I mean he really likes me and I know that. But I don't want to tell him right on his face that I don't like him. How can I let him know that without hurting him? And after that, we still can be friends. Cuz he's a really good guy. I don't wanna lose a friend like him.
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hi; your so sweet, i do understand your problem. all you need to say is so n so his name i think your a really nice guy and a good friend,it's just that i don't feel that way about you, i want to be friends just not like that..ok? you couln't really say it to much better than that,just be kind about it.now listen if he is or think s that hes in love with you things could get a bit more difficult,all i mean is sometimes if they are they might try to put you on a guilt trip,don't allow this most guys that want you that bad can't just be your friend,be willing to accept that ok.
Chasity C
Easy do things that hints to him we are friends and nothing but friends. Continue to joke with him like you do and introduce him to your boyfriends. Constantly tell him you are a good friend. I had someone like that acted like he couldn't get the clue. So I did what advice i just gave you. I had to deal with him coming on to me and rubbing on me. So he finally got the clue.
Colleen
You can't. You just have to be honest. He'd certainly rather know the truth than have you make up some lame excuse to try and make him feel better.
navigate33
honesty is the best policy so he doesnt get hurt