My sister is so mean to me, but yet I do all my best to make her happy.Read below for details.?
My sister's best friend, Kayla, never lets me be around my sister any more.Everytime we (my sister and I) eat at the breakfast table Kayla tells her to go somewhere else with her, so they move.I always try to impress her.She doesn't even talk to me anymore.She acts like a am a three year old.I don't even smile anymore, because she makes me so depressed.I try to inpress in anyway I can, but it doesn't work.Her best friend took my sister away, but my sister doesn't even care.Her best friend tells me to f**k of all the time, but why would my sister care.Everytime I say hello to her in school she pulls her away from me and tells her not to say anything.I am a depressed little sister.My teacher asked my why I didn't smile anymore.I couldn't tell her though.I wonder does she even like me anymore.I remembered when we were little we used to play together all the time.She doesn't even talk to me when we are at our house.I need help despertly.I need to know away to make them not be best friends.
2007-05-09T14:11:58Z
My sister's best friend, Kayla, never lets me be around my sister any more.Everytime we (my sister and I) eat at the breakfast table Kayla tells her to go somewhere else with her, so they move.I always try to impress her.She doesn't even talk to me anymore.She acts like a am a three year old.I don't even smile anymore, because she makes me so depressed.I try to inpress in anyway I can, but it doesn't work.Her best friend took my sister away, but my sister doesn't even care.Her best friend tells me to f**k of all the time, but why would my sister care.Everytime I say hello to her in school she pulls her away from me and tells her not to say anything.I am a depressed little sister.My teacher asked my why I didn't smile anymore.I couldn't tell her though.I wonder does she even like me anymore.I remembered when we were little we used to play together all the time.She doesn't even talk to me.My mom/dad says it's my problem.I need to know away to make them not be best friends.
jus_me2007-05-17T07:37:59Z
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It seem to me that ur sister needs to get a mind of her own. The BF is in the center of all this, it sounds like she's just a B***H!! What u need to do is sit ur sister down and have a heart to heart talk. And if things doesn't get better from their, then maybe ur sister just doesn't want that sister to sister friendship. We all know that family is important but we also know that u can't force urself on someone(family or not). Don't kick urself down because of it, Live ur Life. Running to ur parents is not going to help, that up to u and ur sister. U can tell ur parents but that not going to make her like u. JUST REMEMBER SHE'S GOING TO NEED U BEFORE U NEED HER!!!!
Hi..I'm not sure how old you are but you might want to explain this issue with your parents. Maybe they can solve the problem for you. This friend of your sisters in manipulative to where your sister is doing exactly what her friend says. This is not a good sign and needs to be stopped ASAP! If you don't want your parents to become involved then before you go to sleep or when this friend isn't hanging around, go to your sister and tell her "whats up" and that you don't appreciate her friend telling her what to do. That your sisterhood is fading away due to her friends actions. If this doesn't work, then I would suggest, ignore your sister. Fight fire with fire. Show her that this friend doesn't bother you and you don't need her or her friend that you have other friends to be with. Sometimes one doesn't realize what they had until they lose it. Your sister will come back around when she finds out that this Kayla wasn't really a good friend after all. Take care and God bless.
Friends come and go in our lifes, but, NO MATTER what, you and your sister will ALWAYS be sisters. Maybe your sister is just trying to have a friend of her own, maybe it makes her feel more grown up to have seprate friends from you, but,....that WILL CHANGE. How do I know ? My older sister and I went through the same thing when we were younger, and ( seems like a long time ,) but within a few months later, after the "newness" of her friendship wore off, we got closer again, and as you get older, you WILL get closer and closer. Just be nice to your sister, give her her space, for now, and I promise, it will be O.K. !!!! Every time you "feel like being mean to your sister because she is hurting your feelings, DON'T be, that is the BEST way to let her realize how much you love, and miss her! Blood is thicker than water. That means you are family, (blood), and everyone else in your lifes will never closer than blood. If this is still bothering you this much in a couple of weeks, I agree with the other people, talk to your parents about it, also I think it would be totally O.K. to talk to your teacher, they wouldn't have ask you about how you are feeling if they didn't care. Grown up's arn't as bad as we something might think they are, they understand....they have "been there"! BEST of LUCK to You!
Kim...You need to know that your sister and you are always going to have good and bad times. Believe it or not but there may even come a time when your sister wants to talk to you and you won't have anything to do with her. For now, here are some things that I would do. Don't try to impress anyone: people will like you for who you are, not who you pretend to be. Ignore anything that Kayla says: Nothing will make Kayla madder than if she is ignored. Spend more time with your friends. Do not try to break up your sister and Kayla: I know it will be tough but anything you do will probably push them closer. In time your sister will find another best friend...It could even be you...
I'm sure ur sister must love u.Maybe she'll realise when she will need u. Then I don't think it is a good idea to separate ur sister from Kayla. Ur sister will hate u. The best way is to comunicate with her. If she does not want to talk to u verbally then talk through papers or by someone, lets say a friend of u two. Tell ur sister what Kayla is doing and see the outcome.