Is the third date too soon to give oral sex? ?

There was a day when a ******* from a respectable woman had the currency equivalent of a Corvette. You would'nt just give a guy a 'Vette for going out 3 times, would you? Today they are worth about as much as those Bird scooters you see discarded everywhere. Yay for empowerment, ladies.

I'm going to give you my honest opinion. I think a third date is too early for oral sex. You should get to know him better before you start having sex, even if was just oral sex. I understand that you really like him, but I would rather have you get to know him better and make sure he's here for you and not for sex, than have your heart broken if he acually is there just for sex. I'm not saying he's a bad guy or anything, I'm just recommending you wait a bit longer. 

If it turned you doing it, then that's all that matters, it turns me on going down on a girl. Don't think about it too much just get on with it, life's too short.

he should have eaten you

Wow, there sure are a lot of prudes on here. Third date...you're fine.

Good luck!

If you have not had sex after the 3rd date, I'm sure he's decided that you are a user. You are trying for free meals and entertainment. A little fellatio now and then is wonderful, but meaningless unless you are having regular sex. A quicky BJ or hand job now and then to keep him interested is just teasing. If you  can't do you part in a relationship, with sex, don't be surprised if there is no 4th date. You should have done the oral and more, on the first date.

When you say he's "a bit older", how much?  Usually people just give ages, and this might matter.

Overall, in my dating days this was way too early, but I'm not you.  I do think if this bothers you or you're second guessing it you need to talk to him.  One way to know for sure whether he's "here for the right reasons" is to tell him what you said here.  You don't usually do that but you like him.  Then just tell him you'd prefer to dial back on that for a bit.  If he's respectful and understanding, I'd say you have a keeper.

I think that giving oral is a bit much most of the time if I barely know someone. But that's just me. You have to use your own judgment.  

My boyfriend earns oral.... that's how it has to be

None of us know him specifically, so can’t really predict how this might impact things with him. It is possible that he may feel that you are “easy” and view you as more of a hookup option than someone he wants to get to know on a more serious level. It’s possible that he may feel that the chase is now over, and assume that you’ll be dtf all the time going forward. It’s also possible that it won’t change anything between you. 

I would suggest that you give a little thought as to why you did this if you weren’t sure if the timing was right. You say that you really like him, did you do this because you wanted to show him that you liked him, or to try and get him to like you more? It doesn’t sound like it was a reciprocal situation, so it wasn’t like he gave equal time and attention to you, so was this only about his pleasure? You’re an adult and can do whatever you want to, just make sure you understand the reasons why you are doing things. If you do them because it is something you really want to do do it makes you feel good, that’s fine. But if you feel like there’s an expectation or pressure to do it, you should think twice about it, especially if you are feeling like it could be too soon.

It's ALWAYS a good time for oral sex, IMHO.