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Monogamous Relationship, Open Relationship, No Relationship, or Abstinence?

LGBT community, which do you have or would rather have, and why?

1. Monogamous Relationship (neither of you ever strays. EVER)

2. Open Relationship (coupled, but you have mutual permission to both sleep with others)

3. No Relationship ("set your own alarm clock" as me mum says) with a lot of sexual partners

4. Abstinence

For me, I've had 1 & 3. I was Ho-bag Central in college. Lost count of sexual partners somewhere in the 400s. But now celebrating my 11th anniversary, never cheated, never will.

No right or wrong answers, no judgments, I'm just curious.

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    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm in a monogamous relationship. That's what works for me, for us.

    As for others, I don't judge. As long as it works for them and they're happy, it's not my place to butt in.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A monogamous relationship, but a purely romantic one because I'm asexual.

    Because I don't have sex, "one night stands" and such are meaningless to me. I don't think I could sustain a romantic relationship with multiple partners, or that it would be best for the people involved. The logical choice is a monogamous relationship, then.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    The first one. My SO and I have been together 3 years now. I can't imagine cheating on him! I don't think I could make the second one work. I would be too jealous and insecure.

  • 1 decade ago

    1 no question. The other 3 have no appeal to me.

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  • 1 decade ago

    First one for me. Although I've noticed that more and more gay males are going for 2 and 3.

  • Wisdom
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    The first one hands down. That is all I want, and I would have no problem with never straying.

  • 1 decade ago

    My boyfriend and I have been monogamous and proud of it for a year and a half now :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My Wife and I do #2. Have for 21 years. Life is so much better this way. None of those annoying "Is he sleeping with so and so" questions. We don't have to ask,we tell each other who we're going to be with so there's no guessing at all.

  • i honestly am number 4. but i would like number 1. virgin here lolz xD

  • 1 decade ago

    Having been into 1 & 3 , you had the safest

    Try the rest ... who knows ? your happiness could be there !!!

    If you're asking the question, it means your mind is roaming outside 1 & 3 ...

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