. Because she is the most controlling person.

On holidays he doesnt' spend anytime with me because he has to spend it with his family? HELP!!!!

My boyfriend and I have some abandonment issues with each other. We spend so much time together we've become addicted to each other. When we separate for just one night....its heart breaking. I'm over his house so much because he asks me to come over all the time when he needs me. It interferes with out perosnal obligations and goals. We work at the same job, go out together on the weekends together. I feel we will never be able if we don't leave each other. Then when time comes to live together hes scared because his family racist, the don't accept me and he's afraid they'll reject him. I'm alone...I don't speak to my family because there abusive and I have no friends because people in LA become very self-absorbed. I've reached out for friends but all my girlfriends end up becoming bi-sexual and want to have sex with me. I'm trapped in a bizarre world and I need help out. Can you love someone too much? I see people for who they are and it affect making any friends. HELP!!!!!

Its a rock band on MTV2 and it has the name polar bear or atomic in it and the video is with some kids in a garage playing instruments and their english. Anyone know the name of song and band.

Thanks

I'm a graphic designer looking for a job that pays between 15-18 an hour so I can go to school at night. Right now I work a night job and can't attend classes during the day because I can't wake up. My BF says he'll help when he finds a new job and I've been out of school for almost 2 years. I'm at the point of giving up on school...can someone help me with sound advice as how I should proceed next.

Dealing with dysfunctional family and the after effects of it....whats yours..

I want to hear your experience and your solution. If you go through a constant cycle...tell me why? What starts it....family, environment and relationships? How did you break the cycle? Or are you in still in it?

My family were devote JW's and I had no choice but to conform...my friends, family and associates all were JW's and I was only a child. When I got old enough I got pushed out on purpose because I wanted my life back. Now I have nightmares and no one except my boyfriend in my life. From that religion, I developed several mental disorders that affect my life. I have a wonderful job, a great relationship and just finishing up college by myself but the memory still haunts me. I don't punish people for there beliefs...why did they punish me for mine? Why did I get punished for not being one of them?

And if faith is supposedly the strongest force for a belief why disassociate yourself from the rest of the world in order not to be influenced? I think if you really believe in something, nothing can discourage you!

We go to the gym together 3x a week...we both proned to being overweight..how can we help each other to slim down...he's very stubborn and so am I...is there a diet or meal plan we can get on together?

I'm 22, student, work full-time, intern, no kids, live with a roommate..people expect me to help them all the time. I have a hard time saying NO...and end up putting others before me...like my last $20 I gave to my BF, last weekend I helped a friend instead of finishing a project I've been putting off...I have dreams about disappointing people...WTF..I'm very outspoken but when I feel close to someone it's hard to tell them NO! I finally moved away from my family...they wanted alot. Eventually I just cutt the person off from my life instead of telling them no...Am I a giver..or just a chump? Help Me Out...Honest answers only!

I want a new job with all my heart and I need the motivation to get moving in that directions can anyone help me with some helpful words please!

Me and the BF have been together for 2 1/2 years. I've never met his mom because I'm black. We both work at the same job, pay the same rent and work the same shift. We're both looking for new jobs and want to pursue our careers. I'm stuck...should I do it without him and his mother or stick by my man...He loves me...he worships the ground I walk on...but I feel we could help each other out more by living together...the only thing his family would disown him.

I'm fed up what should I do? My worst fear is loosing my true love?