I like this girl at my school and i think she likes me too, but i dont know how to tell her I like her Plz help me out. I got one sugestution from my friend he say right before school ends to the weekend I should kiss her and give her my phone number then leave. Do you agree? Can you inprove it? or do u have something else in mind?
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yes i agree i did that once and he hooked up wit me
Cloudyheartgurl
If a guy did that to me I'd feel SO VIOLATED!!! The girl that did that and hooked up with the guy is sorta differant.
Why?
Girls like to be in charge and guys just want to be with girls. If a girl kissed you it would be all good, hey, you 2 can hook up!!! But, if you kissed a girl without her permission she would think your too pushy. Face the facts: Most girls think you shouldnt even kiss on a first date unless the mood is ABSOULUTELY right. If you want her to date you, then she won't respond to the kiss. She'll never respect you again because you didnt respect her.
A first kiss between a couple should be special if the girl is gonna stick around!!
Also, the best first move is to not GIVE her your number (god you'll look pushy!!) but ask for hers. MSN is also a great way to flirt.
For more information, these sites give tips on asking girls out:
Step-by-steps to on the phone or real life asking out not very detailed but good advice:
http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/lovedating/ht/makeadateht.htm
This is like THE BEST lots of detail:
http://www.taibros.net/archives/2006/03/29/how-to-ask-someone-out/
More about how to prepare yourself and plan it out, very good!!
http://www.angelfire.com/gundam/deathscythe67/HowTo.htm
GOOD LUCK!! Charm her socks off!
brownsugacookie
Well u should kiss her becuse then she will know how u really feel that will be nice. Then u should give her ur # and do the LL cool J lip thing omg girl crave when boys do that. But before u even kiss her at the end of the dsy u have to tease her and flirt with her all that day because then she will kinda get an idea that u like him and it won't be so bad!
Baby boy blue
No, i dont think you should just go up to a girl and kiss her. She may not like that and you could end up in alot of trouble, instead go up to her and ask if she has any plans for the weekend and thought maybe shed want to go a movie or something. Give her your number and tell her to call you. Its that simple. Good Luck
RED-CHROME
For a relationship to start, liking someone is not enough. The other person must like us too. How do you get them to like us ? You can't... What you can do is give them the opportunity to get to know us a little and perhaps they will BEGIN to like us. That thing of giving her a kiss, and your tel number and run away sounds pretty inneficient to me. There is nothing like presenting them with your REAL self. Only then can they like us... or reject us. But hey, the beauty is that there is a lot other fish in the sea. I am reasonably experienced with the opposite sex (girls) and one thinkg I have learned... they are very complicated beings. A girls best asset is (among others, lololol) is their RIGHT to choose who they like. Violate that and you've had it with them. So BE YOURSELF and that is your best chance.