Open Relationships?

Would you swing if you could?

sexyladyinak2007-02-06T12:35:33Z

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First... for all the holy....better than though.....stuck up pigs on this site. GROW THE F**K US. What makes you think that you can judge others lifestyle. Yes I do swing and I am not a cheater, like your spouses, or a whore....look in the mirror. I am very open and honest with my spouse. I don't cheat..... Can you say the same about you or your spouse.

Anonymous2007-02-06T12:28:07Z

No. It's hard enough for most folks (including myself) to find and maintain one good longterm relationship. Adding another one is simply too much. Besides, my whole dating life I've always been a "one-man woman." I guess it's just my nature.

I have nothing against the idea of open relationships, if all partners involved are okay with it. To each their own. :) It's just something I myself am not interested in, or think I could handle.

Anonymous2007-02-06T14:38:21Z

Been there - done that.

It's not for everyone, and especially not relationships that aren't "rock solid." There's just too much chance of experiencing jealousy or performance anxiety or doubt regarding self-image.

The risks far outnumber the benefits, but it can really be fun and exciting.

For sure, don't think you'll "fix" something in the relationship by doing it.

Seanette2007-02-06T14:04:23Z

It's something that I am a bit curious about. So, if this was something that was agreed upon with my man I probably would give it a try as long we set certain rules. I find that when you and your man have a trusting understanding relationship there is nothing wrong with adding a little seasoning to it. Don't knock it until you have tried it. Hey I may like it...

Anonymous2007-02-06T12:35:14Z

Would you not swing if you could? Everybody is different I can but I choose not to swing.

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