If a guy needs to have it, and the woman very rarely puts out. Is that a good reason for him to go else where?

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There is NEVER a good reason to go anywhere else....Show more

I love the fact that everyone assumes there's a relationship here.

If a man isn't getting the love he needs it is the BEST reason to get it elsewhere. Just the same as if he isn't getting food or water somewhere he needs to go where it's available. Being in a relationship isn't a good enough reason to neglect the things that make you feel alive. If anything it's reason to expect that your needs will be met. If you're involved with someone and they don't ttake care of you sexually. Make sure they understand your needs and if they still deprive you of sex leave them....Show more

If you are in a committed relationship, it is wrong to go somewhere else. It sounds like maybe there needs to be more communication to resolve the problems. Biblicaly speaking, there should not even be sex before marriage, however in this day and age that is very rare. If you are committed , you need to honor that commitment....Show more

Well it isn't suppose to be but sex is a powerful thing like a drug and if you don't get it you can only beg ,plead,bi$$h,piss and moan about it so long.Then you start looking rather you want to or not and believe me when your not getting it and someone offers you some your not going to be able to say no like you would if you being satisfied by your spouse or significant other!So it does cause you to wonder..Here is something i learned from my momma hope this helps out"If you have a dog and you don't feed it where is it going to go?Its going to go where ever it can find food that's where!"SO take care of your man/women and you shouldn't have to worry about it!But i really cant blame a guy if he does but I'm talking like he is going without it for months only gets its twice a month or less not someone who gets it 3 times a week and one night your girl don't want to put out I'm talking about something that is on-going.and its only getting worse not better.I don't think its right but i cant blame the guy!...Show more

Yes.

A relationship only works if people meet on all levels: emotional, mental, and physical. If a person denies physical love then the relationship is not fully committed. I would not blame someone for leaving in that case.

Some people will say that a relationship is not all about sex... and they'd be right. It's about 1/3 sex....Show more