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Guys, would you want a girl you've been seeing to show up at your baseball game?

I have been seeing this guy who lives 90 min. away....he has a baseball game tonight and I want to surprise him and show up to watch him. ( I was at his game last week but he knew I would be there.) Do you think this is a good idea? I know that he doesn't see anyone else so it's not like another woman would be there...........

From a guy's perspective, would this show you that I care, I mean driving 3 hrs. round trip or would it make you feel weird? thanks....

Update:

hmmm...I will be taking my kids with me (he loves them) so no hooking up afterwards :-)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I would have let him known that you were coming. In some cases the guy might feel as if that is his personal time and by you just showing up he could feel like you were invading that space. But on the other hand depending on the guy could show how much he means to you. Over all in most cases I would say to let him know.

  • 1 decade ago

    IF YOUR WILLING TO DRIVE AN HOUR AND A HALF I THINK IT WOULD BE A GREAT IDEA IN A RELATIONSHIP THE BEST REACTIONS ARE IN THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE PLUS IT WOULD BE GOOD FOR THE KIDS TO WATCH THE GAME NO I WOULD ENJOY THAT YOU WERE THOUGHTFUL ENOUGH AND THAT WOULD LEAVE AN AWESOME FEELING SO GO FOR IT

  • 1 decade ago

    DO IT! It's always a good feeling to look over to the bleachers and see a special someone there cheering you on. I know I love it when I'm playing softball.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that is an awesome surprise. You really must care alot about him to do that. Only if there were more women like you around.

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  • Iqbal
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    1 decade ago

    Its a good idea, i am sure he will appreciate it. To the last part of your question, if he is seeing anyone else, then its good too. you will not be cheated any more , and it will make it easy for you to move on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i say tell him before, what if he did not show up at the game lol

    plus if I were driving all the way out there i would try to "hook up" with him soem way while out there, so mkae sure he does not have any other plans etc.

  • 1 decade ago

    ..I'm not a guy, but I know that my guy would appreciate it.

    i should add that we also have been the best of friends for 4 years and have been dating for about 8 months so...your situation could be extremely different

  • 1 decade ago

    If you go there and show him that your there then he'd think you'd care. Support him, call out his name, show your presence and at the end tell him how great he was and that you only came for and if it were someone else you wouldnt have bothered. ;-)

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it would be sweet!! Don't interupt his game, just watch and support, offer to go for a bite afterward. Make sure he knows your there when you arrive. WAVE:-)

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it would be a good idea, i mean I would love my girl showing up. You can cheer him on.

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