what is wrong with me???

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I have no idea how to explain my prob in words, but i can try: My best friend and i are TOTAL and COMPLETE opposites.she is the type of girl who is all into sports and i love shopping and hate sports,but we get along and understand each other like no1 could ever believe.she is always quesioning our friendshipand stuff like that and it bothers me. then, there is my other friend,ali,who cares about the love of her 13 year old life and him ONLY. or at least thats how it seems.she is a really good person and all but i mean she gets on my nerves a lot talking about him and all....i dont no y but today in the lunch line she said something about our friend,christa,like"how could u ever be mad at my(meaning her) perfect little christa" but christa is 1 of my best friends to and it really bothered me. i no i really need to calm down, but i cant for some reason.please dont be mean i cant handle that right now.i need to no wat i can/should do about my friends...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If your friend is questioning you about your friendship and it makes you feel uncomfortable then you should tell her your a good person and you dont say mean stuff behind your friends back.I believe you and I hope she does to.I can tell your feeling left out and it happens to me all the time.Just try to talk to her and let her know how you feel. Good Luck!!

Anonymous · Answer

the opposite friend: just ask her why she's always questioning your friendship.

Ali: Tell her that she's being really annoying. Tell her that you don't mind hearing about this guy, but not every second of everyday, y'know? About the Christa girl, pull Ali to the side and ask her what she meant when she said that to Christa.

I hope everything works out! God Bless and Good Luck! :)

snocean_girl · Answer

Absolutley NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU i have had this problem before! well, for your complete opposite try to fing something that you both enjoy it may be hard but you both have to like something!! Maybe the movies??? or maybe you can agree to play a sport with her if she agrees to go shopping with you. As for your other friend Ali, just simply say I know you love this boy but there are more interesting things going on in your and my life that we could talk about together. or maybe you can listen to her talk for just 5 minutes and then she has to listen TO YOU for 5 minutes ive done this befor and when my friend listened to me, she caught interest in something i said and talked about that instead of her subject.

Sorry for the length but i hope this helps try to calm down

what is wrong with me???

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