IM DEPRESSED??????????? please help ???????

I'm guessing that this girl is having not a 'birthday' but a Quinceanera ... to celebrate her 'womanhood' in Hispanic families ... and since you are 'younger' you are 'jealous' because of all of the talk of the 'dresses' and other stuff, and are 'mad' because her 'party' is on your birthday. IT IS FINE TO BE ANGRY! You may NOT 'ruin her party' though ... the 'worst' you can do is just 'not go' ... maybe if you can find something 'fun' you can do 'alone' or with your own age friends to celebrate your birthday, it would be 'better' for all of you ... so TALK TO YOUR PARENTS and tell them 'how bad you feel' about this girl 'stealing your birthday thunder' and ask them for 'help' in celebrating 'on your own.'

Don't ruin her birthday - if you do yours will be ruined also. Tell your mom how you are feeling and have her do something special for your birthday. You need to have your own birthday party - not share. But be gracious about it - if you don't you are going to look very bad.

Dont ruin her party. Try to have fun with everyone. They will know it is your birthday too dont worry about it. You will have your day in the sun even if it is not on your birthday. So dont worry.

Ideally, if you two were friends, you two could have a birthday party together.

If not (and I'm guessing from your question you're not), then tell your parents how you feel and hopefully they'll help you.

don't ruin her birthday! especially if you are older than her-and if you are sounds to me like you are being very selfish!!!birthdays come and go-some people treat them so wonderfully-well when you are about 17 years old it is time to celebrate with friends as well as family but don't make such a big deal about it- you are just one year older! and congratulations to that-so quit being so selfish about your self it is her birthday as well maybe wish her a happy birthday as well and she may just say it back-

Please be more immature. Just because you guys have the same birthday doesn't mean you have to ruin hers to make yours stand out more. Which it wouldn't. Everyone would just think your a jelous ***** for being so damn selfish. Think about other people for once. Birthdays aren't even that important.

cheer up !!!just go along with it ,celebrate your b-day on hers or whenever.don't ruin her party, just pretend to be happy and maybe you will even have a little fun. good luck

Dont ruin her birthday.

i say ruin the party!!!!!!!!!!!!! throw your own, and invite everyone, and tell them u might b dying of cancer, so they better come to your (maybe) last birthday party.

well dont ruin her bday. are your friends still gonna come to ur party? if they are then get over it