okay you know when you can't wait for your birthday because all the fun things that your going to do well yeah my B-day is coming. but there is one thing that bothers me so much. theres this girl ( my uncles daughter) she's having her 15th birthday ( yeah woohoo) but the thing is well its on MY lucky day ( b-day) and well ever since that all the attention was on her. the stupid dresses and yad yad yada. yeah and well i feel really sad well mad now i just need help. before i do something stupid like ruin her b-day party ( or should I ?)
2007-03-29T18:54:57Z
the thing is is that her birthday was in FEBUARY okay!?!?! and no so far were not that close i barely meet her
2007-03-29T19:01:13Z
no im younger
2007-03-29T19:10:58Z
ding ding your correct Kris L
Kris L2007-03-29T19:05:30Z
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I'm guessing that this girl is having not a 'birthday' but a Quinceanera ... to celebrate her 'womanhood' in Hispanic families ... and since you are 'younger' you are 'jealous' because of all of the talk of the 'dresses' and other stuff, and are 'mad' because her 'party' is on your birthday. IT IS FINE TO BE ANGRY! You may NOT 'ruin her party' though ... the 'worst' you can do is just 'not go' ... maybe if you can find something 'fun' you can do 'alone' or with your own age friends to celebrate your birthday, it would be 'better' for all of you ... so TALK TO YOUR PARENTS and tell them 'how bad you feel' about this girl 'stealing your birthday thunder' and ask them for 'help' in celebrating 'on your own.'
Don't ruin her birthday - if you do yours will be ruined also. Tell your mom how you are feeling and have her do something special for your birthday. You need to have your own birthday party - not share. But be gracious about it - if you don't you are going to look very bad.
Dont ruin her party. Try to have fun with everyone. They will know it is your birthday too dont worry about it. You will have your day in the sun even if it is not on your birthday. So dont worry.
don't ruin her birthday! especially if you are older than her-and if you are sounds to me like you are being very selfish!!!birthdays come and go-some people treat them so wonderfully-well when you are about 17 years old it is time to celebrate with friends as well as family but don't make such a big deal about it- you are just one year older! and congratulations to that-so quit being so selfish about your self it is her birthday as well maybe wish her a happy birthday as well and she may just say it back-