Guys, would you want a girl you've been seeing to show up at your baseball game?
I have been seeing this guy who lives 90 min. away....he has a baseball game tonight and I want to surprise him and show up to watch him. ( I was at his game last week but he knew I would be there.) Do you think this is a good idea? I know that he doesn't see anyone else so it's not like another woman would be there...........
From a guy's perspective, would this show you that I care, I mean driving 3 hrs. round trip or would it make you feel weird? thanks....
2007-04-30T10:42:34Z
hmmm...I will be taking my kids with me (he loves them) so no hooking up afterwards :-)
Ron2007-04-30T10:39:51Z
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I would have let him known that you were coming. In some cases the guy might feel as if that is his personal time and by you just showing up he could feel like you were invading that space. But on the other hand depending on the guy could show how much he means to you. Over all in most cases I would say to let him know.
IF YOUR WILLING TO DRIVE AN HOUR AND A HALF I THINK IT WOULD BE A GREAT IDEA IN A RELATIONSHIP THE BEST REACTIONS ARE IN THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE PLUS IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR THE KIDS TO WATCH THE GAME NO I WOULD ENJOY THAT YOU WERE THOUGHTFUL ENOUGH AND THAT WOULD LEAVE AN AWESOME FEELING SO GO FOR IT
DO IT! It's always a good feeling to look over to the bleachers and see a special someone there cheering you on. I know I love it when I'm playing softball.
Its a good idea, i am sure he will appreciate it. To the last part of your question, if he is seeing anyone else, then its good too. you will not be cheated any more , and it will make it easy for you to move on.