Guys: If a girl was funny, honest, and fun, but was a bigger girl, would you take the chance, honestly?
I am a big girl. No shame in that. I have tried numerous times to find that special someone. Guys love my funny, energetic, outgoing personality, but can't seem to get past my image. I have lost a considerable amount of weight, and still, I get crap because of my weight. Guys seem to only want to be "just a friend". Is there any chance of me finding someone the way I am now, or do I have to wait until I drop all of my weight?
fanny2007-05-06T19:25:08Z
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the first thing u shld do is love yourself and believe in u, im big also and i never thought i could find someone who will love me for who i am but u shld love and believe in yourself first before somebody will notice u.
I live in a town full of attractive people, and it seems the skinny girls get used for sex, but the plump girls get the real relationships where the guy comes home to them every night. Despite the popular myth, it seems bigger girls have the upper hand.
I met a girl playing cards at Club Pogo dot com; she weighs 3 times what I do - REALLY. I was in Los Angeles & she was in a little town in KY.
Long story, short: I moved to KY & we're both glad I did.
*MORAL* Ya never know when/where/how you're going to meet someone you can really care about. Kinda gives new meaning to the old saying, "Size doesn't matter."
honestly, no I wouldn't take the chance, sorry, but some amount of physical attraction is required to get a girl "in the door" then all the other good things you said about yourself is what would keep the girl "in" its rough but that's human nature, so don't blame me I didn't write human nature
You know I'm a big girl too, but what guys seem to like is that I am not ashamed of it that I don't try and pretend it doesn't exist, I think if it doesn't matter to you, it won't matter to them, don't make it a big issue but don't tried to hide it as well. Good Luck!