My sister is so mean to me, but yet I do all my best to make her happy.Read below for details.?

It seem to me that ur sister needs to get a mind of her own. The BF is in the center of all this, it sounds like she's just a B***H!! What u need to do is sit ur sister down and have a heart to heart talk. And if things doesn't get better from their, then maybe ur sister just doesn't want that sister to sister friendship. We all know that family is important but we also know that u can't force urself on someone(family or not). Don't kick urself down because of it, Live ur Life. Running to ur parents is not going to help, that up to u and ur sister. U can tell ur parents but that not going to make her like u. JUST REMEMBER SHE'S GOING TO NEED U BEFORE U NEED HER!!!!

Hi..I'm not sure how old you are but you might want to explain this issue with your parents. Maybe they can solve the problem for you. This friend of your sisters in manipulative to where your sister is doing exactly what her friend says. This is not a good sign and needs to be stopped ASAP! If you don't want your parents to become involved then before you go to sleep or when this friend isn't hanging around, go to your sister and tell her "whats up" and that you don't appreciate her friend telling her what to do. That your sisterhood is fading away due to her friends actions. If this doesn't work, then I would suggest, ignore your sister. Fight fire with fire. Show her that this friend doesn't bother you and you don't need her or her friend that you have other friends to be with. Sometimes one doesn't realize what they had until they lose it. Your sister will come back around when she finds out that this Kayla wasn't really a good friend after all. Take care and God bless.

Friends come and go in our lifes, but, NO MATTER what, you and your sister will ALWAYS be sisters. Maybe your sister is just trying to have a friend of her own, maybe it makes her feel more grown up to have seprate friends from you, but,....that WILL CHANGE. How do I know ? My older sister and I went through the same thing when we were younger, and ( seems like a long time ,) but within a few months later, after the "newness" of her friendship wore off, we got closer again, and as you get older, you WILL get closer and closer. Just be nice to your sister, give her her space, for now, and I promise, it will be O.K. !!!! Every time you "feel like being mean to your sister because she is hurting your feelings, DON'T be, that is the BEST way to let her realize how much you love, and miss her! Blood is thicker than water. That means you are family, (blood), and everyone else in your lifes will never closer than blood. If this is still bothering you this much in a couple of weeks, I agree with the other people, talk to your parents about it, also I think it would be totally O.K. to talk to your teacher, they wouldn't have ask you about how you are feeling if they didn't care. Grown up's arn't as bad as we something might think they are, they understand....they have "been there"! BEST of LUCK to You!

Kim...You need to know that your sister and you are always going to have good and bad times. Believe it or not but there may even come a time when your sister wants to talk to you and you won't have anything to do with her. For now, here are some things that I would do. Don't try to impress anyone: people will like you for who you are, not who you pretend to be. Ignore anything that Kayla says: Nothing will make Kayla madder than if she is ignored. Spend more time with your friends. Do not try to break up your sister and Kayla: I know it will be tough but anything you do will probably push them closer. In time your sister will find another best friend...It could even be you...

I'm sure ur sister must love u.Maybe she'll realise when she will need u. Then I don't think it is a good idea to separate ur sister from Kayla. Ur sister will hate u. The best way is to comunicate with her. If she does not want to talk to u verbally then talk through papers or by someone, lets say a friend of u two. Tell ur sister what Kayla is doing and see the outcome.

Well first try to see if well does your sister like her bestfriend? Or is your sister being mean to you as her friend kayla is? I know its hard to tell a parent or teacher but could you try? If you dont want to then try to get alone with your sister and tell fer whats going on! If it doesnt work Then try to be noticed by your sister and say I dont like your friend she is saying all this junk to me, and hopefully things will work out! Stop trying to impress kayla she will just shut you down in a flash and laugh. Keep your chin up hope for the best and ignore kayle and shun the bad words!

I can relate to what you are saying. I am the youngest of two and the worst experience that I ever had was being at the same college with my sister for a year. She treated me as a child there and I knew that I was grown. My mother suffered a stroke and my sister and I had been fighting days before and I just didn't think that she really loved me. But my mother had the stroke and it caused us to really look at the small things that we were fighting over. My sister showed how much she loved me by leaving a job at GA Tech and coming home to care for our mother so that I would not have to drop out of college. To answer your question I guess would be to just talk about things and let her know that it's time to stop treating me like a child before happens like in my case to bring you together.

You shouldn't try to keep them from being best friends. That will only make things worse. You really need to try to sit down and talk with your sister when her friend is not around. Explain to her how you feel and how much you miss her. Also pray about the situation. Ask for strength and guidance in this area. Don't give up. Your sister will come around!

I think you might need to take this one to your parents. Your sister's friend is being quite a nasty little thing, and they not only need to know how miserable it's making you, but that your sister is hanging out with someone who may be a bad influence.

dont try to impress her she your older sis she is going through life changes as well as you remember blood is thicker than water when you really need her she will be there for you in the mean time just concentrate on your self and other friends give your sis some space and she will be there for you